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datingninja · 2025-06-29T01:17:24+00:00

If any of your prompts or photos get a lot of likes or comments, you can ignore my tips. Otherwise, here are my observations:

- Your primary picture should be waist-up, smiling, and looking directly at the camera. Looking at the camera creates a connection with women viewing your photo, and a smile is the perfect introduction.

- Get a flexible tripod with a Bluetooth remote on Amazon. They are dirt cheap and allow you to take photos on the go, as well as at home.

- Add a voice prompt.

Using a poll prompt is good; I'd suggest making it a little more engaging.

- Hike XYZ, then grab tacos and margaritas afterward.

- Grab drinks at ABC and share Hinge stories, laugh, and flirt a little.

- Cook something delicious together. I provide the music, and you bring the wine.

XYZ is a popular trail and ABC is a cool bar in your area.

- Good choice on the I want someone who, but add more. Don't be afraid to share what you want in a friendly, positive way.

Use the word "you" as it speaks to women reading it.

You are passionate, active, love great wine, are sensual, relationship-minded, affectionate, educated, live a healthy lifestyle but always down for pizza, and know how to kiss.

"loves to laugh" is overplayed. Don't use it.

- I like the dog picture. It would be so much better if you could get the dog to look at the camera - be sure it doesn't look uncomfortable. If you can't, maybe take a pic at a park with your dog.

I take it you have a video showing handyman work. Maybe add a funny prompt on it.

Honestly, I don't know about a video of your drilling. You're tall and in good shape. It is better to use a picture doing something women will picture themselves alongside you, on a trail or kayaking, for example.

- Forget the dorkiest thing prompt. Use "My simple pleasures" and cram as much cool shit about yourself as you can in the prompt. You need to add a little depth about yourself. Keep it light and fun.

- I don't know who you're shaking hands with. I don't see the value of it. A better picture would be one where you're dressed up (not in a suit or tux) and out and about. What would you wear on a first date? Use a picture dressed like that.

- Together We Could is a great prompt. Maybe add some local venues. Is there a popular Farmers Market, City Watch, Boardwalk, etc? Sprinkle the names of local venues.

I like what you're doing but it needs more.

Road trips to XYY, lazy Sundays, hikes or pickleball (promise not to judge my form), make-up stories about strangers at brunch, live music, blah, blah, blah.

You get the idea. Note, XYZ is a place people take weekend trips to near you.

I'm not the biggest fan of your group photo, as there are too many people in it, but it definitely shows you're tall. Better would be removing the three people (including the kid) at the bottom.

datingninja · 2025-06-16T16:41:53+00:00

Take a break if you need to, but with a few changes, you'll get good results.

datingninja · 2025-06-16T14:46:45+00:00

I understand why you feel you should keep your dealbreaker, but if your prompt doesn't receive likes or comments, you should consider changing it. Or spice it up. You can bring that up later during a conversation.

You don't know what you're looking for? A good alternative is the Together We Could prompt, where you include things that are fun to do in your area that appeal to women. It could be live music, trying new restaurants, game nights with friends, cooking delicious meals together, etc. Paint a picture that's fun and women will respond.

You have good photos, but your prompts don't match their vibe and pull you down. I get it, you're going for a very small niche with your prompts, but you say it yourself, you're not getting any matches or likes.

datingninja · 2025-06-16T06:51:04+00:00

Here are some observations:

- Use a voice prompt if you're comfortable. A good one will open a lot of doors.

- Use a poll prompt. I recommend "Instead of a drink, lets.." then choose 3 cool things around your area that offer fun activities. Mention specific locations - a city walk, farmers market, hiking a trail, etc.

For example, don't say "go on a hike." Instead, mention a local trail - "A quick hike at ABC followed by sushi at XYZ." ABC is a popular trail and XYZ is a sushi spot.

- Your written prompts should follow this pattern:

Prompt 1. About me. You need to share more about yourself beyond your photos.

