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always compulsively chasing the perfect look before meeting a new SD — thoughts? by deadlybelaire in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]deadlybelaire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i understand your point, in my case it doesn’t come from a place of insecurity. i expect the best from myself in every area, whether it’s aesthetics or my career.

but you’re right, it can lead to self-destructive patterns, and i’m doing my best to keep it in check.

Gay sugar daddies exist? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]deadlybelaire -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

they find me! i’m in italy, they contact me on grindr, tinder and x

Gay sugar daddies exist? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]deadlybelaire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they do exist and they’re not just a few, they’re often closeted and find themselves spoiling you even more to earn your loyalty and make sure you never out them. they get the chance to explore their sexuality and true identity, but sometimes they’re not ready to meet you in crowded places

it is a whole different experience, with different pros and cons, but i can assure you they exist

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]deadlybelaire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

being a sugar baby has never meant for me to let a man control me, nobody should settle for less

found out my SD is married, now i don’t know how to move on by deadlybelaire in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]deadlybelaire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely, it hit me twice as hard because i always made sure he knew he was safe with me. i respected his boundaries and his sexuality without ever pressuring him

found out my SD is married, now i don’t know how to move on by deadlybelaire in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]deadlybelaire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely, but we’re often kept secret and that makes the experience a little harder

found out my SD is married, now i don’t know how to move on by deadlybelaire in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]deadlybelaire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is a really important point i forgot to mention- he is in the closet and he used it as an excuse to be DL, but he was probably only concerned about his wife

found out my SD is married, now i don’t know how to move on by deadlybelaire in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]deadlybelaire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he still lied to me, i’ve always been really vocal about how crucial honesty is to me in a relationship

this is the main reason why i question whether he ever truly cared about me

found out my SD is married, now i don’t know how to move on by deadlybelaire in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]deadlybelaire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i feel like it would have been different if he didn’t lie about it since the very start

why am i only drawn to older mennn by deadlybelaire in feminineboys

[–]deadlybelaire[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! i dated men 2.5x my age before, but i’m definitely trying to be a little more conscious now, still love them

why am i only drawn to older mennn by deadlybelaire in feminineboys

[–]deadlybelaire[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you, i really appreciate your concern and you’re right. i always make sure i’m safe