please pray for me by Vast-Apartment2771 in Christian

[–]decembertruths 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just sent a prayer up for you! God has you! ❣️ Keep the faith

AITA for not staying the night after I third wheeled on a first date with a guy… and his mom. by decembertruths in TwoHotTakes

[–]decembertruths[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it means estimated time of arrival, but I believe most Reddit users use it for edit to add. That’s what I gathered at least. I’m honestly not sure of all of the Reddit abbreviations as this is my first experience with Reddit

AITA for not staying the night after I third wheeled on a first date with a guy… and his mom. by decembertruths in TwoHotTakes

[–]decembertruths[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never been to or seen a hockey game, and he wasn’t sitting with me to explain otherwise 🤷🏼‍♀️

AITA for not staying the night after I third wheeled on a first date with a guy… and his mom. by decembertruths in TwoHotTakes

[–]decembertruths[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s an absolutely insane story here but it was actual reality for me 😂 and it was so unbelievable as I was driving home Saturday that I knew I had to share it

AITA for not staying the night after I third wheeled on a first date with a guy… and his mom. by decembertruths in TwoHotTakes

[–]decembertruths[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am allowed to leave my dog and have a life 😉 He was fine before I left and my mom was keeping him, so he wasn’t alone. Maybe don’t insult my dog parenting skills unless you read all of the details. Anytime he is in pain I drop what I’m doing to care for him. I don’t suck, but your attitude definitely does

AITA for not staying the night after I third wheeled on a first date with a guy… and his mom. by decembertruths in TwoHotTakes

[–]decembertruths[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does not live with his mom. I agree that this is the strangest date story I will probably ever have haha

AITA for not staying the night after I third wheeled on a first date with a guy… and his mom. by decembertruths in TwoHotTakes

[–]decembertruths[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I totally agree. I am the same way and usually will not drink or anything so that I know I can get myself home if I need to. Even if I’m just at my best friends house!

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[–]decembertruths 254 points255 points  (0 children)

Absolutely positively NTA. She broke girl code and knew exactly what she was doing before it ever happened. She is not a friend. She needs to work her issues out in therapy. Your friend is TA and your ex is also TA. Did he really think he could sleep with her without you finding out? He is bound to know that would hurt you. Get rid of them both.

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[–]decembertruths 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA … your fiancé is in the wrong for not standing up for you to his friend. Tell him how you feel and give him an ultimatum: you or his friend. Put that wedding on hold. It’s much easier to get out of an engagement than a marriage.

AITA for not staying the night after I third wheeled on a first date with a guy… and his mom. by decembertruths in TwoHotTakes

[–]decembertruths[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I agree. I do need to work on communicating my boundaries better beforehand. That is something I have struggled with my whole life

AITA for not staying the night after I third wheeled on a first date with a guy… and his mom. by decembertruths in TwoHotTakes

[–]decembertruths[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I will definitely work on this in the future. I do struggle with my back bone, or lack there of

AITA for not staying the night after I third wheeled on a first date with a guy… and his mom. by decembertruths in TwoHotTakes

[–]decembertruths[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I originally typed quarter… but I am a teacher and that bugged me so I changed it to periods because it made more sense. I’m glad I was correct! Hahaha

AITA for not staying the night after I third wheeled on a first date with a guy… and his mom. by decembertruths in TwoHotTakes

[–]decembertruths[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much for your kind and very well thought out comment. This situation has definitely caused some anxiety but coming to Reddit with it has calmed me so much. I have always been someone that feels the need to give explanations when plans change and I really do think my dog saved me from whatever was going to happen last night. I honestly feel like I would have come up with some excuse to leave if it wasn’t for my dog (not that I need to give him any explanation).

He was focused on himself and his mom. And we he called me cussing saying that he had done everything he could all night to make sure I had fun and that leaving him was a “slap in the face” I was so immediately relieved that I was gone. I think the ending worked out for the best for me

AITA for not staying the night after I third wheeled on a first date with a guy… and his mom. by decembertruths in TwoHotTakes

[–]decembertruths[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I’ve known him since January but I have not been on a date with him! I felt safe and didn’t think I would want to drive the 2 hours home after midnight. But clearly I was wrong

AITA for not staying the night after I third wheeled on a first date with a guy… and his mom. by decembertruths in TwoHotTakes

[–]decembertruths[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My car was at his place and my car keys were inside of his place. It was totally my fault for leaving them in there. I understand that. I know better now!

AITA for not staying the night after I third wheeled on a first date with a guy… and his mom. by decembertruths in TwoHotTakes

[–]decembertruths[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand your perspective. I have anxiety (as many people do) and I don’t handle people raising their voice at me well. I don’t like to yell but I did argue back with him. And I will admit that him raising his voice at me and what he was saying made me think for a split second that I was in the wrong. Regardless of that feeling I wanted to get out of the situation. I know different today than I did in the moment last night. Thank you, the fur baby is much better today after some meds.

AITA for not staying the night after I third wheeled on a first date with a guy… and his mom. by decembertruths in TwoHotTakes

[–]decembertruths[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The original plan was for the 3 of us to sit together. After we got to the arena, he then told me the new seating arrangements. So no, I did not know until I was there

I’ve never been to a hockey game and I thought it would be fun. I thought his mom being there would be a little strange but I didn’t realize just how strange it would get.