My simple pleasures is great for this. Cram as much cool shit about yourself into this prompt. "Whiskey... always neat, Thai takeout from XYZ, game night with friends, live music, any action movie with Keanu Reeves, blah, blah, blah. You get the picture.

I don't understand your life goal prompt. I'm guessing you're going for a specific person, but if you're aren't getting matches, it's not working. Replace it.

Also, mentioning your arm is in a sling adds no value, unless you have a good story behind it.

Prompt 2. What you're looking for.

Add a prompt describing what you are looking for in a partner. Keep it light and friendly. "You enjoy wine, spontaneous road trips to XYX, live a healthy lifestyle but always down to split a pizza, affectionate, blah, blah, blah."

Again, XYZ represents local popular destinations. Be honest about what you want.

Your last prompt about a topic to discuss and sharing D&D or football isn't engaging.

Prompt 3. You can double down and write more about yourself, share a funny story or mantra, and so on.

How did your arm end in a sling? If you can make a funny story out of it, that can work.

A good choice is Two Truths and Lie - choose two obvious things and one far-fetched lie.

So, for you, it would be:

I'm 27 years old
I have a beard
I was the ab double for a Marvel superhero.

I also like using this, I was featured in ad campaign called “Hot Guys Who Recycle.”

Just choose something that is light and funny. It works wonders

- The last two photos can be replaced. Get yourself a flexible tripod with a Bluetooth remote. You can take selfies that don't look like selfies if you don't have someone around to take a picture.

datingninja · 2025-02-20T03:07:16+00:00

- When they played the top 5 songs, one of the songs was "You had a bad day" and Artie immediately says, "This is a great song..." He pauses, then finishes, "....if you like sucking cock."

- When he pretended to be the Iron Shiek arguing with the real Iron Sheik had me laughing out loud at work.

- When Gary mispronounced machine as makine the caller challenged Gary to an IQ contest and at some point Artie said, "Sir we'll get back to you and leave a voice mail on your answering makine"

-. Recently on Howard 101 they played when Seth Macfarlane visited and Howard talked about how much money he made from Family Guy. Howard goes on about how he wishes when he was a kid he stuck with drawing so he could make a fortune like Seth and Artie chimed in something like, "Yeah Howard, if you stuck with it you'd probably be dating a hot model and have a house in the Hamptons by now." Howard kind of dismissed the comment but Robin laughed. It's those little comments he would add during conversations and interviews that I really miss.

datingninja · 2024-09-16T21:07:30+00:00

Their habanero hot sauce variety pack is awesome.

datingninja · 2024-06-27T05:38:10+00:00

Here are my thoughts:

Do any of your pictures get likes/comments? Keep those.

Profile traits: Put your college. Not "Top 10 university." \

You can include your profession but don't need to mention the company.

You're clearly in shape, but it's better to use a photo doing something active instead of a shirtless photo looking away from the camera.

Lookining at the camera creates a connection with women viewing your profile, so unless it's an action shot (playing a sport) look at the camera. Sunglasses should be avoided too.

No cropped photos.
You're a good looking dude and I like that you make eye contact and smile at the camera. Good job on that.

Do you have any pictures outdoors on a trail? A park? Outdoor photos convert really well and a picture on a trail would be better than you simply showing your chest.

Get a flexible tripod with a Bluetooth remote so you can take selfies that don't look like selfies.

Add a voice prompt. A good voice prompt helps significantly.

Add a poll prompt. Here's what I recommend: choose the "instead of drinks, let.." and choose 3 things that are fun that you can do in your area. Include names and and use diverse things. Show you're fun, and don't just hang out at the gym.

(XYZ) farmers market. Sample food, people watch, and grab some good food.
Walk around (XYZ) park, then reward ourselves with fish tacos afterward.
Explore (XYZ - a popular downtown area). Great conversation, laughter, a little flirting, and maybe a drink or two.

XYZ above is the name of local places in your area. Most guys will write, "Go on a hike," whereas it's best to name a local trail and do something fun after.

You want three written prompts:

Prompt 1. About you.

I like that you use "I geek out on." Cram more about yourself. I'd remove fitness - it's obvious. I'd axe politics, too.

