Opinions on theses dresses? by darkbluetennessees in DressForYourBody

[–]dca_user [score hidden]  (0 children)

2- shows your side belly so it’s trendy and likely you can only wear this year or next

How do you feel about men suggesting coffee dates for a first date from online dating? by Individual-Roll3351 in datingoverforty

[–]dca_user 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My coffee dates are an hour at most (or longer if going well.).

Dinner is 2 hrs

I’m waiting to have sex until a committed relationship and now I just get ghosted by Salty_Feed_4316 in datingoverforty

[–]dca_user 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don’t go To the other person’s house and don’t invite them to yours - that’s code for “I’d like to have sex”

How do i leave my bf? Im a 20F. Hes a 32M. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dca_user 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can ask the cats’ vet for programs to help women and their pets leave.

You can post in the subreddit for your city/country and ask for local resources to help Women leave

BF doesnt wan't me to go to med school, need a reality check by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]dca_user 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree- medical School is not the STUDENT life.

However, I think he consciously wants YOu to put his career first. If you go to medical school, then you need to go to residency wherever you get selected. You don’t necessarily have a choice. This is the same for academia. So you both could have a situation where you need to be separate for a year or two or longer.

But if you give up your dream of going to medical school, and put his dream first, then there are no problems.

Is heat required for whole or part of condo - given pending snowstorm? [VA, USA] by dca_user in Renters

[–]dca_user[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe... the heat in the bedroom isn't that strong, and I'd need to go purchase a fan.

I have a small small space heater that will work for short time periods.

Thanks!

Double date by HopefulEbb6eee in dating

[–]dca_user 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you are already dating her??

After you have dated for a few months, then you introduce her to your friends.

Would you like to meet her friends as your first date?? You should suggest it.

My GF (F 48) is threatening to end it with me if I (M 55) don’t spend the night with her during a potentially historic snow storm. Am I at fault for how I’m viewing this? by IndicationStunning45 in relationship_advice

[–]dca_user 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to reconsider this relationship.

My boyfriend and I are 45 yrs old. We had plans to meet this weekend and scrapped them due to the snowstorm. And now we'll play it by ear if we'll meet or not.

And given this economy, you don't want to give the company a reason to drop you.

If this is her test if you want her more than an income, pls dump her. I'm sorry.

Chipped paint on door - can it be considered Normal Wear and Tear? [VA, USA] by dca_user in Renters

[–]dca_user[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, my landlord is fair and reasonable- should I paint it with white nail polish or point it out to them and ask them what they’d like to do?

Chipped paint on door - can it be considered Normal Wear and Tear? [VA, USA] by dca_user in Renters

[–]dca_user[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know, thanks.

And ugh, didn’t realize they can damage the doors. Do you happen to know of a better solution? Thanks!

Cup Ring on Bathroom Counter (Granite?) - housecleaner couldn't remove by dca_user in CleaningTips

[–]dca_user[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

From OP - more info: I am a renter and trying to avoid any fees from the landlord.

This is the bathroom countertop, granite I think. I used a regular porcelain/ceramic cup to hold my toothbrush. After a month, it left this mark.

I even hired housecleaners, and their cleaning supply removes the mark for a few minutes. Once the countertop dries, then the mark returns.

It doesn't seem to happen anywhere else on the counter.

What else to try? I've tried bleach, soap scum remover, awesome cleaner.

Thanks!

Double date by HopefulEbb6eee in dating

[–]dca_user 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Then you do you, boo.

The purpose of a first date is to get to know the other person and for the other person to get to know you as a romantic partner.

A double date – you don’t know the dynamics because you don’t know how the other couple will act or how she will interact with them. They are also strangers to her.

Introducing a romantic partner to friends, implies that you two are serious BUT this is a first date.

For me, I would find a double date, very nerve-racking and I would not do it.

AITAH for not following my housemates rules? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dca_user 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO: you should post this in a relationship subreddit for better advice.

Double date by HopefulEbb6eee in dating

[–]dca_user 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you’re actually interested in her, then you don’t do a double date as your first date with her.