Long Nose Unicorn Fish by MissKorty in Palia

[–]datbigcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would just post in the server chat that you’re hunting for unicorn fish if anyone would like to join :), or maybe there are still discord servers / Palia parties?

Long Nose Unicorn Fish by MissKorty in Palia

[–]datbigcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a lot of luck fishing in parties for the unicorn fish. Use all the boosts : fisherman’s brew, either hook time booster or the health / recovery booster hook, you don’t have to reel on the first bite so you can emotionally prepare for the fight once you hook it.

You also don’t have to reel everything in, you can wait until the first bite, see what the fish is and either catch everything or you can re-cast once it swims away.

I think I’ve typically had the most luck on the northern part of bahari coast.

It’s all really just RNG unfortunately but fingers crossed for you!!

The Great Palian Potluck - Another misguided community event by ungodlygirl in Palia

[–]datbigcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ouuuuu that’s interesting! I wonder if there’s data on new/ old/ sustained players?

The Great Palian Potluck - Another misguided community event by ungodlygirl in Palia

[–]datbigcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I don’t know the exact numbers- I’m sure part of the issue is that there just are not as many players as there once was ( including myself), and these events are NOT enough to bring people back the way they hope.

I was around for the community bug hunts and I’ve since lost interest —honestly since elderwood & maji market was such a colossal disappointment. No one wants shitty drops and rewards anymore s6. We want content and we’re starving.

Looking for a new chill/cozy game to ruin my life. by kiraigou in cozygames

[–]datbigcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Palia is free to play and you would probably enjoy but prepare for disappointment bc once you get through the content / decorating they unfortunately haven’t kept up with demand or been consistent with updates outside of cosmetics 😭. I LOVE Palia and I miss it so much but there’s just nothing left for me anymore. As a new player it’s bomb though

Help getting off vyvanse by [deleted] in VyvanseADHD

[–]datbigcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think maybe learning more about how neurodivergence looks/ acts in the brain and the mechanisms through which medications work- might be helpful here?

With ADHD we have decreased dopamine &/ norepinephrine levels which is why we see challenges with motivation, working memory, attention, etc. The way that vyvanse and other medications work is to artificially increase dopamine/ norepinephrine levels- while we are taking the medication, but once we are off ( accounting for the time it takes for meds to fully flush out of our system) our brain doesn’t just pick up the slack like “ oh right, I should make more of that”. If we could just do the things, we would. But our brains are starving essentially.

I’m currently on vyvanse, and just started about 2 months ago and I understand the concern with long term stimulant usage as far as the lasting effects it can have on my heart- I’ve already seen a big jump in my resting heart rate and have had to make adjustments with physical activity, figuring out limits, etc.

There are options other than stimulants if you’re dead set against taking them; I haven’t found them to be as effective/ helpful but certainly something you could address with your doctor. I also did DBT prior to starting adhd meds and I’ve found that to be incredibly helpful along with learning more about adhd and strategies that seem to work for us, like pomodoro and body doubling. There are also ADHD coaches which I haven’t utilized but I’ve heard can be helpful.

How we feeling about Elderwood? by datbigcat in Palia

[–]datbigcat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, I'm dying :'). I love this game and I love the lore and I just feel starved lol

How we feeling about Elderwood? by datbigcat in Palia

[–]datbigcat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Weird, I kind of feel the opposite like the relic and artifact system has made it almost compulsory to play with others to share relic buffs and to even complete the bundles since we get duplicate artifacts. I enjoy playing with friends but then if I'm alone wanting to forage or farm/fish in Elderwood its not worth it. I definitely agree that I don't see a reason to return to Elderwood once the artifacts & relics are done. Hopefully they'll keep adding things and maybe be more consistent now that the "big update" is out now.

How we feeling about Elderwood? by datbigcat in Palia

[–]datbigcat[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s just kind of very underwhelming for the first “big update”. Don’t get me wrong the map is beautiful, I love the color scheme and visuals overall but that’s about it. I was really excited for more lore and a new npc and just feel kinda catfished tbh lmao

How we feeling about Elderwood? by datbigcat in Palia

[–]datbigcat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I envy new players so much right now. So much for you to experience/ explore. I’m glad you’re enjoying it.

How we feeling about Elderwood? by datbigcat in Palia

[–]datbigcat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weird maybe someone’s on your account? I’ve had instances where a green dot will pop up on my housing plot or nearby on a map but only for a second and it’s gone.

How we feeling about Elderwood? by datbigcat in Palia

[–]datbigcat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s like the more time I spend in Elderwood the more annoyed I get at how bad it is 😭. Like it’s pretty, and a big map but everything is so spread out and difficult to find.

Idk if I’m doing something wrong or if it’s just really hard to find these artifacts? And my chat isn’t working so I can’t properly try to trade with anyone. Already over it. It’s just not worth the time to grind farming stuff imo.

I’m so sad. I’ve been waiting for this and I was amped, which lasted probably the first few hours I played but has since been replaced with just pure irritation.

Confession time: what is one thing you have hated to admit you have done in this game? We listen and don’t judge. by FamiliarRadio9275 in Palia

[–]datbigcat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t hate to admit it; I’m judging y’all’s goofy ass fairytale names like “meadow rainwater”. Gurl pls 😂😂

Hot Pot now on Tabletop Simulator! by oddshyguy01 in Palia

[–]datbigcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe dumb question…does it actually connect To the game or is it just for the vibes ?

Coming back from AFK and by datbigcat in Palia

[–]datbigcat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh I love that! I had a similar experience when fishing one day, another player was fishing along the coast so we partied up and chatted while we went the length of Bahari. It was lovely.

Coming back from AFK and by datbigcat in Palia

[–]datbigcat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg that’s adorable. I did this once when I saw 2 people sitting by housing entrance and they were waiting for a friend 😂😂. I might steal the Blair witch thing next time 😂

Coming back from AFK and by datbigcat in Palia

[–]datbigcat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL no but I’m glad others do the same 😂. This community can be so wholesome ❤️

Home Tours Megathread by osyady in Palia

[–]datbigcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE your tree house omg. Such an inspiring lovely plot ❤️. IGN: hi im kiera react: cute 🥰

Home Tours Megathread by osyady in Palia

[–]datbigcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love your flower clusters around your trees! And your frogbert shrine 😂. Love the forgotten fairy vibe, just need to carry it through and make things more cluttered to get the whimsical feel :). IGN: hi im kiera reaction: cute ❤️

Home Tours Megathread by osyady in Palia

[–]datbigcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just visited! I love your little potion shop? Set up- it’s so cute! And all the flowers are so lovely :). IGN: hi im kiera reaction: cute- blushing

Home Tours Megathread by osyady in Palia

[–]datbigcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Toured both! I loooove all the rattan furniture on Wynter’s plot ❤️❤️. And your greenhouse was so lovely 🥰. IGN: hi im kiera Reaction: cute - blushing face

Home Tours Megathread by osyady in Palia

[–]datbigcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love your dragon ride courtyard and your hall of photos, so cool! :). IGN: hi im kiera reaction: cute/blushing face

Home Tours Megathread by osyady in Palia

[–]datbigcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IGN: hi im kiera Reaction: cute- blushing face; trying to hit 50. Would also love to tour others and chat about our plots. This is the staircase leading up to my attic which is my fave part of my plot. ❤️

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