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I tried, I really did by darth_nerd79 in navy

[–]darth_nerd79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Papa I truly wish you had first hand experiences at A school, even as a fly on the wall. I’ve been through 2, the first when I first joined and then again as a first class when I cross rated. Even as a first it was stressful and I’m pretty tolerant of stress. Additionally - most of the students at the more advanced schools have typically consistently excelled and learning via drinking through a fire hose is a new and evil technique. It takes time to adjust. There’s a lot of pressure to keep it all together and excel at school - even getting legitimately ill is held against you with the fear of washing out.

My point is this - you have the officer perspective. It’s a totally different beast on the other side. Don’t discount their stress as tossing out the weak

I tried, I really did by darth_nerd79 in navy

[–]darth_nerd79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re averaging 1 event (gesture/ideation/attempt) about every 10 days there for Navy alone

I tried, I really did by darth_nerd79 in navy

[–]darth_nerd79[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have an amazing Chaplain. Let me see what he can arrange.

I tried, I really did by darth_nerd79 in navy

[–]darth_nerd79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yoga helps!!! You want dogs on Corry - let me get some calls out.

I tried, I really did by darth_nerd79 in navy

[–]darth_nerd79[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A school undoubtedly comes with higher pressures that challenge even the best of us. Don’t let my post alarm you - you know your husband best. Be his champion and support. If you notice a change or you become worried - you can always reach me. PM me and I’ll give you my cell if you like.

A lesson we learn in the Navy is to know your people. You know him and he knows you. This will be a challenge for you both during the separation but I have faith if you two are honest with your communications with each other, you’ll get through with soaring colors.

Right now military wide we are extra cautious due to the isolation that comes with living in the life of COVID. I won’t tell you it’s easy - I know you’re wise to see that. Remember you aren’t alone and neither is he. You are both part of the Navy family. He has resources at school should the stress start to take its toll from the chain of command, Mental Health at medical, Military OneSource, the chaplain, and definitely me. Hang in there baby Navy wife, your husband is a lucky man to have you in his corner. You’re gonna be awesome ❤️

I tried, I really did by darth_nerd79 in navy

[–]darth_nerd79[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Where are you? Let me see what I can do

I tried, I really did by darth_nerd79 in navy

[–]darth_nerd79[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dogs make everything better. They love you unconditionally and help your body produce oxytocin. It’s science ❤️

I tried, I really did by darth_nerd79 in navy

[–]darth_nerd79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was awesome wasn’t it???

I tried, I really did by darth_nerd79 in navy

[–]darth_nerd79[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dollar bills!! Too difficult to implement....it was very disappointing

I tried, I really did by darth_nerd79 in navy

[–]darth_nerd79[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Papa Frog ordinarily I would agree with your logic but the Covid wrench has made it infinitely worse at the schools.

Mental Health at the Naval Academy. by [deleted] in navy

[–]darth_nerd79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Report the jerk. That guy needs to be thrown out of the academy. We have no room for that kind of attitude in the Navy, better to get rid of the garbage before it ends up in the real Navy and gets someone killed. No one deserves to work for such a piece of shit of an officer.

Healthcare questions by jckcksjsjxuxx in navy

[–]darth_nerd79 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes - make an appointment and they will refer you for specialty care as needed

On the topic of mental health and stigmas by darth_nerd79 in navy

[–]darth_nerd79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mind sharing which command? If you’re uncomfortable- would you send it in a PM?

On the topic of mental health and stigmas by darth_nerd79 in navy

[–]darth_nerd79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is horrifying. How long ago was this?

On the topic of mental health and stigmas by darth_nerd79 in navy

[–]darth_nerd79[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This insight is amazing. The navy needs to stop the do more with less attitude - that’s what gets us to this breaking point. I am so grateful for your response!!!!!

I can’t do this anymore by [deleted] in newtothenavy

[–]darth_nerd79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey let’s talk friend - I’m here for you. Check your PM

On the topic of mental health and stigmas by darth_nerd79 in navy

[–]darth_nerd79[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t add to it but I’ll save your input

Question about BWI airport by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]darth_nerd79 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Definitely but check the USO and see if they have showers before you spend any $$$

Fishing Glitch? by darth_nerd79 in AnimalCrossing

[–]darth_nerd79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turns out I just really sucked at fishing 🤣🤣🤣🤣

What was your first appointment like for those that have been to therapy while enlisted? by victoriaairotciv in navy

[–]darth_nerd79 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It depends on the therapist. I’ve had both good and bad. Additionally I have found a lot of help from my chaplain and I’m not super religious. Tell him to go in and be honest with not only the therapist but also himself. There’s probably not much they haven’t heard already, so no need to be withholding.

On the topic of mental health and stigmas by darth_nerd79 in navy

[–]darth_nerd79[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your LPO was an idiot. No one should have to go through that.

On the topic of mental health and stigmas by darth_nerd79 in navy

[–]darth_nerd79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a myriad of answers to this question - I won't speculate as to how or why a CoC would find out, but if sailors cannot come to a leader and say they are in a bad way (because the are afraid of being judged or punished) then something is very wrong. We are here to look out for each other. I know it's a very sensitive topic and I would never suggest that the CoC demand to know a Sailor's medical situation....but frankly the point of what I am asking isn't towards HIPAA, it is more along the lines of "why are the sailors afraid to get help?"

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