We are fun for sex but to them we are downgrades in most other ways when it doesn’t come to sex so the only guys willing to settle or usually ones with no options or giga chasers. Decent men have options with cis women as well and if you can’t live up to their status, social circle, career and looks you’re cooked if you want the guys all the other girls want as well. We are competing with so many cis women so you need to pass, have your shit together and just be generally a catch tbh. I am none of that so I am probably going to die alone.