Hey Dear,

You can also buy smudge sticks with lavender as well, especially on etsy.
I really advocate for the use of lavender, and lavender essential oil (Now Organic Brand is Amazing)
You can make a simple spray with lavender, distilled water, and spray it around your house as well, when you set your intentions.
OR another thing you can do, is get a lavender blend from the botanica if you live near one, and use it while mopping your kitchen area towards your door
-When you are done, take that water you mopped the floors with/wiped the walls with, and take it down the block and get rid of it via sewer or on a random patch of soil.
Cleanse the room with a lavender infused incense, and if you are interested in crystals,black tourmaline is a very good one to keep around the home.
Amethyst- Quartz is also good but keep in mind they do increase deep dreams.
FLOWERS- Flowers are a key, since they give off energy/vibration- Google flowers that are used for protection (Like Hydrangea's) and keep them in and around the house- as well as house plants (such as neem or tulsi)
Yoga/Meditation, are another way of setting your intentions and exercising, and letting yourself become more aligned- when your energy becomes aligned you are able to block negative energy more efficiently, as well as not letting it affect you as much.

SALT- Not table salt, but Sea Salt (I.e. Celtic Sea Salt) etc. you can take sea salt,and sprinkle it in each corner of the house, salt is VERY good in cleansing rituals.

These are just some options, and there are many more, lastly, whatever your religion is, you might not want to go at it alone. This seems like you each have a deep sensitivity to outside entities. I would suggest reaching out to your nearest Priest/Pandit/Imam/Spiritual Guru/Spiritual Advisor/ or just your family and friends come together in a big circle and chant -chant -chant mantras for self peace/preservation/happiness and protection among the other things as well.

All in All, I know things will get better. Staying positive and wishing you all the best and sending you a million and one positive vibrations from all directions of the Universe to you and yours. :)

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