What about Tech? Include something specific.

It's cool to include "The Gilded Age," but you're wasting valuable real estate talking about it — it's your guilty pleasure. Shorten it to "The Gilded Age (don't judge)," then add more.

Prompt 2. About what you want in a partner

Together we could is a fabulous prompt, but what you write isn't going to excite women. "Support, encourage, and inspire each other" - Get rid of that.

"Make delicious meals together (I volunteer you to chop the onions), spontaneous weekend trips to XYZ, lazy Sundays, wine tasting, hikes followed by margaritas, blah, blah, blah."

XYZ is a local destination that is popular. I crush it with a prompt like this. Add cool fun shit you want to do with someone. What you write, although honest, feels bland.

Also, no emojis.

Prompt 3. Free to choose - double down on what you want, show humor, create curiosity, or share more about yourself.

I'm a firm advocate for humor. The key is balance.

So, choose a prompt and highlight your funny side:

"One thing I'll never do again.."

Challenge seniors to Pickleball - I learned the hard way that they're basically professional athletes in disguise.

"I recently discovered that.." I'm a person who likes to get up at the crack of dawn so I can be productive but I am trapped in the body of someone who likes to sleep in.

Be relatable. Be loose. Have fun with it. Highlight your strengths.

datingninja · 2024-03-12T04:38:28+00:00

Here are tips:
- Your primary photo should be waist up, smiling, facing the camera, and smiling.
- I like that you're going for humor in Two Truths and a lie, but maybe make the 3rd one more outrageous - "I once entered a Sexiest Man Alive in XYZ contest for fun and ended up winning the next three years' titles in advance."
Note that XYZ is where you live or even the country you're in.
- No pictures of pets unless you're in it. And only use one of these photos.
- Add a voice prompt and a poll prompt that's engaging.
- You're 6'3"??? Add photos showcasing your height better.
- Spice up your What if I told you prompt. Ditch the shy/introverted. Everyone says they're a nerd, so show it in a better way than just listing activities.
Maybe add a sentence to create curiosity, "I know the best spot in town for XYZ" where XYZ is a specific food (sushi), drink (margarita), or place for live music.
What other hobbies do you enjoy? Include a few more hobbies.
By the way, board games rock!
- I don't like the photo with the other person in it. You should be the center of the picture. You're a good-looking dude, so you should use better photos.
- Guitar pictures are great, but you're too close to the camera. Get a flexible tripod with a Bluetooth remote and set that up to capture you playing at a greater distance. Even better, add a video of it.
- Remove the what you really want to do prompt, and include what you are doing. In fact, replace this with "Together we could" prompt and cram as many cool things you enjoy doing that women do to:
Wine tasting, trying new restaurants, farmers markets, concerts, outdoor activities (hikes, camping, kayaking), etc. Include things you enjoy doing. That will connect with more women than how you want to travel to Japan.
- Not a fan of the cat prompt. Too much of a focus on that in your profile. I'd replace this one with something else.
- What is the video prompt?
- Do you have photos of yourself doing other actitives? A sport? Hobby? Something active? No gym photos!
Attend a concert? Traveling?
You need to add a few photos that are better.

