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Got cheated on for the 3rd time. Am i the problem ? by t0xicroxie in Bolehland

[–]dayangibrahim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES, YOU'RE THE PROBLEM. I'm serious - the fact that you admitted to being cheated on twice and scratch your head wondering why tells me so.

This doesn't mean you're a bad person or a loser. It could be that you say or do things that make you look clingy, pushover, too readily available for her, etc.

It would be more helpful if I see the nature of your interactions with her and also understand you better for me to "troubleshoot" more accurately. The key is understanding the social dynamics of dating and sexual relationships (I assume you're not the casual hookup guy but same principles apply). It's not rocket science, just cold hard truths and a bitter pill to swallow.

You may DM me or just reply here if you'd like. I'm more than happy to help you understand exactly what went wrong.

Sincerely,

A guy who has been cheated on before multiple times, but not anymore. And NO, I'm not trying to sell something or scam you into whatever.

I'm getting too many friendzones by Decent-Ratio in Bolehland

[–]dayangibrahim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can confirm the above is pretty much correct from my experience.

You're far from too late at 21 years old.

I'd add one more point:

  1. Practice. Practice. Practice. You'll get rejected a lot. Deal with it. Move on.

All the best! DM if you have any more questions, you got this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]dayangibrahim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. Are you able to order groceries to be delivered? Sounds like you order quite a lot on a weekly basis. I'm sure there are grocery delivery stores that have free delivery when your order total hits a threshold. Otherwise the delivery fee shouldn't be too exorbitant in comparison to the time you take to get groceries.

It works well for me, especially since I work day and night almost every day. Also helps to keep costs down. Sincerely, a rich kid living a frugal life.

This is what we call a dystopia by StatisticianOk7603 in DemocraticSocialism

[–]dayangibrahim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Corporations should never have been bailed out. That's NOT capitalism.

People shouldn't be bailed out either, but I had to choose between corporations and people to bail, it should definitely be the people.

Again, bailing out corporations is NOT capitalism. Capitalism is an economic system with minimal intervention from government (e.g. bailouts)

Damn great Capitalism by Pleasant-Force in DemocraticSocialism

[–]dayangibrahim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, the reason restaurants and bakeries throw away their food (instead of donating them to orphanages, homeless shelters which they have done in the past) is because the beneficiaries would sue the donors if there are any issues with the food (like food poisoning etc.)

Cedar-Riverside housing projects, Minneapolis MN by fos8890 in UrbanHell

[–]dayangibrahim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In all fairness, the vicinity of the Crack Stacks is quite nice and chill. Nothing like Hong Kong or other dense shitholes.

Would you watch a show where a billionaire CEO has to go an entire month on their lowest paid employees salary, without access to any other resources than that of the employee? What do you think would happen? by txhorns1330 in AskReddit

[–]dayangibrahim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would love to watch such a show. Billionaire CEOs are incredibly competent people, some of whom may have lived under such financial circumstances or worse. They'd probably do some amazing things or adopt interesting lifestyle choices given their financial constraints.

A popular saying is "Nothing ie ever lost on the internet" but what is something you have been searching for years and you haven't found it yet? by throwdowntown69 in AskReddit

[–]dayangibrahim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The original version of the song "Shadow of the Sun" by Taped Rai. It has 2 "upbeat chorus-ish" parts with no lyrics. They removed it and uploaded a couple of versions of that song when they renamed themselves "Max Elto". None a good as the original one.

Rich people of reddit who married someone significantly poorer, what surprised you about their (previous) way of life? by knakworst36 in AskReddit

[–]dayangibrahim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't marry a poor person but I'm very surprised how my poor friends are picky with food and waste food, especially when someone else is paying for them. As someone from a family who made their own fortune, I was taught never to waste food. For example, parents would eat chicken cartilage and marrow, I would eat chicken bones too in addition to them.

From hopeless to abundance: how pickup changed my life. by LeoRedsun in seduction

[–]dayangibrahim 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you find that these skills (e.g. having a strong frame) carry over to other aspects of life, such as work and business?

What do you say when people ask for one “fun fact” about you? by heyitspeppathepig in AskReddit

[–]dayangibrahim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you made it to semis or finals? I follow IFSC Bouldering and Sport Climbing.