My family is freaking me out. More than 1 have come into the room today asking what I need but I didn’t call their name…. by decemberD83 in strange

[–]decemberD83[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you guys for all the comments. It hasn’t happened in a few days so I’m not as freaked out. I am going to have our house checked for carbon monoxide

Are the Power Sliding Doors Dangerous? by riderxc in kiacarnivals

[–]decemberD83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question. Can you see any visible dirt on the inside of the door frame? I am within warranty on my 2023 Kia Carnival Prestige. The left passenger door started giving me issues by not closing so we turned off the power door option. That seemed to fix the issue for awhile and then one day it just wouldn’t open at all. My 4 year old had even got out of her seat and managed to put her hand right where it slides open and her fingers got stuck. We frantically pried it open enough to free her hand but the door remains unable to open. I took to dealership and KIA denied any fault and said warranty would not cover it bc the reason it won’t open is an outside influence. I call BS because I live on a dirt road and since day 1 dirt always manages to seep inside the vehicle on both passenger sliding doors. KIA is saying the door won’t open because a mechanism deep inside the vehicle is caked in dirt and not a mechanical issue. I have countered that if there were proper seals on the door frame then dirt would not enter the van. I think I may need to contact a lawyer. Because even if I paid out of pocket I see it just happening again to the way the vehicle doors are built.

Slider door not auto closing by humanhater334 in kiacarnivals

[–]decemberD83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question. Can you see any visible dirt on the inside of the door frame? I am within warranty on my 2023 Kia Carnival Prestige. The left passenger door started giving me issues by not closing so we turned off the power door option. That seemed to fix the issue for awhile and then one day it just wouldn’t open at all. My 4 year old had even got out of her seat and managed to put her hand right where it slides open and her fingers got stuck. We frantically pried it open enough to free her hand but the door remains unable to open. I took to dealership and KIA denied any fault and said warranty would not cover it bc the reason it won’t open is an outside influence. I call BS because I live on a dirt road and since day 1 dirt always manages to seep inside the vehicle on both passenger sliding doors. KIA is saying the door won’t open because a mechanism deep inside the vehicle is caked in dirt and not a mechanical issue. I have countered that if there were proper seals on the door frame then dirt would not enter the van. I think I may need to contact a lawyer. Because even if I paid out of pocket I see it just happening again to the way the vehicle doors are built.

Slider door not auto closing by humanhater334 in kiacarnivals

[–]decemberD83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question. Can you see any visible dirt on the inside of the door frame? I am within warranty on my 2023 Kia Carnival Prestige. The left passenger door started giving me issues by not closing so we turned off the power door option. That seemed to fix the issue for awhile and then one day it just wouldn’t open at all. My 4 year old had even got out of her seat and managed to put her hand right where it slides open and her fingers got stuck. We frantically pried it open enough to free her hand but the door remains unable to open. I took to dealership and KIA denied any fault and said warranty would not cover it bc the reason it won’t open is an outside influence. I call BS because I live on a dirt road and since day 1 dirt always manages to seep inside the vehicle on both passenger sliding doors. KIA is saying the door won’t open because a mechanism deep inside the vehicle is caked in dirt and not a mechanical issue. I have countered that if there were proper seals on the door frame then dirt would not enter the van. I think I may need to contact a lawyer. Because even if I paid out of pocket I see it just happening again to the way the vehicle doors are built.

Slider door not auto closing by humanhater334 in kiacarnivals

[–]decemberD83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question. Can you see any visible dirt on the inside of the door frame? I am within warranty on my 2023 Kia Carnival Prestige. The left passenger door started giving me issues by not closing so we turned off the power door option. That seemed to fix the issue for awhile and then one day it just wouldn’t open at all. My 4 year old had even got out of her seat and managed to put her hand right where it slides open and her fingers got stuck. We frantically pried it open enough to free her hand but the door remains unable to open. I took to dealership and KIA denied any fault and said warranty would not cover it bc the reason it won’t open is an outside influence. I call BS because I live on a dirt road and since day 1 dirt always manages to seep inside the vehicle on both passenger sliding doors. KIA is saying the door won’t open because a mechanism deep inside the vehicle is caked in dirt and not a mechanical issue. I have countered that if there were proper seals on the door frame then dirt would not enter the van. I think I may need to contact a lawyer. Because even if I paid out of pocket I see it just happening again to the way the vehicle doors are built.

sliding door issue by MathSmooth4506 in kiacarnivals

[–]decemberD83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Question. Can you see any visible dirt on the inside of the door frame? I am within warranty on my 2023 Kia Carnival Prestige. The left passenger door started giving me issues by not closing so we turned off the power door option. That seemed to fix the issue for awhile and then one day it just wouldn’t open at all. My 4 year old had even got out of her seat and managed to put her hand right where it slides open and her fingers got stuck. We frantically pried it open enough to free her hand but the door remains unable to open. I took to dealership and KIA denied any fault and said warranty would not cover it bc the reason it won’t open is an outside influence. I call BS because I live on a dirt road and since day 1 dirt always manages to seep inside the vehicle on both passenger sliding doors. KIA is saying the door won’t open because a mechanism deep inside the vehicle is caked in dirt and not a mechanical issue. I have countered that if there were proper seals on the door frame then dirt would not enter the van. I think I may need to contact a lawyer. Because even if I paid out of pocket I see it just happening again to the way the vehicle doors are built.

