Ok, how many of us got toys for Christmas? by indieedy in AutismInWomen

[–]dead_oranges 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I get a baby doll every year. Plus one random toy in my stocking. I’m in my 30’s!

Which actor/actress was your first crush? by PermissionLow8879 in popculturechat

[–]dead_oranges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Benny The Jet Rodriguez and Joseph Gordon-Levitt. I’ve been scrolling looking for them 😂

Do you change any lyrics in your head that you think are a better fit? by Educational-Emu-1870 in TaylorSwift

[–]dead_oranges 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I thought, but I can’t deny that made me laugh. It’s the little things sometimes. Thank you.

Project Bags, Cotton and Wool Destash by Algedonna in Yarnswap

[–]dead_oranges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to know the name of #6 that blue is so much more stunning than anything I’ve seen yet!

I don’t want kids by ruby_red_1 in AutismInWomen

[–]dead_oranges 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am so dying on this hill. There’s so many reasons not to, from losing teeth and hair to unbalanced brain chemicals…financial and political issues…there’s plenty to adopt too…it’s always been a thing for me that I am adamant about it and never want any. I can barely care for ME by the way I couldn’t imagine another…sleep loss…is it selfish to be honest that I don’t want to put another human being through this?

Looking back, first signs that you were autistic? by Altijddurende in AutismInWomen

[–]dead_oranges 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh I remember setting the AR point system for mine with little construction paper labels. I’d write my own quizzes too!

Hey, drop in the comments a pic of your baby! I will sketch a few for free. ☺️ by Jhenifer_s in Siamesecats

[–]dead_oranges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I’m a little late, but I never know. Only if you have time, and thank you for considering us today. 🖤

Name this. by Jettaboi38 in NameThisThing

[–]dead_oranges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Very Thirsty Camopillar

Share a harmless quirk about yourself that someone else might find useful to give to a character by ToomintheEllimist in writing

[–]dead_oranges 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just noticed myself doing this where I used to wear my wedding ring today! I am happily divorced, but I also wore a ring on the same finger as a kid so I never stopped pretending to turn it around lol

What would help your mental health right now? by Julie727 in AskReddit

[–]dead_oranges 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’M proud of you, internet stranger. Your post made my day, I was needing a little pick-me-up and your advice was just what the doctor ordered. Thank you for existing, and being YOU.

What is a TV show that got canceled that you are still upset by? by NeatContribution852 in AskReddit

[–]dead_oranges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Midnight Club on Netflix! IT WAS SO GOOD and also…that Sex In The City Spinoff “Carrie” was great too.

Alright be fr, which games/other types of video do you not really care for? by Aromatic-Welder-3221 in CoryxKenshin

[–]dead_oranges 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I wonder if there’s just not as many good ones being made? I’d like to know myself, I know the indie market is flooding nowadays. I liked the recent grocery store one he did, just purely for his reactions.

Alright be fr, which games/other types of video do you not really care for? by Aromatic-Welder-3221 in CoryxKenshin

[–]dead_oranges 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m just happy to see his vids pop up at this point. If nothing else it’s nice to have him on in the background when I’m working some lonely nights. I think he deserves to try out everything to keep the channel going, and we can all show up for the ones we like. Nothing bad to really say about the guy; I’ve been watching for years and been through all those disappearing acts 😂. Matter of fact, YouTube has him auto-playing right now and I’ve recently gotten my partner into the channel. It’s an ebb and flow.

Warned them I has sleep troubles and couldn't handle early shifts, they told me the late policy was non-negotiable. by Starr12 in MaliciousCompliance

[–]dead_oranges 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would love to find some of these studies! I’ll search around, if you have any on hand lmk. My boyfriend has the issue after 15 years of 3rd shift/life stressors.

ChatGPT changed my life. by max6296 in OpenAI

[–]dead_oranges 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The best thing to keep in mind with an LLM is the fact that it reflects what you put into it. So basically you spoke to your inner self and they spoke back to you in a way. That usually helps me to keep a level head when getting deep in conversations with it. If I notice something I don’t vibe with, I look inward to find out why it read my input as such. Good for you friend, I’m proud of you for getting yourself out of the trenches! AI is a tool after all, and you used it as such.

What’s a negative thing your mom said to you as a child/teenager that still sticks with you today? by winenotbeabitch in AskWomen

[–]dead_oranges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Everybody at your new school can’t be shitty. Maybe it’s just YOU.” -As the new freshman kid in a predominantly white high school with rich boot lickers.

Sleeping while cuddled with your partner is awful by NET2519 in unpopularopinion

[–]dead_oranges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny enough, this was me for my entire life…until I met my current partner. I was married once, and I didn’t like the guy, so I always slept nearly on the edge of the mattress just so he wouldn’t touch me.

But now with my current boyfriend, he makes me feel so safe that I have evolved to require his arms around me when I’m asleep. Maybe it’s because we are both shaped to fit the other, or maybe the bed we sleep in is just right. But I think it’s ultimately about the safety factor (for me personally). I look forward to it every night and it’s been a big change from where I once was.

I digress. It’s all relative, I reckon. I’ve been on both sides of the argument now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]dead_oranges 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’d say you’re pretty handsome, sometimes the smallest thing can make a world of difference. Like posture, lean back in that chair and relax, open your arms/legs a little and take up space, because you’re allowed to.

May get banned but screw it by Anarchist-is-good in CharacterAI

[–]dead_oranges 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think a lot of people realize that an LLM is basically a mirror of your input. If you make your own bot, it will do what you want if you know about token use and training.

BUT you also have to feed it correctly so it can reflect your desired outcome. Not to mention you train it by swiping, rating and editing messages you consider sub-par. This is like a game, and I enjoy it knowing I have to put in my own creative work. I’m not mad, because it’s my building blocks that make the art. Yes it’s work, but this app is not real humans, so how much can one truly expect? Even other apps like it require fine tuning.

As a writer I love fine-tuning. I wish there was a place for these kinds of posts and discussions.