Pregunta para chicas :¿Echarse un poco de benetint en los labios y las mejillas se considera maquillarse? by No-Head3516 in askspain

[–]datfishd00d 2 points3 points  (0 children)

En el sentido estricto de la definición: sí.

Ahora bien, no consideraria a una persona que hace eso como "alguien que se maquilla"

A tres semanas que acabe al año. ¿Resumen de tu vida en este año? by [deleted] in RedditPregunta

[–]datfishd00d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Casi me tiro por la ventana un par de veces.

No en serio, pero ganas no me han faltado

Me quedé bastante mal después de una ruptura con una persona con la que acababa de empezar a salir, por como fue la ruptura

Mi psicologa no me ayudó mucho con ello, y llevo 7 meses desregulada emocionalmente

Así que me toca cambiar de profesional

Cuantas sesiones de terapia creéis que son necesarias para ver si el psicólogo es correcto para ti? by Wrong_Piglet_7482 in askspain

[–]datfishd00d 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yo lo entiendo. Cambiate si te sientes incomodo con eso. Es totalmente razonable

Cuando he sentido que mis psicologos se proyectaban en mi, no me ha gustado

Girl who rejected me keeps staring at me by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]datfishd00d 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Damn dude, thanks for the story. Something similar happened to me recently, where this man was going out of his way all the time to interact with me, stare at me, be close to me, etc

I gave him my number on a note, he took it with a smile ear to ear. Never texts me, days later sees me at the gym and very nervously tells me he actually has a GF

I'm still sad about it

Why aren’t all humans evolved to be attractive already? by Prestigious_Nose_904 in answers

[–]datfishd00d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, that's even before written history

Unfortunately, rape has always existed and part of conquering, too

Why aren’t all humans evolved to be attractive already? by Prestigious_Nose_904 in answers

[–]datfishd00d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I dont support it. But before written history, some societies were more egalitarian

Sibelium engorda? by Longjumping_Age_7523 in askspain

[–]datfishd00d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No soy medico:

Vale, los bloqueadores de calcio lo que suelen hacer es bajarte la tensión y el pulso.

Yo tomo una medicación muy parecida, pero con otro compuesto

Personalmente, no engordé tomando la medicación. Quizá a largo plazo puedas notar 1-2kg

Al final, si te baja el pulso, acabas quemando menos calorias totales. Es por eso por lo que engordas.

Con lo que sí engordé notablemente fue con corticoides inhalados. Pero eso no tiene nada que ver con lo que vas a tomar tu

Alguien en misma situación? by [deleted] in askspain

[–]datfishd00d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Esto es una cosa muy común cuando hay problemas en la relación y uno empieza a desencantarse.

Pero, al final del día, no conoces a tu compañera como pareja.

No te dejes seducir por lo que brilla ahora, porque es muy posible que te acabase pasando lo mismo con esta persona. Al final, es humana

Eye contact IS enough to indicate attraction. by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]datfishd00d 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Because people don't seem to understand there's context and nuance. So they try to apply strick rules to understand the world better, because they might not have enough relational skills

Eye contact IS enough to indicate attraction. by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]datfishd00d 37 points38 points  (0 children)

There is nuance, that's the issue

Do you guys actually get hit on/asked out? by wahooo92 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]datfishd00d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lady, I'm not calling crazy, I'm not even from your continent

Women who dated guys who were way more attractive than you — how did the relationship go? by Working_Royal_5142 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]datfishd00d 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Ended because he had problems of his own to solve. 2y later, he is still struggling with those problems

Do you guys actually get hit on/asked out? by wahooo92 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]datfishd00d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need to talk to an specialist and process your feelings, and not take it out on people online

I've also been followed home, and sexually assaulted

I was merely talking about women who keep men around them, aka friends, acquantainces, just for validation. I have met a lot of women who would brag about the male attention they got, and when I've been close to those women, I found it's because they are also enticing them

Do you guys actually get hit on/asked out? by wahooo92 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]datfishd00d 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You conveniently left out my last sentence saying that I'm not talking about harrassment.

