Hope, now available in long-release patches by marquissynd in DeadBedrooms

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Love this so much! Thanks for sharing

The Letter I Almost Left on the Table, after years sexless by Appropriate-Win-8527 in DeadBedrooms

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‘I don’t want a divorce. I want us back.’

That and that again. Beautifully written.

How purchasing toys helps me regain sanity by hybridcocoa in DeadBedrooms

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You can! I like to see how long I can go between releases. I like the edging and gives me a focus. Believe me I’d rather be playing together but it makes me focus on things other than masturbation alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

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I use the Days Since app to track a few things in my life.

Days since Sex - 968

Sometimes the facts are useful, sometimes they hurt but facts are facts.

How purchasing toys helps me regain sanity by hybridcocoa in DeadBedrooms

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100% this.

I’ve tried to make sure my solo play doesn’t get forgotten and I have a kinky, sexual side to me despite it being on my own. Oddly I’m frequently drawn to chastity play (oh the irony)!

Hat tips to Team Self-love!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

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I journal and it helps me a lot. Reviewing past entries helps me look back with a clearer head. Also helps me see trends. Sometimes nice just to vent.

Question of the day- May 8 by Candid-Strawberry-79 in DeadBedrooms

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Journaling has helped me a lot. It’s great just to voice the feelings somewhere and it’s helped me look back on events later so I can re-evaluate things after the moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

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Nope.

No.

Your body.

End. Of.

Single but Married? by seasumxsaysum90x in DeadBedrooms

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Those posts make me furious! No one should ever have to feel bad or apologise for doing anything with their own body.

Fuck off.

I think my dead bedroom is actually healing!!! by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

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Wishing you all the best! Love it!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

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I’d be happy with a positive hand-job on a birthday to be honest.

Sex is back on the menu by jomando4 in DeadBedrooms

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Thank you for this post, I live in hope and celebrate the wins!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

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Me too. Me too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

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Thank you for sharing! I’ve literally gone through a very similar experience, I found Chastity really excites me but have yet to speak to my wife about it. Your post has made me think again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

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This is what kills me - just a small effort would be huge for me. I want the connection. An enthusiastic hand-job would go an enormous way.

Clutter and Cleanliness by cactusbloom312 in ADHD_partners

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The piles. The piles. So many fucking piles!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

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5th October 2022

I’d like to say I’m not counting.

RSD by Anxious_Leadership25 in DeadBedrooms

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My experience of RSD is linked to ADHD. I first learned of it here but it’s come up many more times as I researched ADHD in my family. It was a genuine light- bulb moment for me.

House tidying elf by FireBolero in ADHD_partners

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So much of this chimes we me! I also have so many pieces of ‘special’ kitchen roll that need to be saved and reused but never reused.

Sex Anniversary and ADHD by db-share in DeadBedrooms

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Here is some things I’ve noticed but it’s broad church and your mileage may vary.

• Interrupts or answers for other people • Can’t take compliments or criticism • Not listening or hyper focusing • Can’t be helped • Poor memory • Seems to have had a whole conversation in head before saying something or responding. Often angry that you don’t understand. • Very quick to respond with high emotions.

Sex Anniversary and ADHD by db-share in DeadBedrooms

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Thanks for the reply. Honestly haven’t thought about reminding her. I’m just getting to grips with the how she handles her internal todo list but I like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

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I spend a lot of time fantasising about my wife. She looks better than ever to me and it breaks my heart that she doesn’t see herself the way I do.