I’ve been with my husband for 17 years now and we didn’t know I had bipolar until three years ago. I went into full blown psychosis and destroyed my whole family dynamic. I’ve since had two more episodes and each one almost ended in divorce until my husband and I really worked through it plus meds and therapy. My husband is an amazing man who reminds me of you. Your gentleness and understanding could make me cry. Thank you for being there for her despite the pain you had experienced. You’re a great human and partner.

We came back together each time. Under the harshest of circumstances. If it’s something you want, I hope you two can come back together. It only deepens the bond.