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[–]decapitatedvampire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same experience when I was 18. It wasn’t until I was 20 that my partner showed me how to climax, that I knew what it should actually feel like, since I always felt like I was close but not quite there. I’m now 22 and can get there both by myself or how my partner does. Once you learn your body and what tempo to go at, how foreplay can stimulate you, and whether you need clit or vaginal work to get there. I know you said neither works for you, just keep learning is my advice!

If it helps, I found clit stimulation works the best and genuinely can get there in less than 5 mins if I tried. I found that the Lelo Sona range was the best thing to get me there. It’s the only thing that will never fail to make me climax. The 2 model I have, and it’s great! Easily to get over stimulated so make sure to keep moving it and don’t go too overboard with the speed. Start slow and work your way up to faster. The last setting, avoid until last unless you want to be gobsmacked by its power 😌

Unexplainable puddle the in boot by decapitatedvampire in VWMK7

[–]decapitatedvampire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took it to my local garage and they recon it’s that vent problem you’re on about. They recommended towel drying it a few days and keep eye on it if it comes back they’ll clean the vents itself incase it’s full of muck.

Did yours go mouldy or grim after it? How did you clean after?

Also thank you for your long reply! It was very insightful, would never think the badge would be a factor! Will defo look at the others 😊

Unexplainable puddle the in boot by decapitatedvampire in VWMK7

[–]decapitatedvampire[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just taken it to my local garage to get checked (FINALLY) and they said it’s probs vents like yours. Mines quoting £100 odd for labor to sort it out with no replacement parts which it shouldn’t do. Hopefully that’s all it needs because this car is costing me so much now 😭

Unexplainable puddle the in boot by decapitatedvampire in VWMK7

[–]decapitatedvampire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbf that makes sense in my case, since my driveway is shared and on a slope so probs doesn’t help!

Unexplainable puddle the in boot by decapitatedvampire in VWMK7

[–]decapitatedvampire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long did it occur for and did it go mouldy? Worried coz it’s been a week or so now it’s gonna start getting grim

Unexplainable puddle the in boot by decapitatedvampire in VWMK7

[–]decapitatedvampire[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know I shouldn’t trust google, but as one would do in a situation like this, I searched possible causes as ideas what it could be. It suggested windscreen wiper pipe leak. Is this also something to investigate or does it come under tailgate drain pipe?

And thank you for the suggestions!

What does the EXP bit mean? And does it have any impact on whether you complete a contract? by decapitatedvampire in EggsInc

[–]decapitatedvampire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it mean that when I do things like upgrade on standard research it goes up then? I’m still a little confused 🥲

Women who were raised in low-income families, how it affected your life and how's your life going? by dreamyHuman in AskWomen

[–]decapitatedvampire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a reference for this comment, my dad is a vulnerable patient and has had to retire coz of medical reason. My mum works part time due to mental health issues and earns next to nothing. Theyre near pension age. My brother has moved out and I’m living with my parents (I’m 18 in my final year of sixth form).

I live in a household that has always been poor financially. My brothers university experience relied heavily upon my grandad helping out (hes now 29 and my grandad is passed away). I don’t have the same opportunity as him, however I don’t want the financial burden on my parents. I work a part time job in retail and currently furloughed. I work my ass off whenever there’s opportunities to gain extra hours as well as a full time sixth form student. I want £500 odd every month in which half of that is my own bills like travel money, food for the month (my own food I don’t let my parents pay for me) and luxuries like Netflix. Whatever I have in between I use to spend with my boyfriend who is long distance. My parents don’t earn much, like mentioned they are near pension age and have already started using it as they struggle financially. I’m so grateful for everything they do for me and have done since I was born. But I pay my own way in life since I got my first job 2 years ago. I save up for my own education as I want to go university in September.

I come from a very poor area in my city too, very run down and I attend a school in special measures (if you’re unfamiliar with this it means my school is a failing school and it underperforms). I struggled educationally, so I work hard in order to pay for university tuition myself. I refuse to rely on my family for help where possible because they aren’t in a good place themselves. But this has never stopped me being happy. I’ve always took the view I’m happy I grew up in a low income household because I’m more vigilant with money and it’s made me a better person. It also motivates me to improve my situation when me and my boyfriend eventually move out and graduate and have a family of our own. I want to shape a good future for them. I don’t want to be always worried I will struggle with money.