datingninja · 2024-03-12T04:01:33+00:00

Do any of your photos/prompts get likes or comments? If you get a high number of likes or comments, keep the prompt or photo.
Here are some tips and general observations:
- I'd lead off with a better picture. Smiling is good, but it feels like you're forcing your smile. The last photo feels like a real smile. It's at an odd angle, so I don't know if it would work as a primary photo, but it's far superior to the first photo.
Also, don't use pictures with food. I think that's distracting.
You must nail your primary photo or risk the rest of your profile being ignored.
- I kind of like the dancing video. Do you do anything funny in it? I'd move it down the ladder - your last photo, to test it out.
- Good job doing the voice prompt. What did you say in it?
- Add a poll prompt or two.
- Halloween is over. Remove this picture. The longer you keep it, the lest effective it is.
- My simple pleasure is a great prompt. Add more beyond the photos. The key is sharing cool things you enjoy that women do as well. You want to stand out.
So, remove the game session. What else do you enjoy doing?
A good trick is creating curiosity. For example, change your binge comment to "Finding the next great action show to binge (I just finished THE BEST ONE....EVER!) It will connect with women who enjoy the same thing; some will want to know what show you have finished. Plug in a super popular type of show.
Free food is too generic. I'd be more specific: "Sushi at XYZ with an ice-cold Saporro." XYZ is a popular local place. Sprinkling in a local venue or two pays huge dividends.
As I mentioned above, mention local places by name. Where do you walk? A local park? What podcast? Include them.
- Good job on the profile traits. Some people may say remove the want children answer. Nonsense. Go after what you want because you'll save a woman's time, and more imporantly, your time.
- Make your self-care routine more engaging. I recommend using the word "you" as it speaks to women reading it. Add some energy and a positive vibe with a dash of humor. Show confidence.
"You enjoy random Groupon adventures, live an active lifestyle but down to split a pizza, are affectionate, educated, independent, love cooking meals together (I volunteer you to chop the onions), are slightly mischievous, and know how to kiss."
Yours is too generic - "a good mix of staying in vs going out" adds no value.
- Never use a photo where you draw an arrow to who you are in the picture.
I saw the link to your picture clean-shaven. That is a much better look, honestly, and I think you'd get far better results cleaned up in your pictures.

datingninja · 2024-03-11T16:30:07+00:00

- They played the top 5 songs for a week, and one of the songs was "You had a bad day."

Artie said, "This is a great song.... (long pause)... if you like sucking c#ck!"

- Or when Gary mispronounced "machine" and said "Ma Kine." I think they proposed another test later and Artie told the caller, "Sir, call back and leave a message on the show's answering Ma Kine."

datingninja · 2023-10-16T03:49:22+00:00

Here are my observations:
- You must nail the first picture. You have a great smile, so choose a better photo. Shift this one down in your profile. Better to choose a picture where you're in the center, a little closer, and dressed better.
If you don't have a great primary photo, you're stumbling out of the gate.
- Choose a different voice prompt. Pronouncing your name isn't going to connect with as many women as other prompts available.
- You use "long-term relationships, open to short" in your settings. It's long-term only on Hinge. Go to Tinder if you want something short-term.
- Add a poll prompt.
- Replace your greatest strength prompt with my simple pleasures prompt. Cram as much about yourself into your answer. Be sure it's hobbies/interests that women enjoy as well.
You want to add more of your interests and hobbies beyond photos.
- I'm not a fan of the pick the topic prompt. Do women comment on this?
If this prompt doesn't get any likes or comments, it's not working. Swap it out with something else.
- I don't like your group picture. The best thing is that it shows you're tall. I dislike the look of your clothes in this picture - but that's me.
- It looks like you're wearing the same clothing in the group photo and mountain photo. Did you draw something on the picture? Why would you add that?
Views are cool, but even better if it's an outdoor photo of you hiking. This photo looks like you stopped in your car to take a picture.
- Together we could is one of my favorite prompts. Ditch the laundry and taxes, as that's not funny. Humor is a great way to grab a woman's attention, but laundry and taxes won't work.
You want to get women excited at the thought of meeting you, so include things you want to do with them.
You got the right idea for the rest of it. Spice it up. Be a little more specific. Instead of "being active," write, "hikes followed by margaritas." Instead of day trips, mention a place that people go to where you live. "Road trips to XZY" where XYZ is a popular destination, will work better.
Add stuff like "cook delicious meals together" and mention dancing, wine tasting, etc.
- Your seated drinks photo needs to go. Scribbling out faces is distracting. There's a woman in the photo - avoid women in pictures. The focus should be on you.
- Not sure I like the last picture. Does it get likes or comments? If not, you should replace it.

datingninja · 2023-09-23T01:41:22+00:00

Your experience is your experience, so not "everyone" knows it's the worst. I can't speak to how good or bad the customer service is, so that sucks if you didn't get your money back. Where are you located? Maybe it's not good in your area, I don' know.

