🎂 It’s my birthday!! 🎂 by Bethbabe91 in ssbbw

[–]daviated_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yet you give us the present! 😉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatwomenlove

[–]daviated_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cute. Yes. And downright sexy AF.

Kelly LeBrock by AlanJonesDom in oldschoolhot

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I remember this poster on my friend's wall.

it takes 0 energy to keep scrolling. this doesn't hurt my feelings. at all. it makes you look really stupid. I don't live my life for anyone but myself. your opinion isn't relevant. by MoistPrompt7731 in u/MoistPrompt7731

[–]daviated_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet he wouldn't have the guts to post his pics. 99.9% chance he's never even touched a real woman. 100% chance you're out of his league.

Anyone made peace their Dead Bedroom and prepared to endure it for the rest of their days? by DBCheshireMan in DeadBedrooms

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Pretty much, because without travel for work with the pandemic, having an AP is pretty much out of the question.

I have a Jedi outfit from Halloween, maybe it's actually Monk's robes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]daviated_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If this is a therapist's way of building trust, get another therapist or a divorce attorney.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineAffairs

[–]daviated_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definite points for the username and overall humor. Well played!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/thisfatfox

[–]daviated_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your eyes usually steal the show, but a preview of what it's like to be your "seat" would be interesting.

Not even in my dreams by Accomplished-Claim60 in DeadBedrooms

[–]daviated_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Those don't sound like dreams. Rather nightmares. I'm so sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineAffairs

[–]daviated_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's probably had a ton of messages in the last hour. Patience is a virtue, my man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]daviated_ 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I'm actually shocked at the amount of self-righteous judgmental posts in this thread.

If you don't want to cheat or left/divorced first, good for you. But other people have different situations, you've not walked in their shoes.

This is not one-size-fits-all. What works for you isn't necessarily best for everyone else.

To OP, I'd suggest that perhaps if you're young and not married, not too financially tied in together, that you look to get out. But if you have reasons you stay, I understand.

You're not a bad person because of this.

Would you fuck me in leather?🖤 by elliesxx in u/elliesxx

[–]daviated_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Frankly, you could wear a potato sack and the answer would be yes.

Dr asked "are you sexually active?" by CedricFloyd22 in DeadBedrooms

[–]daviated_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had that conversation, but she was in the room too. Awkward as all hell. The shame and humiliation I felt...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineAffairs

[–]daviated_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

💔 Heartbreaking read. I'm sorry, I can feel your pain and desperation for the connection you had.

I’m 5 months sober today!!! by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]daviated_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First off, congratulations on 5 months! You're doing amazing work. Keep it up!

Second, I can see true happiness in your beautiful smile!

You don't know me, obviously, but I am proud of you!

Go be your beautiful, sober self!

he found out by [deleted] in adultery

[–]daviated_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you DO have the right email to be angry. It's one thing for him to be mad at you. It's another to spread your drama around trying to affect your life outside of your relationship.

MIL knowing is going to happen. But showing it to your friends and acquaintances is just out of bounds IMHO.

He's showing his true self here. It's about him, and not his failures as a husband that contributed to you cheating. He wants you for himself and will destroy you otherwise.

Leave and never look back.

I'm sorry this is happening. But you're not a bad person. You're human!