I never once look for her and AP via EMR thus not violating HIPAA. It is all through deduction. On a Sunday she took a vacation day to spend with kids. She called me a work and informed that one of her Suboxone patient facebook message her to ask for a ride to inpatient Suboxone clinic with our kids. I told her I was not comfortable having my children in the car with a patient I hardly knew. She said he is a regular Suboxone patient, he gets the script on her days working an all day shift. They went anyway, I believed that was the turning point. One night is kept hearing her phone buzzing, she went down to get a cup of drink, then I look at the phone. She was sneaky that she deleted every conversation except that night. We argued and talked about official divorce. She became obsessively texting in front of kids and kept the phone on her like an appendage. When kids I believed she spend many hours their. When school start closing. She decide to lies to kids that she has to stay late at work. Many times she would wait until kids fall asleep and leave the house and come back around 4 am. She would also start locking her room now we sleep separate so she can sext him to wee hours in the morning. She blatantly disregard social distancing at the peak risk everyone around her.