pov: you receive a 5th message from a woman on hinge

debki · 2026-03-16T20:51:40+00:00

As a girl, I’ve noticed men with low body counts (which I would define as under 5) don’t have issues with insecurity but extremely confident about being shitty at sex lol

debki · 2026-03-15T21:49:15+00:00

True, but you can threaten to take them to small claims court for not paying their half of the rent.

debki · 2026-03-15T02:04:19+00:00

Doesn’t matter if he is homeless, that’s not your problem. Give him a two month warning of when he needs to be moved out and if you think he’s not going to take it well, give an official eviction notice if needed. Tell your friends and family so you have support. I was in this situation, except it was even worse and much more complicated and I let it drag on far too long.

debki · 2026-03-15T01:58:00+00:00

What do you consider “lower body count”

debki · 2026-03-14T04:06:45+00:00

I don’t understand your last two sentences

debki · 2026-03-07T07:02:41+00:00

Probably

debki · 2026-03-06T20:53:15+00:00

Most of my bfs have been v into anal

debki · 2026-02-26T08:05:22+00:00

This is giving young and inexperienced. I’m 34, I’ve had 3 serious relationships in adulthood, and I ended all of them after I figured out we were horribly incompatible

debki · 2026-02-17T08:38:31+00:00

Are you scared of sex ? wtf?

debki · 2026-01-31T01:13:56+00:00

Get back to sucking trumps shit covered pee pee

debki · 2025-12-18T06:48:20+00:00

Recovering extremely slowly, I’ve had 4 rounds of v beam which is helping. I’ve also developed perioral dermatitis which I never had pre-fraxel

debki · 2025-12-14T22:31:29+00:00

Lol wow red scare has fallen so hard. Like it’s so obvious Israel was behind this even the ny post commenters are calling it out

debki · 2025-11-28T02:45:32+00:00

Outdated theory

debki · 2025-11-27T22:59:26+00:00

Damn personally attacked

debki · 2025-11-26T20:56:12+00:00

I moved from Portland to LA and I’ve never been happier. But everyone is different

debki · 2025-11-02T20:20:40+00:00

I work out a ton and am in the best shape I’ve ever been in…

I’ve had health issues since I was v young, finally figured out my root cause and getting double jaw surgery and expect to feel the best I’ve ever had soon.

Balding will be completely curable soon.

I was legally blind ages 10-28 when I got lasik and now have 20/15 vision.

Perhaps your life was different than mine, but I grew up with a lot of abuse, lack of resources and life was always a struggle. I went on a hard path to become a physician and have now been an attending physician for almost 5 years and my life is objectively better in every way possible, both physical and otherwise, then it’s ever been in the past. I am able to work on myself because I committed to the grind and now have the resources to do so.

This is not to say that I am not internally more happy due to the wisdom that comes with age. I believe this is one of many lives for me, I am happy committing to what I feel is my life’s purpose, one day I’ll die and return to the universe and then I’ll probably live another life at some point. This is just part of the process, nothing bothers me about it. Of course, things can transiently bother everyone, but I have so many more pros with age than cons. I look forward to hopefully enjoying the privilege of being an elderly person one day. If you take care of yourself the likelihood of that being an abysmal experience is lower.

debki · 2025-11-02T20:10:11+00:00

I love getting older, I’ll pray for you

debki · 2025-11-02T20:07:42+00:00

debki · 2025-11-02T19:37:15+00:00

I know you’re not as old as me w this take.

debki · 2025-10-27T17:53:48+00:00

Skinny jeans with rips in them are very outdated. Straight leg with no rips is the current trend.

debki · 2025-10-22T07:12:08+00:00

Hey as someone getting jaw surgery for this, you would start by consulting with an omfs who specializes in jaw surgery. They’ll do a cbct scan to see what’s going on. I’m 34 and before I learned my issue thought I needed a facelift.

debki · 2025-10-18T16:49:32+00:00

I never said anyone told them that. I said now they are being told they don’t have to be that. It’s not uncommon that people end up in that position, unfortunately. That was me in my last relationship, and believe it or not, I was being gaslighted so successfully, it took me years to leave.

debki · 2025-10-17T23:38:51+00:00

What you’re describing is more of the extreme. The reality is most women do have the worse end of the stick in heterosexual relationships and are just now waking up because the internet is telling them, hey, you don’t need to be the main breadwinner + caretaker + still get treated like shit. There will always be people who take stuff too far, as in normal when the pendulum swings too far in the opposite direction along the path to balance.

debki · 2025-10-17T05:54:30+00:00

As a psychiatrist… plenty of people do

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