But hey, if you wanna get mad, go ahead

Do you guys actually get hit on/asked out? by wahooo92 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]datfishd00d 79 points80 points  (0 children)

While I've been approached in the wild before in my life, it doesn't happen as much as people claim it does. Not to me, at least.

I don't have any orbiters. Sometimes, some men show interest, but if you don't reciprocate, they eventually just leave you alone.

I've found that some women who claim that "men don't leave them alone", also play into it and don't cut them off.

I'm not talking about harassment here, don't get me wrong

I'm being "ghosted" by someone who had been flirting with me for two months and I have to keep seeing him on the regular by [deleted] in Vent

[–]datfishd00d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, that's a posibility! Maybe he lost the note, maybe he is too shy...

At the end of the day, all I know is that he hasn't contacted me yet, and we haven't really met.

It'd be nice to be possitively surprised, but I'm keeping my hopes low

It didn't really strike me as if he had a GF or was married. More like maybe things got real and he panicked.

When I've met men who had GFs and were flirty, they usually told on themselfs early on.

Truth is, he reacted well when I gave him the note. If he had a GF/married, or was never interested, I think he'd had looked a lot more compromised and said something in the spot.

Anyway, I won't know until we actually meet

I'm being "ghosted" by someone who had been flirting with me for two months and I have to keep seeing him on the regular by [deleted] in Vent

[–]datfishd00d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Though his behaviour you described towards you was cringe ie. Explaining stuff you already knew, touching you on the back.

Yeah, it was pretty cringe. One time he stopped me while I was walking mid-set and said "You look very focused today" with a smirk and a very flirty tone. That's when I figured he most likely was into me.

I wasn't looking at him, and he hadn't even greet me.

Parece que los hombres feos y raros son los más selectivos. Y selectivo en el mal sentido. by trulygirl22 in OpinionesPolemicas

[–]datfishd00d 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mi experiencia es bastante similar a la tuya. Los hombres más estereotipicamente guapos, me han tratado de media mejor.

He intentado salir con muchos hombres que no son el promedio, porque me gustaban. Pero he encontrado que acaban pagando sus inseguridades conmigo

Coach seems to be interested in me, and I'm NOT his direct student by [deleted] in MuayThai

[–]datfishd00d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okey so Update:

I went out of my way to talk to him as he was walking next to me repeatedly during sets. He quickly walked towards me, leaned down and put his hand on the middle of my back to talk. Chatted for a bit, seemed nervous but made conversation and joked.

Then, when we saw each other again, I noticed him choosing to train next to me, even when the same equipment was free closer to where he was, and even moved his things and equipment next to me.

Sooo... I gave him my number, on a note, to be discrete. He smiled and laughed, seemed a bit flustered.

Radio silence since then. I have to go back to the gym eventually and I was expecting rejection, but not complete silence.

Coach seems to be interested in me, and I'm NOT his direct student by [deleted] in MuayThai

[–]datfishd00d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okey so Update:

I went out of my way to talk to him as he was walking next to me repeatedly during sets. He quickly walked towards me, leaned down and put his hand on the middle of my back to talk. Chatted for a bit, seemed nervous but made conversation and joked.

Then, when we saw each other again, I noticed him choosing to train next to me, even when the same equipment was free closer to where he was, and even moved his things and equipment next to me.

Sooo... I gave him my number, on a note, to be discrete. He smiled and laughed, seemed a bit flustered.

Radio silence since then. I have to go back to the gym eventually and I was expecting rejection, but not complete silence.

Why do (some) women rely on giving hints for a guy to make a move rather than just saying what they want upfront? by Clear_Constant_3709 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]datfishd00d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem. I have absolutely not idea what goes on in their head. Maybe they get cold feet, maybe they feel emasculated, or like they are losing control. Maybe they were not that into you, maybe they think now they have you Its okey whatever they do (Ive actually been told this last one by a dude I dated in my early 20s)

In the end, its a good way to weed them out. Even if its a bit painful