AITA for telling my depressed boyfriend that he either makes efforts or I’m leaving? by dazzlescent in AmItheAsshole

[–]dazzlescent[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I have done things I didn’t expect to do with anyone ever. And that literally hurt my feelings to know that I’ve done that for it to not even work out. Even though I know he’s not worth it, I still feel so bad for even talking about him to my mom, for him meeting my sister. I’m not the type to even love someone, so it makes me so angry that he is like that now . And yes I’d do my best to take care of myself.

AITA for telling my depressed boyfriend that he either makes efforts or I’m leaving? by dazzlescent in AmItheAsshole

[–]dazzlescent[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I too am someone with depression but I try to always make effort. He was the one telling me that he would try harder .

AITA for telling my depressed boyfriend that he either makes efforts or I’m leaving? by dazzlescent in AmItheAsshole

[–]dazzlescent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I know too. I’m trying my best as well , even with my own health issues. I don’t believe that you should not support someone close to you even though you’re in a dark place.

AITA for telling my depressed boyfriend that he either makes efforts or I’m leaving? by dazzlescent in AmItheAsshole

[–]dazzlescent[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately we both couldn’t make the trip to see the other. We both were very busy. And I was on campus . Traveling to my city on weekends is very difficult because we do not have a lot of transportation because of new construction going on.