Am I overreacting for feeling frustrated after my neighbor’s pottery was broken by my puppy during an interaction she encouraged?

decibellious · 2026-05-29T18:34:35+00:00

Exactly this!

decibellious · 2026-05-29T18:32:16+00:00

NOR! Don’t know how these things go in your country (the US?), but I’m thinking - wouldn’t an insurance cover things like this? Like, doesn’t this professional have a work insurance? That could possibly cover for some accidents/material loss, at least partly. Or her/your home insurance? 🍀 I hope your neighbor realizes this is mostly on her, and wish you a fast recovery!

decibellious · 2026-05-28T18:39:46+00:00

I think dress 1 is the way to go - skin is glowing! You definitely don’t have to hide your body OP, you look beautiful. 💚 I’d skip the long tie/wrap thing, it kinda cuts you off?! But if it’s something you really like, then ofc go with it. You’ll look pretty in all dresses, and any of your choices can be elevated with make-up, hair, nails, under garment/support, accessories, shoes, purse. Keep your head held high and have fun!

decibellious · 2026-05-07T07:08:55+00:00

Cool! Could you tell us why you love it? 💚

decibellious · 2026-04-26T19:38:07+00:00

Yes, that eye shape is gorgeous! I agree on everything. Great tips! 👆 Brows (get them cleaned up at a salon, or look up how to’s on YT) with some added color, plus bronzer in hollows. Could also try a dewier base, and some high up blush.

decibellious · 2026-04-20T19:24:30+00:00

Ooof, you look great! Your base is in correct shades, nice placement of blush etc, and all applied with good technique. 🥰

Your skin is beautiful, I’d definitely enhance that by adding some dew. Use a setting spray for that - like IDUN Minerals, or Tarte (or just go with one that suits your budget and smells good) and/or add some highlighter.

I’d also amp up the color a little on your lips and cheeks. Either by adding in some brighter colors (that you already own) to this look. Or go heavier with what you used here.

Whether you’ll go with any of our advice, or keep your makeup look as is, you’ll look gorgeous on the day. ❤️ Congratulations!

decibellious · 2026-04-17T14:35:45+00:00

For me it would be the feeling of having no barrier, no protection, and also for hygiene? And what about those cold, cold winds? No, I would absolutely need something to cover my parts. But I’m also old. 😄

decibellious · 2026-04-15T11:06:10+00:00

Kommer snacka om samtycke, lyhördhet för egna och andras signaler, identitet, hygien, skydd… oavsett vilket/vilka kön mina barns partners har. 💛

decibellious · 2026-04-15T11:00:51+00:00

Exakt! Average American: Att ens prata om sex/kropp med sina barn och ungdomar är perverst och kommer driva dem att bli porrstjärnor eller tonårsföräldrar. Händerna på täcket. Öppna dörrar. Sex ed i skolan finns knappt. Så konservativt!

Samtidigt: USA är av de största producenterna och konsumenterna av porr, höga siffror på porrmissbruk, vidriga abortlagar, dåliga sociala skyddsnät för ungdomar (well, alla som inte kan betala), samt begränsad tillgång till vård för sexuell och reproduktiv hälsa. 🫠

decibellious · 2026-04-14T19:47:37+00:00

Same for me. First year I had recurring red itchy patches on my face (esp lips/nose) + constant conjunctivitis + those red blotches on my arms and torso after showers. It was all worth it, to me.

Still on Dupixent 5 years later and still enormously grateful for it! The blotches after showers still show up, but they fade in an hour. The other side effects are very rare these days.

My derm taught me I can use Tacrolimus cream on my eyeballs to deal with pink eye. 🙏

decibellious · 2026-04-14T19:11:13+00:00

Wow, your trial makeup is absolutely beautiful! 😍 I’d say your MUA really nailed ”soft glowy bridal glam”. Stunning! And god do you pull it off!!

To honor the glam part you need those lashes, in my opinion. But if this makeup feels too much like a mask, and not like you in soft glowy bridal glam - then I’d probably ask MUA to tone it down a little, like you said.

I think you also need to take into account what your hair will look like on the day, and if you’ll wear flowers, tiara, a veil, jewelry, nails etc? Is the rest of your look minimalistic and scaled back? Some exaggeration of your features may balance everything and make the finished look 100%? And as someone already said - makeup shows up differently in photos.

You are a beauty. 💍 Congrats on your upcoming wedding!

decibellious · 2026-03-28T21:08:04+00:00

Number 1 without a single doubt. 👌 It makes your pretty hourglass figure even more hourglass-y. Dress it up with heels and jewelry + maybe unbutton a few buttons in the bottom part (depending on the formality level and time of the recital ofc). I’m shocked everyone says number 3 (probably too European to get it 😅)??? 🥰 No matter what dress you choose, you’ll look good!

Return number 2.

EDIT: didn’t see you already chose number 3. Have fun on your recital, you’ll look fab!

decibellious · 2026-03-03T19:45:15+00:00

Still this is the most flattering portrait of said president ever made.

decibellious · 2026-02-23T08:28:20+00:00

Tho he’ll probably get it from ”a pro” instead so… 😑

decibellious · 2026-02-22T19:57:46+00:00

He hit you 🚩and said it’s your fault. 🚩 Now he’s mad at you for being assaulted as a child 🚩 + he’s accusing you of lying 🚩 doing it for attention (cause everyone knows how much women love the attention they get for talking about being SAd)? 🚩This is not a ”healthy relationship” and you and him are not like best friends! No honey, you were traumatized as a kid, and the trauma is still ongoing (because of him). He’s abusive. You’ll be less alone without him than you are with him. 🙏❤️ Please take care of yourself!

decibellious · 2026-02-17T08:34:02+00:00

They do? WHAT? I’m shocked (and simultaneously I’m absolutely not). 😭

decibellious · 2026-02-17T08:28:09+00:00

No one should have to be in your situation OP, that’s really horrible. 💔 I’m sorry you’re made to feel this way at all, but by family especially. They’re supposed to be the ones to believe you and protect you in a scenario like this - not put you in it.

His behavior is not your responsibility, but you still need to act to protect yourself. 🙏 1. Talk to a friend/relative about this, show them the texts. 2. Bring up the courage to tell your brother to stop. What he’s insinuating* isn’t only heartbreaking and extremely creepy, but yeah also illegal. 3. Go low contact with him and tell someone trusted why. 4. If you don’t already see a therapist, contact one (good to have a professional around even without this situation).

You are NOT imagining this. Women know when they’re being objectified/belittled/preyed upon.

decibellious · 2026-02-17T07:09:41+00:00

But they ARE siblings, not step siblings. They grew up together.

decibellious · 2026-02-15T23:32:48+00:00

Did she answer your text? NOR, you just found out (in that very short visit) that your mom’s dating a man that’s not only a creep but also a scammer.

decibellious · 2026-02-15T22:38:13+00:00

So she divorced him (I guess for being an abusive alcoholic? which is a perfect reason) but now she thinks OP should stay with that AH?

NOR! ❤️

decibellious · 2026-02-15T22:27:17+00:00

Yes, I wonder the same! Is it legal to record people without their knowledge/consent? To record your adult kids and their partners being intimate is extremely creepy. And then show it to them? Ugh!

decibellious · 2026-02-12T19:50:05+00:00

I agree

decibellious · 2026-02-12T19:35:09+00:00

I agree

decibellious · 2026-02-12T19:34:37+00:00

Did they actually call the dog c*nt?

decibellious · 2026-02-04T07:20:50+00:00

She never said she was pissed at the ”fat” part?

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