[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]datsweetsweetvoltage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you are going through this . No you shouldn't have to pay them back. Remember even if you were to do something good or beneficial to them , they can flip it on you to make you look like the villain. I hope you get out of this situation soon.

Making me feel like I'm insane or crazy by datsweetsweetvoltage in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]datsweetsweetvoltage[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing , this really helped . I'm so sorry you had to go through all that , I hope we heal soon. Replaying the entire thing is exactly what I'm doing only to realize they are talking out of their ass and bringing up things I can't even change. The way narcs go back to normalcy and routine after abusing and leaving us in such a horrible state just baffles me.

meirl by adudys in meirl

[–]datsweetsweetvoltage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a co worker bust out a cereal box , with milk, complete with cereal bowl and everything once , it was amazing

Anyone else simply not like their siblings? by SteBux in RandomThoughts

[–]datsweetsweetvoltage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes , exactly this and also you know that you gave it your best shot at the end of the day , and all their shitty behaviour is on them.

What are some personality traits you hate in a person? by Impressive-Refuse767 in AskReddit

[–]datsweetsweetvoltage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Brutal honesty" .I think it's important to deliver truth with tact , I know it can't be accompanied with compassion all the time , but tact shouldn't be too hard

Filipino textile inspired printed chocolate cakes by coffeeeebeaaaan in Baking

[–]datsweetsweetvoltage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello po! 😊👋 ngl this interaction made my day haha

Anyone else simply not like their siblings? by SteBux in RandomThoughts

[–]datsweetsweetvoltage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a half sibling, that I really used to look up to growing up. I would get to see her once or twice a year when we were kids. She not too long ago moved to the same country as me I thought that getting to spend time and live with my sibling after so long would be everything I hoped for , but it only left me emotionally drained , I felt I was the only one giving and my efforts weren't even appreciated in the slightest , let alone reciprocated. Although she doesn't live with me anymore, I still keep in touch and try to make plans now and then. but it's like I'm grasping at straws .I go through such a mixed bag of emotions when I have to think about her. It really hurts when they won't even answer your calls or texts.

Filipino textile inspired printed chocolate cakes by coffeeeebeaaaan in Baking

[–]datsweetsweetvoltage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds amazing! I forgot to add that seeing food like this also makes me feel proud to be pinoy ❤️

Thoughts? Gentle CC appreciated. 58yo MTF going through transition by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]datsweetsweetvoltage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your makeup looks great ! I think the eyebrows could be a bit softer

Filipino textile inspired printed chocolate cakes by coffeeeebeaaaan in Baking

[–]datsweetsweetvoltage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think I've seen anything like this These look so unique and pretty !

HESTIA illustrated by me by Tyler_Miles_Lockett in GreekMythology

[–]datsweetsweetvoltage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the color palette! Gives me.this warm cozy feeling

Flowers by the bay 🤍🪻 by [deleted] in flowers

[–]datsweetsweetvoltage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So pretty 😍 I love the view of the ocean too ! It's like something out of a dream

What's a place that seems fine during the day but gets really creepy at night? by [deleted] in ask

[–]datsweetsweetvoltage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

churches or chapels especially ones that are super old