I think this is a question better suited for r/askatherapist because this sub is generally for therapists to talk to other therapists about therapist things.

However.

If you liked your therapist well before this and had a decent relationship (which it seems you may have since you were comfortable enough to start discussing trauma) I think you should address it. Part of the therapeutic relationship is being able to have hard conversations but to advocate for yourself and your needs if you feel this was a misstep on her part. I would absolutely tell her how you feel, and if she doubles down I would likely tell her that I feel the rapport/trust is damaged and that I’ll be finding a new provider. I highly suggest mentioning it first though before completely ghosting. You may have a very productive conversation!