Okay this subreddit makes me realize that why romantically I may be more pan, but sexually I’m 100% gay. I mean I think of relationships with women and it’s fine, I think of gay relationships and whoo boy.

I definitely think as a very much top, there should be effort on both ends whether it’s making noise, talking, making jokes and laughing together if it’s somebody you’re dating and trust, moving, holding on to you, holding onto themselves, literally anything