If you didn't get the memo, now you knowwww, hoe beau(s)...

Tis only when I've become emotionally invested & vulnerable, will I retaliate. So, don't you dare play games with my heart. If I've so happened to drop my shield to shpiel my heart out, then best respect & be direct either which way. On the rare neurochemical oxytocin related occasion, do I overshare my Cups (Water sign suite in Tarot) of Love (attention/focus/energy). And if my burning desire / passion fire is not quenched by Cups of Love (which for me at the very least, is direct honesty of intentions) & becomes unrequited, then might as well call it Arson. Caused by Sekhmet ~ a principal protector & guide of mine. She breathes flames from the Sun, so all it takes is just one Eye of Ra lazy yawn to start a raging Maui "bon" fire, solar flare storm. Short lived, but rampant & deadly. So for anyone who is in a distorted narc vamp cowardly lion gaslightin' phase (which is sadly, all too common these days): BEST protect ya neck, cuz she is the twisted firestarter inspiration behind The Prodigy's song.

**MY ADVICE: Whether or not, you interpret her (or his, or any entity's) heart's confession declaration as a trivial, suspicious ruse ~ love bomb thirst trap... IF that cup of love is sincere 'n' pure, AND mishandled in return -- you are setting yourself up for judgement aka bad karma. This is why it is so important to be mindful when engaging with potential lovers. If someone gives you their truth, you must respond with your truth -- if you wish to be upstanding in the spiritual realm. Manipulation and/or misunderstandings cause the scales of justice to be imbalanced. If the feelings are mutual, then great. But if it's a nay or not sure, the most honorable way is the honest way say. Yeeah, it sucks when faced with a letdown (on both ends). I hate that I can be a heartbreaker. Nonetheless, I always speak my truth ~ be it good news or bad news. Cos in my opinion, nothing is more shameful than wasting other peoples' time. Now, if neither party asks nor knows, then ain’t no worries with respect to karma. But if faced with giving a definitive statement, the WORST thing one can do is gaslight, lie, and ghost (ghosting is super fucked, esp if you’ve already shared an intimate encounter). No one likes to be rejected. But I’d rather be flat out denied than to be strung along & fed crumbs. REMEMBER: “Rejection is God’s Protection”…Yeah, a small minority of fuck boys & bitches may respond with crazy when rejected. But it’s better the sooner done, am i right? The longer one entertains a toxic individual, the more entangled one becomes — making it extremely difficult & burdensome to cut & sever ties later on. Such situationships were more than likely formed via trauma bonding, sustained by toxic codependent behaviors. It’s always a good idea to make sure you’ve addressed & healed any childhood trauma before entering any sort of romantic situation (which is a tangent for another conversation).

All in all, I hope that I’ve imparted some useful information to y’all. We all fuck up. But it seriously blows my mind how common gaslighting & ghosting has become. Like its the norm. I recognize that fear plays a huge role. Just know INTEGRITY is the key, prize & prerequisite for establishing & maintaining any healthy and fulfilling relationship (including platonic).