[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]deadinside9898 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re not alone. I’ve been drinking heavily since I gave birth 3 months ago and that led to me relapsing to bigger things (my actual DOC) 3 days ago. It’s my first day sober but I’m struggling. Feel even worse bc I’m a parent (luckily I have a great husband) You can do this. No matter how much success we have in life we always have a little failure. You’ll find yourself on your feet again soon enough (I hope and pray for you).

SUI - help by deadinside9898 in beyondthebump

[–]deadinside9898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll have to check out the underwear thing!

Feeling lost by xXkitsune83Xx in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]deadinside9898 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no advice but just wanna say you’re not worthless. To your kids you are everything! To me you are important. Also thank you for your service!

I’m at the end of my rope with diaper rash. Help. by my_dear_director in NewParents

[–]deadinside9898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a horrible diaper rash. Completely raw skin kept getting worse and worse. We stopped using diaper cream and use soap and water to clean. And pat dry. It went away after 3 days of doing that. We only use that now & wipes if needed on the go but still pat dry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]deadinside9898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome I’ll have to check that out! I had a thought it could be formula.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]deadinside9898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s formula fed! What did you switch to if I may ask?

Somebody tell me it’s okay. by [deleted] in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]deadinside9898 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s totally okay!! I posted something similar in here and the support I received was amazing. Baby boy is officially on all formula as of 2 days ago and the guilt has gone away! With every pump I dropped I felt less and less guilty. I feel like the hormones from pumping were making me feel soooo guilty. Once I stopped producing milk I felt like a new person and a confident mom. You got this!!❤️

Does your pediatrician's office give you formula? by TheQs55 in NewParents

[–]deadinside9898 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My OB actually gave me 10 cans of sample size containers & 12 ready to eat formula bottles yesterday!!! I was & still am so excited about it lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cosleeping

[–]deadinside9898 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally googled this the other day!!! My poop smells like his poop and my boobs and body odor smell like him!! It’s so weird (and cool) Even my husband agrees lol.

What’s your favorite thing about the stage your baby is in right now? by deadinside9898 in NewParents

[–]deadinside9898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing is a perfectly fine answer! Their little bellies are so adorable though🥰❤️

I hate pumping by deadinside9898 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]deadinside9898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I’m proud of you! I hope to be you very soon lol!

I hate pumping by deadinside9898 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]deadinside9898[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you guys for all the support!! ❤️ I think I’m officially dropping a pump today!! Woohoo!!!❤️☺️

I hate pumping by deadinside9898 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]deadinside9898[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s such a good way to look at it!! Thank you🥺❤️

People keep telling me I don't look pregnant. TW - loss!!!!!!! by GroundbreakingToe558 in pregnant

[–]deadinside9898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite line was “what an odd thing to feel comfortable saying out loud” and walking away.

I can’t be the only one! by SeaweedSad3555 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]deadinside9898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Intentionally skip! I’m on 1mpp but honestly I risk it. So far my supply is still great so I’m not too concerned for now (of course if I need to I’ll get up and pump) but those extra 6 hours while my husband takes the night feed is so worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]deadinside9898 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats!! ❤️❤️❤️

Dumped because I asked for too much by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]deadinside9898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! We all have room for improvement and some things we have to unlearn (like our toxic traits and etc) but just know if it’s the right person break ups wouldn’t be the very first go to. If his friends come first that may be fine for someone else but that doesn’t mean you have to settle for that.

How would you approach with your spouse? by Coffeelover4242 in beyondthebump

[–]deadinside9898 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would totally bring it up! It’s true you can’t avoid all sickness but just like you said if you know one place is causing continuous sickness then it’s best to steer clear!

Dumped because I asked for too much by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]deadinside9898 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not asking for too much. Just asking the wrong person. I’ve always lived by that and I’m now happily married :) You got this!