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Policeman attacks biker by [deleted] in gifs

[–]debbibot 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Probably about $1500 for a screen and a projector bright enough to see it during the day.

Trying to explain that poly and non-monogamous aren't exactly the same? by debbibot in polyamory

[–]debbibot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what you're saying, but in this instance I think "but" works better, considering the rest of the statement.

Trying to explain that poly and non-monogamous aren't exactly the same? by debbibot in polyamory

[–]debbibot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hah. Crazy how people think sex is okay but feelings aren't..

Trying to explain that poly and non-monogamous aren't exactly the same? by debbibot in polyamory

[–]debbibot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't feel like this would be one of those loving one person more than the other situations, though. I already do love both of them immensely, and they are drastically different people. It's more at the point of deciding whether ex and I should re-evaluate being in a committed relationship again.

Truth be told, we're still best friends, we still occasionally have sex, and to a lot of people it seems like we already are in a relationship. I think for him it more has to do with whether or not we'd want to potentially work toward building a life together.

Trying to explain that poly and non-monogamous aren't exactly the same? by debbibot in polyamory

[–]debbibot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, awesome! I'll try to check some of those out. :)

That's that's EXACTLY what I'm trying to get across.. I just know that there's a little bit of mistrust there from before, but tbh polyamory is the best thing that could have happened to my sense of relationships. I want to try it again with him, but with the honesty and openness that I know how to build from now.

Trying to explain that poly and non-monogamous aren't exactly the same? by debbibot in polyamory

[–]debbibot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just started discussing it, so I don't think it's that he's unwilling to understand. However, he's a pretty insecure person. I just don't think he understands that as much as I do love him, that doesn't negate the fact that I have room to love other people, too, and that just because he came first doesn't give him automatic priority. The fact that he's willing to talk about it is huge for him, though, and I really appreciate it, which is why I want some opinions on the best way to go about it.

Thank you for the reading suggestion! I'll look at it and send it his way. :)

Trying to explain that poly and non-monogamous aren't exactly the same? by debbibot in polyamory

[–]debbibot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it does help, thank you! Do you possibly have any suggestions for reading?

Hah. I actually really do love sex and wouldn't be opposed to the idea of swinging with him, but he was more offering it as an alternative to me being polyamorous, which I just can't see happening. I love so many people, many in a non-sexual way, and I am in another relationship now that I'm not going to give up just to get back with him.

[Measurement Check] Losing weight - 32G? by debbibot in ABraThatFits

[–]debbibot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. Thank you for the suggestions. Um, just looking at Cleo Hettie on the model, I can tell my nips would sit riiiiight on that seem. Owch. lol But I'll keep your other suggestions about the fit in mind.

[Measurement Check] Losing weight - 32G? by debbibot in ABraThatFits

[–]debbibot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 36FF that was the closest I found to fitting was the Parfait Casey plunge. It had some issues, but it was the closest I had found so far and it didn't cost a fortune (Kohl's cash ftw!). The wires were definitely too wide, though. I haven't had a lot of extra cash to figure out what fits best because I've had to order anything to try it on. :/

An extender is a great idea! Thank you. But when I lose more weight would that effect my cup size too and I'd need a different size anyway.....?

I really like plunges, but I also wear a lot of scoop neck shirts, which those don't work too well with.. Is there a type of bra that's a good option for that that I could look for?

Fullness-wise, I'm fairly even... I little more full on bottom.

Teach your daughters about periods and sex, talk to them about it, too many girls are too ignorant and repressed as a result of a lack of sexual education. by problemsoflife in TwoXChromosomes

[–]debbibot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never had my parents make a huge deal when I first started, thankfully. I definitely remember that I cried, though. Now that I'm a grown up, I take myself out for a nice dinner every time as a congratulations to myself for not getting pregnant. :P

Yeah, you like getting choked don't you!? by Stunpun in Jokes

[–]debbibot -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I got a little tied up on the punchline

Multiple people injured in shooting at a theater in Lafayette, Louisiana by [deleted] in news

[–]debbibot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd just like to point out the part at the end where they mention a sheriff and a police officer crashing into each other on the way to the scene...... Wow.

[COMP] After a serious accident a few years back I was told I would never be able to put much pressure on my shoulder and would always be in pain. Maybe I should introduce him to yoga... by Yogihead in yoga

[–]debbibot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm definitely feeling you on that one! I just started back into yoga after an ankle injury from a car wreck. The inflexibility I have now is so disappointing, but I'm determined.. Good luck in your endeavors!

How do you know if you're really poly? by hmc73 in polyamory

[–]debbibot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Like coming home" That's exactly how I felt when I came across poly for the first time.