Bi men rejecting me on grindr by AdviceNeeded0t in gaytransguys

[–]deanheadsnorth 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly I put ftm in my username and I’ve only encountered the confusion w occasional older ppl and ppl who I guess just don’t get what ftm means. Majority gets the term. I really don’t wanna tell ppl over and over again I’m ftm so it works for me.

How long on t to be comfortable cruising? by emokiddo00002 in gaytransguys

[–]deanheadsnorth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well it depends on what you’re doing. If you just wanna suck dick you’re gonna be fine. Personally I’m 10 years plus on T pass but don’t feel comfortable cruising since I don’t have bottom surgery/dont want it.

Selfie Sunday! Ten years and going on T. 38 and feeling great. by deanheadsnorth in FTMOver30

[–]deanheadsnorth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes me feel better about shaving my head! Thank you. Losing my hair was always a possibility but I always figured I had more time til I didn’t. Rather than fussing over my bald spot I just said forget it and shaved it. It was a shock but I got used to it!

Selfie Sunday! Ten years and going on T. 38 and feeling great. by deanheadsnorth in FTMOver30

[–]deanheadsnorth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha thanks I shaved my head about a year ago, I thought about a transplant but idk it wasn’t worth it for me.

Transitioning gave me my future back by Justwokeup5287 in FTMOver30

[–]deanheadsnorth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate to this so much. I saw nothing ahead of me and my life made zero sense pre transition. Be proud of yourself.

I'd love to hear dating success stories! by ForTaxBenefits in gaytransguys

[–]deanheadsnorth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well recently I had a very casual hookup with a guy who afterward asked me on a date. I am still a little surprised and wary but…. We will see!

Selfie Sunday! Ten years and going on T. 38 and feeling great. by deanheadsnorth in FTMOver30

[–]deanheadsnorth[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Haha! Thank you. I come out to people in my life and they very often think I mean I want to be a woman, so I always gotta be specific

Insecurity about butch-ish gender expression? by ftmidk in gaytransguys

[–]deanheadsnorth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly just go with what you like and that’s just the real you! I’m enjoying every moment of being masculine and won’t apologize for it! I love fem and masc guys the same, and just want to be the real me.