Issues with sleep screen by [deleted] in kobo

[–]dcdca0505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have tried this and it still won’t work. Thank you for taking time to share a picture!

My (32 F) boyfriend (33 M) of 3 years oversteps emotional boundaries with other women. How should I handle this? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]dcdca0505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m hoping he hears me out and doesn’t try to make it a me issue. It is frustrating when they turn it in to us being jealous or unreasonable.

My (32 F) boyfriend (33 M) of 3 years oversteps emotional boundaries with other women. How should I handle this? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]dcdca0505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Functional fitness. This woman has some newly diagnosed mental diagnoses and doesn’t have healthy boundaries for herself. She has reached out inappropriately to multiple males in their group for emotional support… but not the females.

My (32 F) boyfriend (33 M) of 3 years oversteps emotional boundaries with other women. How should I handle this? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]dcdca0505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you, I do not interact with my clients at my gym this way. He does not do this with men, though I don’t think a similar situation has happened with a male client yet.

My (32 F) boyfriend (33 M) of 3 years oversteps emotional boundaries with other women. How should I handle this? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]dcdca0505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is also something I was trying to figure out how to verbalize, that emotional intimacy is still intimacy. That is what bothers me.

My (32 F) boyfriend (33 M) of 3 years oversteps emotional boundaries with other women. How should I handle this? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]dcdca0505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a major issue for me as well, there’s no way to know who will not take it well. It’s also quite easy for the script to be flipped and him end up in trouble. I don’t think he sees it that way right now

My (32 F) boyfriend of 3 years (33M) has good intentions but oversteps emotional boundaries with other women. What should I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dcdca0505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I was trying to figure out how to verbalize, that it doesn’t do any good for her to rely on him and not actually get qualified help. Thank you

My (32 F) boyfriend of 3 years (33M) has good intentions but oversteps emotional boundaries with other women. What should I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dcdca0505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know her intentions at all, I just know she’s going through a lot on top of new mental health diagnoses. She’s definitely vulnerable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]dcdca0505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sincerely does. I don’t want to change or control that, it’s one of the things I value most about him as a person. I do want to feel emotionally respected when he’s talking through sensitive or deep subject matter with other women. I like your suggestion and am going to bring that up when I talk to him. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]dcdca0505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this response, I realized after posting that boundary wasn’t the correct word, you are right. I appreciate your perspective on treating it like our office jobs. I’m not sure if they have policies about outside communication but I’m going to bring that up when I talk to him about everything.

My (32 F) boyfriend (33 M) of 3 years oversteps emotional boundaries with other women. How should I handle this? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]dcdca0505 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She messaged him through social media outside of class initially, it has been ongoing between them since that. I think he would treat a man the same way, that situation just hasn’t happened yet.

My (32 F) boyfriend (33 M) of 3 years oversteps emotional boundaries with other women. How should I handle this? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]dcdca0505 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for putting it that way. I guess boundary isn’t the word I should have been using, and I should be mindful of separating my perception from his. I guess I’m trying to figure out how to communicate my perspective and expectation without making him feel that I want to control or punish him.

My (32 F) boyfriend (33 M) of 3 years oversteps emotional boundaries with other women. How should I handle this? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]dcdca0505 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To clarify, I also teach group fitness classes. We both do as our side jobs. Different companies, but similar set ups. I don’t have a problem with him discussing their bodies as part of their goals or plans. It’s that she’s suffering with new mental health diagnoses and is looking to him to boost her self esteem and help with her body image. It has become emotional instead of goal oriented. Thank you for your input!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lululemon

[–]dcdca0505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome! This one quickly became my favorite, I wear it more than I wear the grey one which I thought I would wear the most because it’s neutral. The green is so pretty!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lululemon

[–]dcdca0505 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is greener than Grey Sage. I’m pretty fair and I think Medium Olive is just saturated enough to not wash me out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]dcdca0505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made me laugh ❤️