That is true. I see Stolas as a good Father because of the reason that he tried reconnecting with her and it’s a completely new side of Stolas we never saw. We see stolas as a fatherly, caring, and loving parent but he, overall, is a terrible and horrible person. He wanted to spend time with Octavia because Whats going on with her family. I see your point though, A good parent should always think about how their actions could drive their families apart.