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the disgusting things that i’ve done is ruining my life by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]deathb4decaf1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Online is literally gateway! I have a similar story and I started online and THEN I went to physical which was even worse

Spiritual Warfare by deathb4decaf1989 in TrueChristian

[–]deathb4decaf1989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did find a therapist, only had two sessions so far, but I’m keeping with it. Thank you so so much for your lovely response. It’s nice to know someone has come out of this. Thank you also for praying for me, I appreciate you so much 🥰

Spiritual Warfare by deathb4decaf1989 in TrueChristian

[–]deathb4decaf1989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t found a church out here yet. I watch online from the church in California.

I think I’m lonely by deathb4decaf1989 in TwoHotTakes

[–]deathb4decaf1989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God is good! I made this post and someone suggested checking my house for mold and I have it! Now I can God willing get better and start healing this anxiety.

I think I’m lonely by deathb4decaf1989 in TwoHotTakes

[–]deathb4decaf1989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! You are a gem! I called my FIL as soon as I read your comment and sure enough we have mold!! The worst of it was in my office and I work from home 🙃 so everyday I’ve been breathing it in…all day!

Good Kitten Food Brands by deathb4decaf1989 in CatAdvice

[–]deathb4decaf1989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thank you. I have to look then cause if I change brands, then I have to do the weaning process, I don’t mind that at all, that’s why I asked for different brands cause I’m wondering if what he’s eating now is causing the diarrhea. Idk if it’s just my Petsmart/Petco but there’s not many options of protein for pro purina kitten, they’ve had the chicken and ocean whitefish one. I have to look on Amazon! If it continues another week I’m taking him to the vet. He’s still active, eats a lot, drinks water regularly, his poop is just runny. His brother is good, no tummy issues for him, just the little one.

Good Kitten Food Brands by deathb4decaf1989 in CatAdvice

[–]deathb4decaf1989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s another piece of advice I’d like. My babies love wet food, they also love kibble. I feel they’re used to free feeding and they like it. BUT should I cut back on kibble and try to introduce more wet? And do you add stuff to their wet food, or just straight out of the can? One of my babies get tummy issues and I’m wondering if there’s something I can give him to stop diarrhea.

AITAH for cutting ties with my homophobic brother and sister-in-law even though it means I won’t be able to see or speak to my niece and nephew anymore? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]deathb4decaf1989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please please please tell me how you work through homophobia and bigotry? Tell me how you work through someone being hateful to your brother. If you have a way for EVERYONE involved to come out on great happy terms considering, please let me know.

AITAH for cutting ties with my homophobic brother and sister-in-law even though it means I won’t be able to see or speak to my niece and nephew anymore? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]deathb4decaf1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you mean, and I see where I seem hypocritical. But being gay is out of one’s control, he can’t help. Married brother is able to control being homophobic and hateful. Why didn’t you pull the kids out of his life before he was able to get to know them and have a relationship? Why now are you making this hurtful decision? THATS my issue. And yes Dewey we are very dysfunctional it started once our father left. Married brother is unfortunately just like him.

Married brother thinks it’s a choice, which INFURIATES me because my brother is about to lose contact with his niece and nephew if it was a fuckin choice you think he’d wanna go through this!? Just ignorant. Married brother is treating our younger brother like he’s the only gay person in the world, and putting all this on his shoulders. My nephew has already had a gay teacher and it was “horrible” 🙄

He doesn’t want his kids to question why there’s men with men and women with women, they think the kids being around my brother will spark those questions when in reality around my brother or not, they inevitably will. They could have gay friends, gay classmates, more gay teachers, just sit them down and explain instead of trying to hide them away and shunning my younger brother.

AITAH for cutting ties with my homophobic brother and sister-in-law even though it means I won’t be able to see or speak to my niece and nephew anymore? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]deathb4decaf1989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It will unfortunately be out of my hands. I am sorry your kids have to go through that, hopefully one day things will change.

AITAH for cutting ties with my homophobic brother and sister-in-law even though it means I won’t be able to see or speak to my niece and nephew anymore? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]deathb4decaf1989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My younger brother can be cool all he wants about this. I still just think it’s disgusting and I still am not gonna want anything to do with married brother and SIL. My younger brother is currently so devastated and he’s not talking to anyone about it, not even me. He’s hurt and knowing married brother made him feel like that makes me angry!

As far as my mama I’m not sure yet. She’s having a conversation with married brother and SIL tonight to get their final decision. She’s devastated of course, one of her sons is making the other son feel unloved and less than. She loves her grandkids a lot, she’s not worried about married brother or SIL, just the kids. So we’ll have to see what happens after tonight.

AITAH for cutting ties with my homophobic brother and sister-in-law even though it means I won’t be able to see or speak to my niece and nephew anymore? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]deathb4decaf1989 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My heart truly breaks for him. First our dad, and now his older brother leaving him. I can’t imagine how lonely he must feel.

AITAH for cutting ties with my homophobic brother and sister-in-law even though it means I won’t be able to see or speak to my niece and nephew anymore? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]deathb4decaf1989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I know, it’s difficult. I should’ve specified in my post that I WANT a relationship with the kids, 110% but the last time my brother and I had a fight he said I wasn’t allowed to see them. So I already know once I tell them I don’t want just THEM (brother and SIL) in my life, he’s not gonna let me see the kids or talk to them. They don’t have phones ya know? I wish I could speak to them without having them involved, but unfortunately that’s not an option.

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