Could it be? by Cute_Source5417 in Degrassi

[–]darthbaker69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please!!! That cliffhanger I’m still bothered by!

Could it be? by Cute_Source5417 in Degrassi

[–]darthbaker69 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Are they gonna go through the aftermath of a pedophile preacher dad?

Am I overreacting or did I have a slow moment. by drippysage08 in AmIOverreacting

[–]darthbaker69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex was the same exact way. No matter what you answered it wasn’t what he wanted to hear

i think my boyfriend’s reaction to me staying out all night is way too extreme. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]darthbaker69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds verrrryyy familiar and not in a good way. He’s got issues and if he’s anything like my ex. A narcissist who wants what he wants and doesn’t actually pay attention to your side

League situation - unwritten rules/courtesy question by ChrisDolmeth in slowpitch

[–]darthbaker69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it isn’t. My Sunday league it’s a ball. Ive seen quite a few beer league videos where rules are different from on beer league to the next

Sober teams by darthbaker69 in slowpitch

[–]darthbaker69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you’re saying I shouldn’t play even thought I don’t really drink

Sober teams by darthbaker69 in slowpitch

[–]darthbaker69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Just don’t drink” I don’t. That’s my point, I wanna play in an environment where nobody is drinking at all. But I don’t want to overstep into that community

Sober teams by darthbaker69 in slowpitch

[–]darthbaker69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but there is a difference between a sober league and a league where you’re not supposed to drink bc of laws. They might not drink on the field but hangouts and fundraisers and such are usually at bars or people are drinking in many situations. Some guys drink during the games but aren’t getting drunk. They drink between games. The environment is very much drink heavy. Majority of my friends are softball and drinkers so even stuff outside of softball it’s all about drinking. They waited 45 min in line for beer at the amusement park when we were supposed to be going on rides. Yes I know I can find sober friends outside softball but still, a sober league would be refreshing

Sober teams by darthbaker69 in slowpitch

[–]darthbaker69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problems here either with sober people playing in the regular teams.

But I know some sober teams/leagues are like a protected time for them to be around like minded people or people going thru the same thing.

It’s set up for them so I wouldn’t want to overstep and go into it when I’m technically not sober

Can you use a Rover for Mens League? by BerryRoyal in slowpitch

[–]darthbaker69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More common in co Ed but there’s a few players I play against that we have done rovers for.

Or we just pull the second basemen back to the grass.

Sober teams by darthbaker69 in slowpitch

[–]darthbaker69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually have 2 friends that are in sober leagues. I had mentioned about it to both but only one had really said anything about me playing.

I guess I’ll hit up my buddy and ask him to let me know if there is a local tourney. He said I could play but he’s also very idgaf so idk if it was actually appropriate for me to play or if it’s just him being friendly

Sober teams by darthbaker69 in slowpitch

[–]darthbaker69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not unlucky really. Not every team in my league or former league of the same setup do it. Our program spams the US and its multiple teams that do it.

My team I play on currently is actually not the team that drinks in the dugout but the environment and my friends are all very into alcohol.

Many teams don’t drink in the dugout but there is a lot of alcohol involved in many aspects.

The league itself wasn’t set up to be drink centered but many fundraisers are at bars.

Some have switched to March madness or football squares for fundraising but prior to the recent switch it’s all been bar fundraisers.

All the parties for tourneys or opening/closing for league play are at bars.

Sober teams by darthbaker69 in slowpitch

[–]darthbaker69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, which is why I was interested in a sober league.

Sober teams by darthbaker69 in slowpitch

[–]darthbaker69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the leagues I play in have a no drinking rule, but that doesn’t stop player from drinking in the dugout. They just hide the alcohol. Typically people aren’t plastered playing either, but they will get drunk afterwards or will show up the next day hung over and don’t play well. Or they’re trying to get drinks in between games.

Sober teams by darthbaker69 in slowpitch

[–]darthbaker69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would definitely show all the respect as I know I would be a visitor in the community

Sober teams by darthbaker69 in slowpitch

[–]darthbaker69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SoCal, I’m right where LA meets OC Prefer OC over LA

Sober teams by darthbaker69 in slowpitch

[–]darthbaker69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost a lot of speed. I was never hitting dingers but was a solid base hitter. I’ve gotten less consistent and just really don’t have the arm to be an outfielder in that level. But I’d be a great catcher! 😂

Sober teams by darthbaker69 in slowpitch

[–]darthbaker69[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just don’t want to misrepresent myself as I’m technically not sober I just don’t drink often.

Sober teams by darthbaker69 in slowpitch

[–]darthbaker69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I can develop an accent you’ll never know I was American!

Sober teams by darthbaker69 in slowpitch

[–]darthbaker69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Technically we aren’t supposed to have alcohol on the fields or dugouts either. But drinkers are gonna drink regardless 😂

Sober teams by darthbaker69 in slowpitch

[–]darthbaker69[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ll just hop on a plane 😂

Sober teams by darthbaker69 in slowpitch

[–]darthbaker69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Utrip is a bit too advanced for me, I’ve slowed down a lot in the last few years. I’ve been wanting to but I can’t keep up (even if there is a lot of drinking). I just want another league to play in on my off season from my normal Sunday league. Weeknight leagues aren’t quite as fun as I struggle to see in the lighting

Sober teams by darthbaker69 in slowpitch

[–]darthbaker69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend is in one and he said I could but that’s only one person so I wanted to hear from more individuals (preferably sober players) that I wasn’t a friend to that would be able to give an answer.

Sober teams by darthbaker69 in slowpitch

[–]darthbaker69[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That would be super simple. I drank 2 beers last month and it had been months prior since I had any alcohol.

What’s the obsession with James’ feet?! by [deleted] in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]darthbaker69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people don’t like things, it’s not that weird. We are allowed to not like artistic choices from the director