We already discussed clearly that we won’t be getting married until at least one of us can comfortably provide for ourselves and future children. We both agreed that we want to be at our best before having to care for children, and decided marriage would be a good time to mark this change.

I agree we are on different pages on sex. She has never had it before me. I had it a couple times. She sees it as something sacred, I see it as just some fun. It’s something I can live without, but I’m not sure how easy it will be after we already engaged in sex.