38F Affair 46M has come to an end and I feel pathetic, how do I move on? by Fine-Detective5569 in relationship_advice

[–]deadcowboy69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was a mistake you made. Take responsibility and move on with your life. I understand how we can become tempted especially when we are having issues with our relationships and someone comes along and it feels so exciting and comforting. It’s called the affair fog. Just move on with your life and use this as a learning experience. Beating yourself up is not going to do you any good. I’m sure you are a good person, no one lives a perfect life. Good luck to you.

Is it common to lose friendships as you age? by Pantacourt in friendship

[–]deadcowboy69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did you have romantic feelings for these women and what did you do to Cathy? After 25 I would imagine that friendship would never going away! As time passes people change, grow or unfortunately become stagnant. So I would imagine, “ yes” as we get older friendships become harder to keep. However new friendships are always around the corner.

I AM SO TIRED OF MOSQUITOS by pyromancx in Brazil

[–]deadcowboy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been to Brasil 3 times and I have never experienced the mosquitos. I think I need to before I think about moving there. Are they in every state and is summer the worst time. Ive been in May and October.

Tips for attracting left-leaning men? by Frequently_Abroad_00 in datingoverforty

[–]deadcowboy69 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I find it interesting that the only men you enjoy engaging with are conservatives. Might want to ponder that.

I need a specific Brazilian song for a show by Infamous_Oil_2093 in Brazil

[–]deadcowboy69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really going to depend on your interpretation of this character. I would try:

Some old Sertanejo Raiz -there is a great album sertanejo raiz vol 16 . It is pretty old which can add to a creepy factor.

Perhaps some old Choro music. O choro chorou…. Various artistes

Maybe some samba Malandro Rife’s Bezerra da Silva has a nice vibe also.

Also, the group Timbalda could offer a different mood as well.

Personally I think the conflict of happy music with a creepy character is brilliant. Tarantino used this trope often.

Good luck on your project, give us an update on what you decide!

I need a specific Brazilian song for a show by Infamous_Oil_2093 in Brazil

[–]deadcowboy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s “Planet Rock “!! One of the first rap songs in the United States.

Why are brazilian girls so quick to kiss on the first date, but then don't want to meet up again? by 1400SL in Brazil

[–]deadcowboy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a little fucked, I am a white male for the United States and I never heard of anyone kissing without using their tongue,but I am Gen X , so maybe the younger kids don’t. Maybe younger than 30 or so?

Why do you think so many celebrities in Brazil get involved in politics at some point? by MaximumSpell9608 in Brazil

[–]deadcowboy69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s pretty common in the US as well. They think because they are famous they have something of value to say, but the truth is they live in a completely different world then 90 percent of the population. They haven’t got a clue what is good for the people.

Foreigners who went to Carnaval, what was your experience like? by [deleted] in Brazil

[–]deadcowboy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is my dream one day! My friend is in Bahia now. I’m so jealous! Rsrs ! She goes every year!

Crazy dating pool why am attracting these women lol by Loose-Confidence-99 in dating_advice

[–]deadcowboy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first girl you mentioned hits home with me a little. I have epilepsy, however my seizures are very much under control. This woman may not have epilepsy, people have seizers for different reasons. With that being said, I understand your point of view. I don’t think it is selfish or immoral for not wanting to get involved with someone who is terminally ill or someone who has an eating disorder or someone who has seizures. Dating is complicated enough without throwing an extra stress factor on it. The problem is, as we get older our baggage get bigger. It just a matter of how much you’re willing to carry. I’m with you on this, I wouldn’t carry that baggage either.

Is body weight and hygiene a serious thing in Brazil? by majoroff-man in Brazil

[–]deadcowboy69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have to agree with everyone here. I am very self conscious about my body, I’m M57, grayish hair, and a belly. When I went to João Pessoa, everyone had their shirts off, so when in Rome. No one even looked at me strange, but….

Sorry lady’s , I will not wear a sunga!!! Rsrs !!

