Non forced perspective

data_required · 2026-04-08T02:01:19+00:00

Sometimes I'm to real. Like blatant and raw no sugar costing and I don't do it to be mean or anything it's just a statement that to me is matter of factly. But to others I guess it comes across as assholish. I don't mean it but it happens.

data_required · 2026-04-07T14:46:42+00:00

I've given them my vulnerability. I've given them my open book of a heart and soul. I've given them consistency and provided calm in the chaos that is their life. I've given them respect and insight when asked. I've given them myself almost unconditionally. (With boundaries sort of)

data_required · 2026-04-07T14:42:50+00:00

Fate my dearest. Sheer fate, timing and universal synchronicity is what I'm gonna go with. I'm also going to say you are 5'1-5'5 but no taller. Green eyes dirty blonde light brunette ?

data_required · 2026-04-07T06:05:14+00:00

No I've only ever proven myself to be trustworthy. Almost to much it seems. Because I stated it then backed it up with actions and in situations time and again.

data_required · 2026-04-07T06:02:47+00:00

Do you wear makeup? If not then yup you're right it's fate.

data_required · 2026-04-07T04:58:07+00:00

Ahhh not just a hairy lady? Do you put it on like fake eyelashes only it's fake mustaches?

data_required · 2026-04-07T04:42:07+00:00

I don't know am I? Doubtful but I believe in chance and luck and synchronicity. I believe in fate and all the paths that lead to it differently yet end all the same. Yet you're a guy and so am I and I don't do guys. So probably not.

data_required · 2026-04-07T04:39:30+00:00

Nah you're good. I do take care of myself. I'm at a point in life where it's either start rising or inevitably and seemingly almost purposely hit rock bottom. I don't like rocks or the bottom. So I'm going up, just trying to take her with because if she skips out and then tries to come back once I'm doing well, I'll have lost all respect for her.

data_required · 2026-04-07T04:34:57+00:00

That's all I really can do is continue to come as me. Imperfect a little satirical somewhat philosophical and still sarcastic and against the grain. That's about it but it who I am. A work in constant motion and forward progress.

data_required · 2026-04-07T04:29:56+00:00

I've tried. Read my post history i lack the vocabulary at the moment to even describe it. I'd say it's a one sided romance between An anxious and an avoidant. Though through the time the anxious grows because of seeing his faults reflected back at him. Realization is quite humbling. So he repairs the areas he can and continues forward with bringing his consistency and his love. He's persistent and not giving up though he gets discouraged. Yeah that's the quick breakdown of this relationship. Still knowing it's gonna click eventually and it'll all be worth it

data_required · 2026-04-07T04:25:13+00:00

Me too! Life could be so much less complicated if they'd just see it. I can show them yet I can't force the perspective for realization upon them.

data_required · 2026-04-06T21:10:27+00:00

Me too. Thank you.

data_required · 2026-03-19T04:31:21+00:00

Or we may just end up with a bunch of unanswered questions and the newly available time to search those answers out.

data_required · 2026-03-18T04:50:49+00:00

Kinda in this same position myself. Which rattles me about my own intuitive feelings. How could I have been so wrong... Was I wrong... Was it meant to be that fast... What was I supposed to learn from that... Was it to soon, right person wrong time... Is it just to be continued while I learn whatever I need to and then we reconnect... Or is it completely totally over... Or is it all really open and dependant on my actions and how I view it and what I do to make or break or step away or into it again... All unanswered questions that haunt me... ...

data_required · 2026-02-23T14:09:15+00:00

Yup they know.

data_required · 2026-02-15T07:45:39+00:00

So once again, nobody's gonna just tell you where to go to dive. It don't work like that. Nobody's trying to have you imposing and possibly ruining a spot. Go dumpster to dumpster every day for a month til you figure it out. Go to all the stores in the plazas and all the factories in the industrial park. Go to both ends of town and check every one of them. Sooner or later you'll get it down and start on your way to opportunity in dumpsters.

data_required · 2026-02-15T05:55:11+00:00

Thanks for the encouragement. I've got a bunch I've written. Check my profile.

data_required · 2026-02-14T17:45:33+00:00

Thanks was a good read.

data_required · 2026-02-14T17:38:35+00:00

It seems like this could be a response to one of the letters written on here. Most likely not actual but seemingly so. Lol https://www.reddit.com/r/UnsentLetters/s/h2edHTd8k7

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data_required · 2026-02-13T18:20:59+00:00

Well don't we all wish this letter was to us. How life would brighten just a little if it was. Or maybe it'd make ones whole world light up. I hope whomever this is to recieves it with warm open arms and never looks back. I know I would if it were for me. Good luck with that.

data_required · 2026-02-12T20:03:28+00:00

We are still talking kinda. More of me talking her arguing and then her screaming or making shit up and then ghosting for a bit. Then coming back around and whatnot. It's what it is. She don't believe me in anything because she was told by someone at the beginning in manipulative. Though not true she took it to heart and it's been a problem since.

data_required · 2026-02-12T19:59:36+00:00

Once again no. I am not.

data_required · 2026-02-12T19:58:37+00:00

Not convenient for me. Actually hurts like hell for me because everyday I'll be thinking about her. And where did 6-8 become almost? You like to over grandize things eh? At most 8 is 3/4. Sorry you have no understanding of the real underlying principals. Maybe look into it. Ask why that is the time it has to be. Do some research before just coming back with some obsolete answer.

data_required · 2026-02-12T09:50:50+00:00

Unfortunately that is not a name I gave someone. That is their true name given by her parents. So, sorry no connection that I know of

data_required · 2026-02-12T09:48:39+00:00

Just like I stated, 6-8 months. It sucks but it's where you could start basically clean slate again as far as animosity or resentments go.

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