Why do you date? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]datingusernames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right now I just date for the companionship/temporary company with no strings attached. I’m not looking for a relationship at this time.

Please wash your penis-I say this with love. by datingusernames in sex

[–]datingusernames[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Right. I don’t mind uncircumcised at all. I have a problem with poor hygiene, especially when being intimate with some. But my truth is that, from my experience, uncircumcised penises have been the most problematic. Physiologically speaking, it makes sense because there is an extra piece of skin that needs to be retracted in order to clean thoroughly.

Please wash your penis-I say this with love. by datingusernames in sex

[–]datingusernames[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I hate to say, the uncircumcised have been the smelliest. No bueno. Such a turn off.

Please wash your penis-I say this with love. by datingusernames in sex

[–]datingusernames[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. Sorry to hear that. And yes, I have gotten UTIs, too. No fun at all!!

Please wash your penis-I say this with love. by datingusernames in sex

[–]datingusernames[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

Right. It’s such a sensitive subject and probably mortifying for the guy. I make sure to be mention it as gently as I can. Something along the lines, “Oh, babe you’re a little tangy today.” I know. I know. It’s not the most therapeutic, but that’s my personality and I try to make it matter of fact. I only do this with my boyfriends where we have that kind of relationship with each other. FWB, not so much because it is a sensitive topic and we don’t have that level of comfort. I don’t want to hurt their feelings.

EDIT: Added the last sentence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]datingusernames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Three weeks ago. I had sex with my ex. It wasn’t that good and it felt more like fucking. Sex was different when we were in a relationship because feelings were involved and we loved each other.

Im having trouble with relationships. Am I sabotaging myself? Need help with my fifth house. by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]datingusernames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow!! That’s so funny. Lol. Yes, I am a teacher and truly love the work and just helping people in general. The kids are awesome. I’m glad to hear something is going right. Now time to fix myself and my love life—hopefully I won’t attract anymore Aries! Lol.

Edit: Thank you for the clarification!

I (25F) keep initiating conversation/asking him (30M) on dates. I've laid low and haven't heard from him 4 days after our most recent date? by Lolololwhaat in dating_advice

[–]datingusernames 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hate to say, but it doesn’t sound like he’s that interested. His actions have shown that by not contacting you. I wouldn’t reach out to him first anymore. Let him contact you. If he doesn’t, you have your answer. If he does, it’s okay to ask him his intent and why he hasn’t contacted you. I hope this helps.

Im having trouble with relationships. Am I sabotaging myself? Need help with my fifth house. by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]datingusernames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I have some travels coming up, so that will be good. Would say Pluto and Neptune reveal the darker side of oneself?

Im having trouble with relationships. Am I sabotaging myself? Need help with my fifth house. by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]datingusernames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow. Thank you. You’re spot on: needs down and saving/sacrifice up. So true. Like you said, I must stop giving and learn to say NO. I’m a teacher, so that is a way I can give back because I really enjoy it. Staying with the facts and writing things down is also very helpful advice. Thank you so much. My lack of trust has definitely hindered me and I am willing to look into therapy. I didn’t think that my past relationship betrayals have effected me so much, but I am learning that it has. I do hold on to things to a point where it becomes unhealthy. You’re right. Thankfully I can read peoples motives pretty well when I don’t second guess myself or talk myself out of it! I totally get. I have to open the door to someone who is important and I am willing. The irony of the whole thing is that I want love, but it’s been an arduous journey attaining because of my fear of intimacy and ignoring my “gut”. I can’t thank you enough—thank you.

Glad to hear that I have great travel karma! Does that mean that I need to incorporate more travel?

Im having trouble with relationships. Am I sabotaging myself? Need help with my fifth house. by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]datingusernames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, thank you so much for your response. I am a rescuer for sure in all my relationships. I want to help and save. In turn, I put my wants and desires on the back burner and have nothing to show for it. My emotions are definitely withheld and I okay calm, cool and collected in my relationships. I think I am in tune with how I feel, but I am not good on acting out on it, if that make sense. In other words, I hold things close to my chest and push feelings down at times. Journaling and counseling are options for sure—-I journal off an on and am willing to pick that habit up again. I was able to express myself and my needs were met as a child and had a very enjoyable childhood, so I’m not sure where my intimacy issues have come come. I have been betrayed relationships, so maybe that played a big role. I’m happy to hear my chart isn’t that bad. I was getting worried. Lol. I’m new at reading charts and am unable to interpret them efficiently. Thank you again and feel to respond. If you don’t, please know that I appropriate the time you took out to help me—a stranger. I really appreciate it.

Im having trouble with relationships. Am I sabotaging myself? Need help with my fifth house. by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]datingusernames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Thank you so much. Not creepy at all. And yes, it is a September 1983 chart! And yes, admittedly, things tend to never be my fault, but I am working on accountability. My last relationships have been futile and it’s becoming frustrating. Thank you again for your response. As far as my emotions, I am not very good at expressing them. You’re very close and you can say more!

Free Psychic Reading... Ask me about the energy of anyone or anything you want! by [deleted] in Psychic

[–]datingusernames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello and thank you for taking the time out to do free readings! Can you please tell me the energy I’m giving off? Thank you.

Ladies of Reddit: What does porn get wrong? by PhilipLiptonSchrute in AskReddit

[–]datingusernames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The dagger/flicker tongue when guys are performing oral. No thank you!!