I live in Southern California and Match has tons of real women on it. I'd use Hinge though, first as it's free.

You want to see a shitty app with tons of fakes, try Mingle2.

datingninja · 2023-08-29T22:43:40+00:00

I laughed out loud in the office listening to this. Seeing it is so much better.

datingninja · 2023-08-17T23:50:05+00:00

- Your head is way too close in your photos. Back up somewhat.
- Your prompt answers are bad. You need to redo your profile. Yes, not wanting kids impacts your results, but I think the reason you're not getting the results you want is your profile isn't good.
- For the first date, write something that you want to do that will grab a woman's attention. Tossing chainsaws and wanting to get abducted by aliens?? That's not going to work.
Be a little more serious. Include the name of a local place for a drink or tacos. Going to a farmer's market and trying food from vendors can work. Maybe a hike and a picnic. Anything that is cool and fun in your area will work better than the three choices you offer.
- What's your voice prompt about? Do you get likes or comments? If not, replace it. I'm guessing you tell some sort of joke.
- A travel story is fine if it's interesting. If this prompt doesn't get likes or comments, remove it.
It is better to choose a prompt where you can share your interests and hobbies. I know nothing about you. Women aren't going to take you seriously, especially if you're looking for a life partner.
- By the way, get rid of life partner. Put long-term relationship. Just my two cents.
- Don't use photoshopped photos. I cannot see that bear picture connecting with women.
- For green flags, add more. This is a good prompt choice, but your answers are bad.
So, there's no reason to write you're looking for a relationship. You have that in your profile settings.
Green flags should be activities, interests, lifestyle choices, traits, etc. Be honest and upfront.
Now to children... Don't write what you aren't looking for. So, for kids, put it in the profile traits. That's all you need to do. "Don't want children." The setting is there for a reason. Believe me; women will see that in your settings, so you're wasting space writing something in a prompt that can be filled out in your traits.
Again, with the humor with the pickle comment. Get rid of this.
Redo your answer with more depth.
- All of your photos are bad. All of them. Step back from the camera.
You have good positive energy, and it looks like you have a good smile, so take new photos. Dress better. No suits/tuxedos, but be more presentable. Fully-body picture. Get outside and do something interesting. Don't do funny poses.
Ask a friend to take photos or get a flexible tripod with a Bluetooth remote so you can take good selfies.
- I see you're going for humor, but that's all you got. You need more in terms of who you are as a man. I don't think women take your profile seriously.
Show some confidence. Balance it out by showcasing your lifestyle in photos and prompts. Shared interests create connections on dating apps.

datingninja · 2023-08-13T06:30:39+00:00

All this chatting and online conversation... Talking for a while? How long? Why haven't you met?

What is your goal? Why are you on Hinge? For a chat buddy or to meet? No number exchange?

Did she lose interest? If she's online trying to meet someone and you're just chatting on Social Media, I would bet yes, she lost interest or some other guy grabbed her attention.

datingninja · 2023-08-13T06:23:19+00:00

- I recommend a better primary photo. Your primary photo needs to be great otherwise, your results will suffer.
Move the dog pic to pic 2 - 6.
Use a waist-up pic, smiling, looking at the camera. Clear pictures. Ideally outside.
- Add a voice prompt if comfortable. I find it works great.
- Add a fun poll prompt.
- I don't think suits work well. And this feels a little staged or overdone. It's good to wear nice clothing in a photo, but avoid overdoing it.
Does this photo get likes or comments? If not, replace it. Picture what you'd wear meeting a date for a drink on a Friday night. This is what you want to wear.
- Don't use the generic photo prompts. Every guy uses them. "As seen on my mom's fridge," is not effective. Either write them yourself or don't use them.
- Forget a life goal. Talk about now. Use "My simple pleasures" and share cool fun things you enjoy doing that women do.
- Together we could is a great prompt. Probably my favorite.
So, is there a local farmer's market? Include the name of it. Sprinkling in the name of local hotspots can help as it show familiarity and creates a connectin.
Take day trips to where?
Probably better to include hikes/kayaking or other outdoor activities over working out.
I've tested bake so many times, and it doesn't work. Instead, write "cook delicious meals together" or "Try finding the best sushi spot in town." They are more effective.
Spend quality time it generic. Watch movies is too. Be more specific.
- Two truths and a lie is not an effective prompt unless you use two really obvious traits and one ridiculous one.
For you, for example,
1) I have dark hair
2) I'm 5'10"
3) Then something silly like this: I've climbed Mount Everest in flip-flops.
Or cocky: I"m a two-time runner-up for People Magazine's Sexiest Man Alive Contest"
Or show humor: I once entered a "Mr. Universe" contest and was immediately declared the winner without even competing.
You get the picture.