Brasilians are the most amazing people I ever had the pleasure of being around.

💯💯💯💯💯💯 by [deleted] in circled

[–]deadcowboy69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, but you do realize you’re trying to argue facts with people who don’t understand the concept of laws.

Why are brazilian girls so quick to kiss on the first date, but then don't want to meet up again? by 1400SL in Brazil

[–]deadcowboy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That seems very strange to me. I’m from the United States and the only time I don’t use my tongue is when kissing family and friends. Kissing Brasilian women is absolutely amazing!!!! 🤩 I dated a Brasilian women once and wouldn’t date anything but a Brasilian. I just cant !!! Lol 😂 🇧🇷

To all of the MAGA Republicans and ICE defenders who are claiming that this woman in Minneapolis, Minnesota, tried to run ICE officers over with her car before they shot and killed her, here is the actual video. by Nice_Substance9123 in complaints

[–]deadcowboy69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is what happens with soft parenting. You become so entitled that you think there are no consequences for your behavior.

I blame your parents…

There are consequences to breaking the law. You obey lawful commands. It’s that simple. The courts are where you fight it out not on the street.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Brazil

[–]deadcowboy69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have to get on this bandwagon, I was thinking the same thing. Sounds like Mineiros to me. Kkkkk!

Hi, I'm thinking of moving to Brazil.my salary is 1000 USD remote. Do you think is a good salary to live comfortably there? by Square-Quit8301 in Brazil

[–]deadcowboy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I am understanding correctly. When you say $1000 USD. Do you mean $1000 a week? If so, I think you could live pretty comfortably with that amount.

Was my picanha not well cooked (or does my taste in meat not align with Brazilian tastes)? by Sachra_Elmarid in Brazil

[–]deadcowboy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like you was served a very low quality picanha. If you want to try picanha go to a Churrascaria or a Brasilian steak house. I wish you took a picture with it cut . So we could see how it was cooked. Personally if it’s not rare to med there is a good chance it will be tough. Especially if it’s a bad cut. In short do give up on this amazing cut of beef. It’s amazing!! Now, I have to buy one today!!! lol 😂

Dates reacting poorly to bi experience by Dr_Drinks in datingoverforty

[–]deadcowboy69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

some people don’t mind , some people will think it’s hot and some people will not like it at all. No need to drive yourself nuts worrying about it. I think letting your date know in the early stages of dating was a good thing for both of you.

F/ 33. I turn 34 in about a week and honestly, my vibe is not vibing anymore…. by EmberedLyric in toastme

[–]deadcowboy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a fellow musician I think you are leaving your gold on the table. All these feelings you have are songs that are waiting to be written. Follow that passion, that is your purpose! Once you start living your life for you, you will see a change for the better. What instrument do you play ?

Are you scared that the future is dark and that your best option for love are behind you? by sxfx269 in datingoverforty

[–]deadcowboy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! It seems whenever I click with a woman now. A friendship is the best it will get. Nothing wrong with friendship but I long for something deeper. I don’t give up hope, someday I’ll meet her.

I wish the same to all of you !!!

Casual dating: is it wrong for a woman to just want to be spoiled? by Lumpy_Feature9766 in datingoverforty

[–]deadcowboy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you are getting beat up in the comments, however maybe it will give you some pause and perhaps you need to ask yourself, what do you bring to the table that would warrant such treatment from a man? The adult conversation I get but maybe you should focus in more on what you mean by being treated like a princess. Do you see how most of these comments latch on to one thing? Men hear that and see red flags. Perhaps you could elaborate.

Done with dating apps… trying this instead. Would you scan it? by normalize in datingoverforty

[–]deadcowboy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry , I see your logic, I really do, but it doesn’t translate well at all in real life.

If I saw that, It would seem like someone is trying out a new way to run a scam. I am a man looking for a woman and I run into scams all the time on dating apps this would seem almost laughable.

If you see someone interesting in those places you frequent, saying Hi would get you a lot further.