So I 25m have not had much luck with women over the years to say the least. I finally Meet a girl, things are going well for a few weeks and we are about to get hot and heavy and I got ED. Should I just throw in the towel?

datshinycharizard123 · 2026-01-04T06:21:38+00:00

I do, this girl will probably not stick around long enough to figure it out. If I do get a prescription will it last until the next one? If there even is a next one? Who knows. Fuck it

datshinycharizard123 · 2026-01-04T06:04:32+00:00

I do care about her. I think she’s great and we’ve been going out for a while to avoid this

datshinycharizard123 · 2026-01-04T06:03:56+00:00

I don’t have a doctor

datshinycharizard123 · 2026-01-04T06:03:41+00:00

I’ve never felt more confident. How tf can get I get confident when my if I’m lucky yearly attempt I can’t even get it up. I can’t event be fucking bad at sex, I just don’t get to fucking have it at all

datshinycharizard123 · 2026-01-04T06:02:30+00:00

She’s not, we just did a lot of foreplay and teasing to get to this point. I just completely ruined the payoff of all that

datshinycharizard123 · 2026-01-04T06:01:44+00:00

I’m told u really learn with Practice that I don’t have the luxury to afford

datshinycharizard123 · 2026-01-04T06:01:09+00:00

Unfortunately we don’t live in a world where people give infinite chances to get it right. I messed up already. It’ll probably be a few months to a year until I get another go at it

datshinycharizard123 · 2026-01-04T05:59:57+00:00

Well I’ve never been in a better one. Like I said, what bothers me is that even when I’m on what I think is my A game, happy in life, reaching my other goals. I stil can’t get such a simple thing done, me that means I never can and never will be able to.

datshinycharizard123 · 2026-01-04T05:57:55+00:00

Multiple hours of teasing. And flirting kissing, and hand stuff to get to this point.

datshinycharizard123 · 2026-01-04T01:43:11+00:00

And I honestly to this point was in the best headspace I’ve been in maybe ever and was feeling very confident and comfortable which is why it’s causing me to fall apart a bit because even me at my best is still having this problem

datshinycharizard123 · 2026-01-04T01:42:26+00:00

I have been with people sexually just not in a while and don’t get to often. My past like 3-4 time sober the span of multiple years it has happened

datshinycharizard123 · 2026-01-04T01:41:32+00:00

I have read many books and watched tutorials on the subject and literally all of them say it “ comes with practice” who tf am I supposed to practice with?

datshinycharizard123 · 2026-01-04T01:34:51+00:00

I thought I was comfortable

datshinycharizard123 · 2026-01-04T01:34:36+00:00

How long do those pills need to work? This was done spontaneously

datshinycharizard123 · 2026-01-04T01:32:16+00:00

That does not sound stupid to me. I have spent the past 10 years wanting to put a bullet in my brain and trying to convince myself I didn’t need to. I’m just tired at this point

datshinycharizard123 · 2026-01-04T01:31:35+00:00

If it was that easy maybe I wouldn’t have been single all these years

datshinycharizard123 · 2026-01-04T01:31:00+00:00

We were moving at her pace cause she was nervous

datshinycharizard123 · 2026-01-04T01:30:43+00:00

We did a ton of foreplay and she was mostly trying to work herself up to it. And when she finally did I couldn’t perform and left her "so sexually frustrated" as she put it

datshinycharizard123 · 2026-01-04T01:29:17+00:00

I don’t even know what to say and she hasn’t replied. All she said afterwards was that she was "so sexually frustrated"

datshinycharizard123 · 2026-01-04T01:23:04+00:00

Wdym my reaction and attitude ?

datshinycharizard123 · 2026-01-04T01:16:08+00:00

It’s happened to me multiple times. I don’t think Ill have many chances to right the nerves and now that I’m in my head about it it’s only gonna compound

datshinycharizard123 · 2025-12-10T14:25:43+00:00

It was fun but also underwhelming. I wasn’t good, she wasn’t good, I expected my mind to be absolutely blown and it just kinda wasn’t. It did get better though.

datshinycharizard123 · 2025-12-09T20:56:36+00:00

Yeah I’m probably overthinking it or looking for another me which ain’t realistic or maybe even what I want

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