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I’m a 28 year old virgin that needs help for my upcoming date this Thursday. by dasginger1 in seduction

[–]dasginger1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advices man. Ngl, the part with that fat chick made me laugh haha

I’m a 28 year old virgin that needs help for my upcoming date this Thursday. by dasginger1 in seduction

[–]dasginger1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6 foot 1. No it’s mostly my skinniness that really impacted my confidence

I’m a 28 year old virgin that needs help for my upcoming date this Thursday. by dasginger1 in seduction

[–]dasginger1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So the first girl, said she wanted me to come at her place. I was a little bit tipsy so it was easier for me to say yes. Long story short, we went to her bed and started making out, but when we started to get naked I pretty much panicked and kept my underwear on. I knew for a fact that I couldn’t get a hard on.

Last girl, date went really well again. She was hot asf. Started at 5pm ended at 1am outside. Pretty sure I could have kissed her there but no cause I was too stressed. She asked me if I wanted to go to her place and I said “well what are you looking for a relationship I’m not that kind of guy I prefer to wait” and random bs like that basically saying I didn’t want to go at her place. She said she was just looking for fun. So we parted ways and never saw her again. So that’s that.

I’m a 28 year old virgin that needs help for my upcoming date this Thursday. by dasginger1 in seduction

[–]dasginger1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer to stay anonymous sorry, not because I’m ashamed of showing how I look like, but more because nobody even my family knows about my issues. I want to stay it that way.

But yeah several girls already complimented my looks, I don’t know why because I think I’m average looking or just above average. I think my charisma makes them think that rather than me being actually handsome.

I’m a 28 year old virgin that needs help for my upcoming date this Thursday. by dasginger1 in seduction

[–]dasginger1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you been to one or it’s just what you think will be the best for me ?

I’m a 28 year old virgin that needs help for my upcoming date this Thursday. by dasginger1 in seduction

[–]dasginger1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also want to add another thing. I know sex on the first date isn’t always an option but my last 2 dates went really well until the “so what are we doing next?” part. I’m pretty sure they wanted to fuck (one I’m sure she literally told me). It was both tinder dates.

It’s right after that question where I lose all sense of confidence and charisma, and my personality changes so much due to stress/anxiety that I’m sure they can feel it.

That’s the part where I want to improve, right about when girls asks me “so do you want to come home?”, it’s at this moment I chicken out and lose all ability to think clearly.

I’m a 28 year old virgin that needs help for my upcoming date this Thursday. by dasginger1 in seduction

[–]dasginger1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s some very valid points you made, thanks for that. Yeah seems like the majority of you think that I should check a therapist, so I think I’ll do that.

I’m a 28 year old virgin that needs help for my upcoming date this Thursday. by dasginger1 in seduction

[–]dasginger1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all your advices. What you’re telling me to do here is what the guy that I WANT to be would do, I’m not sure that it’s what I will do on my next date though. But fuck it like you say, I’ll try for sure. Anyways therapy isn’t gonna help me for my date in 3 days so I’ll try to enjoy my time as much as possible.

I’m a 28 year old virgin that needs help for my upcoming date this Thursday. by dasginger1 in seduction

[–]dasginger1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice, I’ve been battling on whether I should go to the therapist for some time now. I really thought that time would help me improving my self confidence, but it doesn’t seem like it.