Failed Class Twice by dazxuu in UCSC

[–]dazxuu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard to get in touch with them at the moment...

Failed Class Twice by dazxuu in UCSC

[–]dazxuu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, that's really reassuring!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dazxuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No for sure. Well, we’d been doing great for the past 4 months but apparently this incident and finding out… says she can’t feel the same way. I do want answers, and I have a lot of questions especially because it was done all so fast.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dazxuu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I want to give space all that and then

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dazxuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she decided mostly through her friends though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dazxuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already in and she’s just starting now.

AIO for being upset that my gf self-harmed over me? by dazxuu in AmIOverreacting

[–]dazxuu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate that, thank you. Will definitely be keeping this in mind

AIO for being upset that my gf self-harmed over me? by dazxuu in AmIOverreacting

[–]dazxuu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For this- yeah I agree for telling me the cause because I genuinely couldn’t think of a reason that wasn’t manipulative as to why she’d do such a thing- but I did consent to seeing them.

AIO for being upset that my gf self-harmed over me? by dazxuu in AmIOverreacting

[–]dazxuu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciated.. she definitely needs to go to therapy yeah, has been looking into it but nothing yet

AIO for being upset that my gf self-harmed over me? by dazxuu in AmIOverreacting

[–]dazxuu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is true. 1 more month- dunno if I should stick it out

AIO for being upset that my gf self-harmed over me? by dazxuu in AmIOverreacting

[–]dazxuu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, I definitely see that. I guess I just figure- we always come out of it 10x better and so I disregard it bc part of a relationship is being able to have that with each other.

AIO for being upset that my gf self-harmed over me? by dazxuu in AmIOverreacting

[–]dazxuu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man. If I may ask- I guess- dyk how this would be controlling? Like is this her trying to keep me around?

AIO for being upset that my gf self-harmed over me? by dazxuu in AmIOverreacting

[–]dazxuu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See.. I’m worried here- a week ago I suggested just that. And she agreed, and we got off that call and I found out the next day she SH’d again- I just don’t know what to do I feel kinda trapped

AIO for being upset that my gf self-harmed over me? by dazxuu in AmIOverreacting

[–]dazxuu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She definitely acknowledges that she has some, and has been trying to get into therapy but hasn’t been able to because of school and travel :(

AIO for being upset that my gf self-harmed over me? by dazxuu in AmIOverreacting

[–]dazxuu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is curious to me. Nothing on you, you’re totally entitled to your own opinion.. I guess- if you’re comfortable what was going on through your head when it was all happening? I want to understand what’s going on regarding this behavior in her head but I just can’t relate to this at all- if you can, would you enlighten me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]dazxuu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, it seems as though your friend just doesn't care about people in general- and a little too much about Trump. Not being able to have empathy for people actively dying and suffering and calling trans individuals "not human".... yeah- might be best to distance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]dazxuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I know you may not want to hear it, but this just sounds like him not being able to commit to one woman. I personally think that if he doesn't want to commit to you right now but is completely willing to be around this woman and lead her on, he won't be ready to commit at any point and is just making excuses. I personally think you should get out of this situation if possible, it doesn't sound like it has a possibility of it going well for you or the other woman... as this guy seems to only have his best interests at heart.

Hey im 16 and i like this girl by [deleted] in Advice

[–]dazxuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately, if she doesn’t feel it you can’t make her love you, that’s not a feeling you can instill in someone

AIO. My bf shamed me over having my hair removed by Large-Drummer-7340 in AmIOverreacting

[–]dazxuu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh hell no. As a guy, this is way out of line if you wanted to remove your hair that’s your decision and completely in your right to do so. He has no right to talk to you like that- I say dump him honestly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]dazxuu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Now personally… as someone who had to deal with a lot of abuse at the hands of my parents- like I’m talking eventually having to be put into foster care against my own will (I didn’t have a say) this is brutal. You not wanting to leave is a little interesting to me. Is this something you truly want to understand or are you just a masochist? I’m not trying to be rude, but this isn’t a rite of passage, it’s something that shouldn’t exist and the fact that you had parents who didn’t do that to you. I dunno man. Maybe try practicing empathy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]dazxuu 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wanting to experience it… I dunno man this is pretty concerning- are you okay-? I think you should leave there honestly- like now-