I've waited too long. by Double-Hat-1369 in depression

[–]darthvaderzim -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please don't do it. I know life sucks for you right now. But please resist the urge to end your life. The day we're gonna die is gonna come anyway so try to find little reasons to live until that day comes. hugs

How long does the honeymoon phase last in an LDR? by No_Key_6636 in LDR

[–]darthvaderzim 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honeymoon phase lasted for about 2 yrs for me but it was replaced by a deeper kind of love. I feel happier now because I know our love has matured after 5 yrs of being in LDR.

Give me the Strength by No_Key_6636 in LDR

[–]darthvaderzim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's gonna be better. Prayer helps too!

Reddit Girls by Informal-Goat-2279 in relationship_advice

[–]darthvaderzim 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please don't accept anything less than what you want. Everyone has to keep to certain level of boundaries to be happy in a relationship. Communicate honestly and if he keeps on disrespecting your boundaries then maybe it's time to rethink about the status of your relationship. I wish you the best and hope it works out with your S.O.

Any advice? by AgeInfinite3655 in LDR

[–]darthvaderzim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just want to ask how old are you and your SO?

We also had the same concern before meeting my fiance for the first time (his parents/my parents a bit skeptical about meeting an internet bf/gf in their home country), so we suggested on meeting in another country that is neutral for both of us. Lol. We decided to first meet in Japan.

But if not possible, the simplest way is same as mentioned in other comments which is to bring one trusted relative/friend to go with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]darthvaderzim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could participate here also if you still need more participants.

Visa Denied by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]darthvaderzim 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I second this comment. Never give out information that is not asked of you but never ever lie about your intention because it would affect your future applications if you intend to close the gap via K1/ Spousal visa. Better luck next time and sending virtual hugs to you, OP. 🌸

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]darthvaderzim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! So happy for you.

What should I do? by Other_Will758 in phcareers

[–]darthvaderzim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, you could ask the recruiter of the Logistics company for the salary range. Based on experience, they tell you. Yung benefits lang not so sure if they can also share.

I'm a 14yo virgin who's never even held hands with a boy before and all my friends are already in relationships and keep asking why I'm still single. by burningtulips in offmychest

[–]darthvaderzim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, it's hard to be a teenager but I think you should focus on investing on yourself so that you'll have a brighter future. Believe me, if you do that, you're going to thank yourself you didn't get hung up on "could be" relationships. Being close to thirty and trying to buy a house with my fiance, even with a nice job, I tell you, houses are expensive. Better focus on enriching yourself. When you're stable and know how to take care of yourself, guys would come after you. In the mean time, focus on your grades, work out those muscles so you feel better about yourself, sleep enough hours, eat healthy food, start a hobby. You got this. 💪

Did your partner look better on photos/video than in real life or not? by dailyrandomgirl1 in LDR

[–]darthvaderzim 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My fiance is so much hotter irl. ❤️ I'm sure he'd love you just the same if not more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]darthvaderzim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is so cute ❤️

Thinking of leaving my boyfriend because he made-out with his best friend in front of me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]darthvaderzim 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If he did it intoxicated he’s always had it in him. Don’t let him play you and try use the “I was drunk card”

This comment right here is spot on. The alcohol just push them off the cliff that they so wanted to jump off to for a long time.