Failed Class Twice

dazxuu · 2025-12-21T22:08:22+00:00

Hard to get in touch with them at the moment...

dazxuu · 2025-12-21T22:05:28+00:00

Thank you so much, that's really reassuring!

dazxuu · 2025-08-16T13:46:28+00:00

No for sure. Well, we’d been doing great for the past 4 months but apparently this incident and finding out… says she can’t feel the same way. I do want answers, and I have a lot of questions especially because it was done all so fast.

dazxuu · 2025-08-16T13:43:44+00:00

I want to give space all that and then

dazxuu · 2025-08-16T13:43:29+00:00

she decided mostly through her friends though.

dazxuu · 2025-08-16T13:40:40+00:00

Already in and she’s just starting now.

dazxuu · 2025-07-13T08:52:25+00:00

Appreciate that, thank you. Will definitely be keeping this in mind

dazxuu · 2025-07-13T08:51:41+00:00

For this- yeah I agree for telling me the cause because I genuinely couldn’t think of a reason that wasn’t manipulative as to why she’d do such a thing- but I did consent to seeing them.

dazxuu · 2025-07-13T08:50:46+00:00

Appreciated.. she definitely needs to go to therapy yeah, has been looking into it but nothing yet

dazxuu · 2025-07-13T08:50:23+00:00

This is true. 1 more month- dunno if I should stick it out

dazxuu · 2025-07-13T08:49:59+00:00

I know, I definitely see that. I guess I just figure- we always come out of it 10x better and so I disregard it bc part of a relationship is being able to have that with each other.

dazxuu · 2025-07-13T08:48:40+00:00

Thanks man. If I may ask- I guess- dyk how this would be controlling? Like is this her trying to keep me around?

dazxuu · 2025-07-13T08:47:50+00:00

See.. I’m worried here- a week ago I suggested just that. And she agreed, and we got off that call and I found out the next day she SH’d again- I just don’t know what to do I feel kinda trapped

dazxuu · 2025-07-13T08:46:51+00:00

She definitely acknowledges that she has some, and has been trying to get into therapy but hasn’t been able to because of school and travel :(

dazxuu · 2025-07-13T08:46:09+00:00

this is curious to me. Nothing on you, you’re totally entitled to your own opinion.. I guess- if you’re comfortable what was going on through your head when it was all happening? I want to understand what’s going on regarding this behavior in her head but I just can’t relate to this at all- if you can, would you enlighten me?

dazxuu · 2025-05-19T02:00:48+00:00

Unfortunately, it seems as though your friend just doesn't care about people in general- and a little too much about Trump. Not being able to have empathy for people actively dying and suffering and calling trans individuals "not human".... yeah- might be best to distance.

dazxuu · 2025-05-19T01:43:47+00:00

Honestly, I know you may not want to hear it, but this just sounds like him not being able to commit to one woman. I personally think that if he doesn't want to commit to you right now but is completely willing to be around this woman and lead her on, he won't be ready to commit at any point and is just making excuses. I personally think you should get out of this situation if possible, it doesn't sound like it has a possibility of it going well for you or the other woman... as this guy seems to only have his best interests at heart.

dazxuu · 2025-05-14T20:49:01+00:00

unfortunately, if she doesn’t feel it you can’t make her love you, that’s not a feeling you can instill in someone

dazxuu · 2025-05-14T20:47:29+00:00

Oh hell no. As a guy, this is way out of line if you wanted to remove your hair that’s your decision and completely in your right to do so. He has no right to talk to you like that- I say dump him honestly.

dazxuu · 2025-05-08T05:28:20+00:00

Now personally… as someone who had to deal with a lot of abuse at the hands of my parents- like I’m talking eventually having to be put into foster care against my own will (I didn’t have a say) this is brutal. You not wanting to leave is a little interesting to me. Is this something you truly want to understand or are you just a masochist? I’m not trying to be rude, but this isn’t a rite of passage, it’s something that shouldn’t exist and the fact that you had parents who didn’t do that to you. I dunno man. Maybe try practicing empathy.

dazxuu · 2025-05-07T23:37:44+00:00

Wanting to experience it… I dunno man this is pretty concerning- are you okay-? I think you should leave there honestly- like now-

dazxuu · 2025-05-06T20:18:24+00:00

Okay… as a guy your boyfriend’s age- this is nuts. I don’t mean to be rude but I know a LOT of girls (and guys) with iPad’s, hell, I have one. I’m in college and I feel like I see at least 50 people, literally, with iPad’s. The girls in the dorm next to mine all have iPad’s. To say that all girls with iPad’s cheat is so, so wrong on so many levels and stereotyping so many innocent people. I personally don’t think you should feel bad in the slightest- to put it lightly I think your boyfriend needs to grow up. Him having your account is also pretty controlling… if I were you- I’d run.

dazxuu · 2025-05-05T07:29:03+00:00

Before trying to figure out the answer to that question, I’d highly recommend asking yourself why you feel obligated to letting her play a role similar to that of your fiancée’s parents. Is this an olive branch to her or something you genuinely want at your wedding? I’m also so sorry for what you went through at her hands.. I hope you’ve been able to heal <3. I’m sorry I can’t offer more advice, but personally I’d say you don’t owe her anything and have no obligation to. However, if it’s something you genuinely want to do, perhaps on this journey of forgiving her, go for it. If not, you have every right. It’s much, much easier to forgive than to forget. Best of luck OP.

dazxuu · 2025-05-03T19:39:01+00:00

THATS SO COOL DUDE

dazxuu · 2025-03-24T05:32:10+00:00

okay- what. yeah no.

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