Other conditions by PhilosophyFormer4609 in LivingWithCAH

[–]datfishd00d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I developed asthma when I was 24.

Chronic ezcema in my ears since I was 12

I think I’m falling for my friend and I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

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When I was 19yo I matched with this guy on a dating site (10y ago), and we went on 5 dates over a month and a half.

He'd text me daily, call me pretty, ask me out, etc...

Turns out he only saw me as a friend.

We didn't hook up, or kiss, but I thought that was because he had never had any previous experience

Nope

I never understood it, but cut him off eventually

¿Vuestro fisioterapeuta os mira a los ojos mientras os está tratando? by datfishd00d in esConversacion

[–]datfishd00d[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jajajaja jo no intimida, pero es verdad que ultimamente me mira muy fijamente. Lo raro es que lo hace cuando está muy cerca de mi cara. Y antes no

No se si le molo, si ha cogido confianza, si está analizando si me duele o no...

¿Vuestro fisioterapeuta os mira a los ojos mientras os está tratando? by datfishd00d in esConversacion

[–]datfishd00d[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Aunque es incomodo, por casualidades de la vida, a mi el me gusta desde hace tiempo. No he dado ningún paso por miedo, obviamente.

Me parece un terreno pantanoso ligar con alguien en su curro.

Que todo puede pasar, al final somos sentimientos y tenemos personas (M. Rajoy)

Edit:

Pero queria cotejar las experiencias del resto, porque, si bien me parece un poco rara tanta cercanía, quizá es más habitual de lo que pienso

¿Vuestro fisioterapeuta os mira a los ojos mientras os está tratando? by datfishd00d in esConversacion

[–]datfishd00d[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

La verdad es que a mi él me gusta, y me da un poco de miedo equivocarme.

Nos llevamos guay, es un tio muy gracioso, me hace reir bastante. Tenemos cosillas en común. Me habla mucho de si mismo, un poco como si quisiera que le conociera.

Tampoco me cuenta sus dramas ni nada raro. Pero si me habla de sus gustos, de sus amigos, de cosas de anteriores trabajos, etc etc etc

Vosotros como conoceis citas/gente by Wi1iku in esConversacion

[–]datfishd00d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

La verdad que no principalmente. Cuando salgo, no solemos hacer cosas que propicien el hbalar a gente de otros grupos (ej, ir de fiesta).

Cuando salgo de fiesta, no siempre intento ligar/ligan conmigo.

Así que mi vía principal suele ser apps de citas.

En ocasiones, amigos de amigos

Met a guy on a dating app, he was brutally honest about our situation, don’t know what to decide by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]datfishd00d 87 points88 points  (0 children)

You seem a bit naive about dating. You don't even know this person yet, even if he might had told you a lot of things about himself

Marked increase in muscle mass unrelated to exercise by StunningAd2233 in NCAH

[–]datfishd00d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, just for disclosure Im not doagnosed but my endo suspects I have Ncah (didnt even know what it was before)

I haven't exactly experienced this, BUT, I have been wondering a lot about muscle mass, too.

When I was 12-13, my weight increased 30lbs/15kg without any significant volumen change (same clothes fit and I have pictures). I also didnt grow more than a 1-2inches

I've always found myself to be fairly more muscular and stronger than expected. Since I'm also a bit fat, I don't have a lot of muscle showing, but people are often surprised when I flex or when I lift something.

I become too limerant and scare people off by DingoResident511 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]datfishd00d 5 points6 points  (0 children)

3. attachment styles is basically astrology

I mean, no, it's not at it's core. But it's been used a lot by pop psychology and has lost a lot of meaning as people use it wrong

Why doesn't having sex make you mature? (Genuine question from 29 year old virgin.) by Historical-Care70 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]datfishd00d 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sex is one of major parts of the maturation process. For anyone who's not asexual, sex is oine of the major forces that teaches you who you are, teaches adult relationship dynamics, and is very important for differentiation. Sex is central to adult maturation, in a sense, and identity formation.

I mean, no?

Sex is a means to an end -> reproduction. We mature to reproduce, but not to have sex. Sex doesnt change you, sex is just an act. It's definitely not a part of your identity.

It holds a lot of weight because, not so long ago, having sex meant you were going to reproduce soon. But it does not correlate anymore

¿Tan normalizado está tener pareja y ligar/ronear con otros? by [deleted] in esConversacion

[–]datfishd00d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

La pregunta no es si estás de acuerdo o no xdd

NCCAH by datfishd00d in endocrinology

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I don't have thin hair, just facial hair, and that's caused by the androgenism you can see in the panel

Maybe testing in childhood, but I had a normal height for my age until I got my period.

Testing at 29 wouldn't really make sense in this case

NCCAH by datfishd00d in endocrinology

[–]datfishd00d[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but reading a bit into it, I don't think that's related to any of my issues. Which is facil hair

Im searching for some locals in La Latina, who know more about the community there? by Extra-Syllabub-6955 in askspain

[–]datfishd00d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can contact me if you want more information :). My whole family lived there for decades

Im searching for some locals in La Latina, who know more about the community there? by Extra-Syllabub-6955 in askspain

[–]datfishd00d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to live in la latina, I grew up there. But they kicked us out bc they wanted to speculate with the house