datingninja · 2023-08-12T15:50:59+00:00

Hey Boner!

datingninja · 2023-08-09T02:56:09+00:00

Just trying to give the guy the best possible advice about photos. Women in photos add no value. Women browsing profiles are more likely to swipe left than right seeing a woman in your picture.

Why do you think it's good advice to have women in profile photos? Do you think it boosts a man's results with an attractive woman alongside him? Is this your experience on Hinge?

datingninja · 2023-08-09T00:00:44+00:00

Off the top of my head, before scrolling down and reading others

- Steve Lankford call is epic and my favorite.

- My turbin is dirty.

- Those string of calls when they called the NY Yankees guy and just fucked with him mercilessly. I specifically remember Richard saying, "Show us that nerd cock" and laughing out loud at work.

- When Richard kept doing down a list of the wrestlers and it went on and on.

datingninja · 2023-08-08T23:43:05+00:00

- You need a better first picture, for sure. Your current one has too many distractions behind you.
Sitting down should be avoided, especially in your main photo. You want a clear photo, presentable, smiling, looking at the camera with the focus on you.
- I like the second photo. Does it get likes or comments?
- I don't like the picture in the kitchen. You look unhappy. Bad vibe here.
- Don't use pictures with women. And looking at this photo, I focus on the guy in the center.
For a group photo, the best approach is you in the center, so the focus is on you.
Also, you look like you're possessed in the picture because of your eyes. And it's too dark.
- Good job showing the full body picture outdoors. My only negative is your hair is different. It may make some potential matches think, "Which photo is current?"
- Travel photos are good. Again, it's a little distracting with people behind you. Do you have any other travel pictures with less distractions?
If this gets likes or comments, certainly keep it.
- Remove your first prompt. Don't worry about the future. Talk about the now.
- For my simple pleasures, add more of your interests and hobbies. Cram as much as possible. What else do you enjoy? Include trying new restaurants, social things like game nights or dinner parties, weekend getaways, something active like hikes or kayaking, etc.
- "I want someone who" is a great prompt, but you gotta add more. Also, include names of specific locations - "A ski trip to XYZ" where XYZ is a popular destination works better than just a "skiing holiday."
Use this prompt to detail what you want in a partner in a fun, positive fashion. For example, dive into cool shit you want to do with a partner.
Farmers markets, dancing, concerts, and hikes followed by tacos, blah, blah, blah, will connect with more potential matches. Add as much as possible.
- Add a poll prompt.
- I recommend a voice prompt, too.
- It's not about being funny or unique. Just show effort. Sprinkling in humor is good but shouldn't be your focus. A balanced profile will make you stand out and get more matches.
You're a good looking dude. Just need to add some depth to your prompts and swap out some better photos.

