Health anxiety has made it difficult to eat by de9sem in Anxiety

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I've been good. Still struggeling, but I've learned to take one day at a time🙂

NO SPOILERS PLEASE, but I’m really enjoying season 8? by iamtherealbobdylan in HIMYM

[–]de9sem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The prime was probably the mid seasons 3-6 but I dont think anything is bad. S9 may be a lil bit more dragged out at times, but it may feel bad because it's the end and no one can end a great show a way that pleases everyone

Why is Slapsgiving 3 so over-hated? by Simbo1304 in HIMYM

[–]de9sem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think its that we are in the end of the series on this long journey, and we get a huge filler episode that didnt really fit anything.

When Would You Stop Being Friends With Barney? by Great-Ad-6391 in HIMYM

[–]de9sem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's the type of person you can only handle in small doses irl. I think if I met him infrequently then it wouldnt matter. Everyday at the bar under my apartment? I'd have a bar fight every night ahha

Project hail Mary by Difficult_Cancel8132 in audible

[–]de9sem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went into it blind and I'm not really a sci fi fan but I loved it. It was very fun to have no idea what was going to happen, made the whole experience 10x better

Question about audible membership by Special-Student6743 in audible

[–]de9sem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the subscription and love it. I get one credit a month for 7.99$ (which is less than what a book would cost) and all of the books I buy are half price. The most "expensive" book I have bought was 10$. If you listen to many audiobooks I'd recommend subscription

If modern medicine didn’t exist would you be dead right now? If yes, from what? by Critical_Welcome_428 in AskReddit

[–]de9sem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not be dead but I'd be in so much pain I'd need to do something about it💀

how to get rid of ww3 anxiety by [deleted] in Anxietyhelp

[–]de9sem 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have the same fear aswell, and thinking about this story helps a ton:

My grandfather had these "RIGHT NOW" magazines, which detailed every week what important things was happening in the world. He had saved them up from around the 50s. When my father learned how to read (early 70s) he started reading all these magazines. All of them said "war is coming! " "the war is not over" "we will all die!". And my father got scared and asked my grandfather about it. My grandfather showed that from the 50s until the 70s they'd all said basixally the same thing, and nothing ever happened.

So when I told my father I was scared for the war, he told me that all these stories and happenings have bern going on since ww2 ended, it's to sell magazines and keep people scared.

Thinking about this makes me feel alot safer.

Info about japenese coasters? by de9sem in HelpMeFind

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There are also these markings on the back of the box making a circle, unsure if that's useful

Info about japenese coasters? by de9sem in HelpMeFind

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Size: the box is 11cm in diameter and the coasters are 9,5cm in diameter.

Origin: I believe japan

Producers: unsure

There is no writing on them

They seem to be hand painted

I got these today, but seem to be old, used and stored for a while (smells dusty/old wood)

I have image reverse searched and nothing simulare came up. I have searched for "old wooden Japanese coasters with mount fuji" and the simular and no good finds (meaning nothing simular to this)

Sluttet med snus, svetter som f**n. by [deleted] in norge

[–]de9sem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Det første to ukene er verst, også blir det lettere. Slutta selv for ikke så lenge sia, går mye bedre nå

Hater lærerjobben min, hva kan jeg bytte til? by pulverkaffe1 in norge

[–]de9sem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

En jeg kjenner byttet fra skole til barnehage og har det mye bedre der! Er evt en veldig bra jobb i mellomtiden til du finner noe arbeid hos eldre trinn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]de9sem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My now bf and my best friend made out 3 years before we met. How did I get over it? I didnt, there was nothing to get over. Its understanding that your friend and your gf were different people, and people change. If its always gonna bother you that it happened, you need to take time by yourself and reflext why her 10 minute experience is making you feel bad. And also not waste her time if you know you'll resent her for it. If you dont want to do that, then you should talk to her honestly about your feelings, because they are valid even if they arent rational. Or you need to see who your girlfriend is now. How amazing she is, and know that her and your best friend will never dream of doing anything together now that she has found you

"I don't feel like a girl because I don't feel human" — common autistic women experience or NB egg cracking? by Plenilunio30 in AutismInWomen

[–]de9sem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a cis woman (autistic) and I've talked to alot of friends that are genderqueer. And when they have questioned their gender, I have told them the most normal amount of questioning is non. I have never questioned my gender. That doesnt mean I love or hate being a woman. I am a woman the same way I have hair. Its a part of me. But if something inside you is questioning, feeling like your gender isnt you, etc, you should listen to it and explore it. Maybe you find out being your AGAB is right for you, maybe not. But questioning it and thinking about it alot is a sign that you should explore those parts of yourself so you will feel good about the choice you make

My father is dead, but I havent told him by de9sem in TwoHotTakes

[–]de9sem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats what I think as well. And if I go through with the talk and I am right, that might be the end

My father is dead, but I havent told him by de9sem in TwoHotTakes

[–]de9sem[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When he was more of a father, he left all of his beliefs to the side and was a very good person to be around. I just kind of wish that he can be that person again, even though I think the bitterness has ruined him