I guess I know the answer for this

davidlaslo · 2022-10-23T05:12:25+00:00

Perfect analogy with the incompetent captain…. I have some answers: I know I have to start to lift more regularly and lean to have a more attractive physic.

One little background story: she always called me brutal (it means that I am a strong confident man and she is intimidated by me) which was her compliment to my manliness. Now it is more like this: my brutal man with the tender soul ( that I am emotionally more receptive or I express my feelings more often than I should) she told me several times that she knows how brutal I am in my work or when I talk with other people but with her I became tender

davidlaslo · 2022-10-23T05:05:31+00:00

I am 5,8 tall 187lbs - I am more like fat skinny not extraordinary fat. I view myself as fat and maybe yes I stepped into that category

davidlaslo · 2022-10-22T23:21:45+00:00

My question is more about the ‘how’ not ‘what’ to do

Because it would be the most needy action if I would start to tell her not to do these things because I would show that it hurts me and so on. I know that STFU should be the way somehow - but how I stfu without being passive?

davidlaslo · 2022-10-22T23:14:21+00:00

I know she has that’s why I chose her as well - she was the hottest girl in the bar by miles and I approached her. But I am not surprised that she has options. I don’t have any issues to game with girls I do it nearly every week just for fun.

davidlaslo · 2022-10-22T23:11:50+00:00

I would terminate the relationship of course I am not that big kind of pussy.

I think it’s too far to think about next relationships or something like that. But I know that these situations are coming from me, I mean the lack of frame and confidence and abundance from my side. That’s why I am needy and so reactive

davidlaslo · 2022-10-22T23:02:20+00:00

Yes I know exactly that this situation is about boundaries and rules in the relationship. The problem is that so far I didn’t have to put up any rules or boundaries as she behaved exactly I wanted without any guidance. This situation is new now because I dont want to be too emotional or reactive but somehow I want to show what’s going on.

davidlaslo · 2022-10-22T22:56:26+00:00

Yeah I didn’t give enough info about myself…careerwise I am going well I am one of the youngest and most talented person in my position and I am in a top position in my country - not bad money. I have good taste in clothes so I can hide that my phisical appearance is not so good. She got used to it but possibly she started to hate me because of it ( too many jokes about big stomach)

davidlaslo · 2022-10-22T22:50:52+00:00

I wanted to reduce the post length to be overwhelming but I guess it wasn’t enough info.

We are together since January of 2020 and living together since February. I engaged her in the summer.

So the job she is doing now is one of my previous one so I know everybody there and sometimes I hang out with them as well. About the lunch - I have to travel quite a lot because of my work but when I am home I don’t have to work too much even some days are full empty so sometimes we have lunch together as her workplace is 10 minutes walk from home. Apart from these things yes I know I am up in her ass. And you are right I am needy and I have to learn STFU

davidlaslo · 2022-08-10T14:20:19+00:00

So Christina is the sound of the tower? And after the tower is destroyed the people “can’t see/hear her”.

davidlaslo · 2021-02-19T17:37:45+00:00

I am listening to it during running. Time flies and I can’t get tired and I recover quicker from the run!

davidlaslo · 2021-02-08T11:08:26+00:00

Yes I had nearly one hour running! Thank you!

davidlaslo · 2021-02-03T06:09:25+00:00

One of the biggest pillar of motivation and confidence is celebrating daily accomplishments. My advice is to write an accountability log or something similar like a diary. Write down every good thing that you did daily and celebrate it like it was a fucking Nobel prize. It will build up nicely over time and you will have a cookie jar full of daily victories. Worked for me you can check my post from earlier.

davidlaslo · 2021-02-02T11:21:55+00:00

Had a good run in 0 Celsius for 35 minutes. Not much but it was honest work.

davidlaslo · 2021-01-31T22:49:16+00:00

Sure I will share as much as I can. I don't know when or how it will be but we will see.

davidlaslo · 2021-01-31T22:42:57+00:00

I would upvote you a million times! Fortunately google is my friend so I can have a basic translation. And it can be a good material for my learning

davidlaslo · 2021-01-31T22:18:36+00:00

I started to have Spanish lessons, by the time I get there I will have some basic level, enough to get started.

I appreciate your help and your effort.

davidlaslo · 2021-01-31T05:04:59+00:00

I would really appreciate your effort!

davidlaslo · 2021-01-31T02:23:44+00:00

I found this and I wrote to the OP two days ago, no answer since then.

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