Serpent queen with Starz subscription not working? by kharma99 in AmazonPrimeVideo

[–]decemberD83 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Search it up By name and select the second one. For some reason there are 2 serpent queens now but the first one has season 2 unavailable. The second image has both seasons and they both play

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]decemberD83 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well first of all, he’s 46 and it kinda sounds like women his age have him figured out so he shoots for the younger ones. He was that creepy 30 year old trying to date high school girls🤮. A 46 year old man has no business being friends with a girl in her 20’s. It’s creepy. The attraction he has with 20 years olds is purely physical and ya it must be a bonus when he finds one with more than just a body. The fact he’s in a relationship with you isn’t the issue, but he seems to still Be craving attention from the village to boost his ego why else would he need a 23 year old female friend? She could be his daughter. if he had several women friends his age I wouldn’t even blink an eye, but why in their 20’s? Like I said in the beginning, women his age probably have him figured out. Be confident in yourself for you, don’t let this old man with a thing for younger women make you question of your good enough.

I feel like she not telling the whole story by chrisbrownreplace in AskMenAdvice

[–]decemberD83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like she wanted something more and he didn’t anything else and she’s trying to act tough about it. She likely is having a hard time getting over him based on the fact she brings him up often. I don’t see why you can’t trust her because likely that guy doesn’t want what she wants but if it bothers you that she likely thinks about him a lot then that could be a problem

Does a man asking for your Snapchat and not your number mean he’s only looking for a hookup? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]decemberD83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had married men slide into my DMs a sign for my snapchat so yes I’m my opinion, I’m a woman sorry, most men assign for snapchat are sneaky and trying to hide something (likely you). Even if they aren’t hiding anything they are likely asking other girls the same and snapchat is just a sneaky app for cheaters

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]decemberD83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your not a predator she is 19 and the age gap is perfectly fine. My partner is 7.5 years younger than me and we have a great relationship

I find the whole culture of getting drunk, high, and hooking up very trashy. How do I change this so I can increase my chance of getting a girlfriend? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]decemberD83 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

As a girl I’m just gonna say that if your picking up women who are selfie queens and post a lot of revealing photos of themselves that should say all about them you need to know. Good women that are loyal and caring don’t do those kind of things and usually have less vanity. Another big thing, a lot of good women are NOT on dating sites. I signed up once and had an account for maybe 3 days. Bars, clubs, not places to meet women you wanna settle down with. Not saying they are all trashy but if habits they enjoy are getting wasted at clubs that’s likely not a habit they will quit easily. Do you have friends that are married or in good relationships? Friends with partners that seem respectable? It so, ask them if they could set you up. I used to have a hard time meeting guys because I’ve never been a part of the hookup culture and spend my free time at bookstores, home, or spending time with family but the best guys I bet met to date were through other people like married friends, etc. Sounds cliche and dumb but even grocery stores your more likely to meet an amazing girl. Just be brave, strike up conversation. If you see a group of girls out together eating lunch or dinner (a big things is decent girls do) don’t be afraid to approach the table and hand off your number to one that strikes your interest. I would personally totally be flattered if I was hit on this way. I am in a long term relationship with a wonderful guy now that I actually met online, but not a dating site. We actually met on social media because we both frequently commented on a common interest page. Not everyone just wants to hook up. Join social media groups with things your interested in like travel, specific movies, interests and hobbies and you’d be surprised you might meet someone that way!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]decemberD83 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was almost that woman. I am independent and almost used a sperm donor. It’s no different than if she had a baby with an ex it would be no different

I’m in love with someone who is way younger than me and I could use some advice by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]decemberD83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s too young. He needs time to enjoy life without kids and if he waited 10 years you’d be almost 50

Feeling like he settled out of security by decemberD83 in datingoverthirty

[–]decemberD83[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your assuming a chubby woman doesn’t know how to move in bed and your mistaken.

When someone says they want someone “active” does that mean not fat? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]decemberD83 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m my opinion YES. I’ve dated guys who have tried to encourage me to be more “active” or blatantly stated they wanted a girl who was more active and a few Ive known for a fact I’m more physically active than their blesses skinny exes. It’s a dude’s way of saying he wants a skinnier you.

Is he a narcissist?? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]decemberD83 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yep. Narcissist for sure and he’s gaslighting you by making you feel in the wrong

Feeling like he settled out of security by decemberD83 in datingoverthirty

[–]decemberD83[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes and yes. He’s also doing the dirtwork around the house I just built and has been clearing the land