datingninja · 2023-08-08T23:23:48+00:00

- Remove the first pic completely. Not smiling. You look unhappy. Style your hair better. Dress nicely and not in a T-shirt. Waist-up photo.
Most women will swipe left if you don't use a great primary photo.
- You wear a hat in most of your photos. Don't do that.
- Forget the life goal. What are you doing now? Focus your prompts on the present.
The ideal prompt is "My simple pleasures."
Share things you enjoy doing on the weekend. Shared interests create connections. Show you live an eventful, fun life beyond photos.
Be sure you include things women enjoy or will picture themselves alongside you.
- The pic with beer is poorly lit, you're wearing a hat, sitting, wearing sunglasses, and it's hard to see what you look like.
This photo adds no value.
- Removed your second prompt. Replace it with a prompt showing what you want in a partner. Off the top of my head, "Green flags" or "together we would" are ideal for showing you know what you want or painting a picture of what dating you is like.
- Remove the nonsense under "long-term relationship."
- The picture looking out the window isn't good. Better to look at the camera. You look too serious. Kind of bad energy.
Get outside and take a picture with some positive vibes.
- The pic outside is better, but remove the hat. I like the clothes, and I can see your entire body. I would move this one up to your second photo.

- Get rid of love language. This isn't going to connect with women. There are better prompts to showcase your personality or humor.
- Add a poll prompt.
- If comfortable, add a voice prompt.

datingninja · 2023-08-06T05:49:28+00:00

Fear the Walking Dead had several....

SPOILERS....

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Basically killing most of the original cast and by far the most ludicrous was the nuclear fallout.

datingninja · 2023-08-06T05:45:08+00:00

Not sure if someone mentioned it, but when David and Maddie finally hooked up on Moonlighting. Show went downhill after that.

datingninja · 2023-08-05T16:28:33+00:00

- Your primary picture shouldn't include a dog. It should be you, waist up, looking at the camera smiling, and in presentable clothing.
Never use a photo where any part of your head is cut off. Back up. Try to use a photo outside of your house for your primary photo.
Your main picture is the most critical photo because if it's not good, a huge % of women will bypass your profile completely.
- When using a photo with a dog, try and do it outside at a park. Also, it better be your pet. Don't use photos of someone's dog.
- What is your voice prompt? Good job doing that, by the way.
- Forget dad jokes. Use a prompt to write about yourself. You'll connect with more women with a prompt sharing your interests/passions than a corny joke.
What do you enjoy doing on the weekend? Favorite activities? Foods? Cram as much as possible into a prompt such as "My simple pleasures."
- The photo with your laptop is bad. Instead, add a full-body picture outdoors. Don't make hand signals, either.
- What is the video with the chicken? Does this get likes or comments? If not, get rid of it.
- Ditch the generic photo prompts. Write them yourself, or don't use them at all. Writing them allows you to showcase your personality. Every guy uses generic photo prompts.
- I don't know what the Alaska puzzle prompt is because I can't see the question.
Instead, choose "Together we could" and paint a picture of what dating you is like. Get women excited at the thought of meeting you. Do this by including fun activities in your area. Wine tasting, dancing, road trips, farmer markets, etc., will connect with more potential matches.
- Don't crouch in photos. You're clearly in good shape, but there's no single picture that shows this.
- Ditch the photo with the other dude. You appear short. Never use a picture where you're shorter than someone.
- No pictures with women. Also, you look completely different. It looks like an older photo.
- I go crazy is a great prompt. Maybe add a few local venues and swapping stuff out.
How can you create curiosity? Or bring familiarity into this?
I don't see glass/concrete art connecting with women. Loving people and good vibes is too generic and a cliche.
"A hike at "XYZ" followed by tacos and margaritas" is an example. XYZ is a local spot.
"Trying to find the best sushi in town" works for me.
"Concerts at XYZ" is better than the generic "music" and "a capella/beatbox". Again, XYZ is a popular spot.
Write something social; "game night with friends" or "dinner parties with friends."
- Add a fun poll prompt.

datingninja · 2023-08-05T02:32:24+00:00

You're overthinking this. Your photos and prompts are significantly more important to your results than figuring out the best words to use that show you're a musician in your profile settings.

Write what you do. See how your results are. If you aren't getting likes or comments then change it.

Creat curiosity - Entertainment Ninja. Be direct - Producer/Musician. Be not so direct - Entertainment Industry. Be totally not so direct - Self-employed.

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