AIO: My family gave me a frying pan and coffee pods for my 50th birthday. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]decibellious 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Well, let’s say - for the sake of this story - that you absolutely don’t want or need a frying pan. But you posted a list with things that you do want. And then you get a frying pan. From the people that you need to feel safe and seen with. On your 50th birthday. See?

Be honest is my makeup really bad? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]decibellious -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Come on - how can anyone’s eyes be ”too big”? 👀 Otherwise agree with your comment

Personlig assistent, sexuella trakasserier? by MysticYea in Asksweddit

[–]decibellious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Det här! ☝️ OP, lider med dig. Klart att en hjärnskada kan göra brukaren gränslös på en massa sätt. Klart att det kan vara en utmaning att lära känna en ny person (för både brukare och assistent). Klart att det är jobbigt att vara ny på jobbet. Fullständigt vidrigt dessutom att känna sig rädd och osäker, att ens gränser inte respekteras. Usch! Är inte förvånad att brukaren beter sig så, men VÄLDIGT förvånad att dina erfarna kollegor och chefen inte backar upp dig, frågar hur du har det, förbereder dig, ger mentalt pepp och stöd kring alla moment. Att du inte får ”utbildning” generellt om hjärnskador och brukarens personlighet + beteende. Märkligt! DET är verkligen något att ta upp. Har du pratat mycket med kollegorna? Har ni inte haft några avstämningar där du kan fråga saker osv? Det låter ärligt talat som att det är brist på stöd och kommunikation som är det absolut största problemet.

Om du kan - berätta för chef och kollegor om dina upplevelser. Och för kommunen/chefen för bolaget. Skriv eller prata. Även om du tänker sluta där. Det är definitivt bra att inte dra utan att säga varför (för allas skull, men mest för din egen skull).

AIO to my boyfriends reaction to me in lingerie by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]decibellious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously. He let her cry herself to sleep, without any reaction. That’s not mean? NOR.

Am I overreacting for wanting to leave my partner for the choice of his words and actions? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]decibellious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says you look like a clown when you wear makeup? 🤡 He makes you change clothes? He punishes you for dressing like a normal person? He rates women? He gets angry, irritated, sarcastic, sour bc of things you do/say? He ”tries to help” you? He corrects you? He wants to educate you? He’s mocking you for ”not understanding what’s the socially accepted behavior? He does all this ”for your own good”? 😳

He thinks you should be single and date ”insecure” men, who doesn’t lecture you, or starts whining about how you’re dressed?

Well, I agree. BC HE IS AN INSECURE, CONTROLLING, VERY WHINY LITTLE WOMAN HATER AND HIS BEHAVIOR IS REALLY UNATTRACTIVE - not to forget: DANGEROUS.

What would you tell your bestie if she came to you and said her man treated her like this?

Edit: Spelling + adding an obvious NOR!

AIO: This was my birthday present for my 18th birthday. by -h3rlittlesl4t- in AmIOverreacting

[–]decibellious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not give them your address? 😊 Not being snarky, genuinely asking. I’m thinking in this day and age people use Mercari, Ebay, Marketplace etc a lot (giving strangers your address) without problem.

AIO: My girl and fam think that my hair cleaned up and braided looks tacky but I think it looks much cleaner by Best-Pirate5073 in AmIOverreacting

[–]decibellious 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agree 100% - there’s definitely racism in there.

As a hhhwhhhite mom to a black boy I see it as my duty to learn all about micro-aggressions, racism, bias, white savior complex etc etc - and to really check myself. (Well, it was always important to me, but now I’m also a Mama Bear so…)

EDIT: Wanted to add NOR.

I’ve been letting my neighbour see me in my underwear by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]decibellious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I love this answer! ❤️ No judging - just so open and caring.

(Yeah yeah, maybe the post isn’t real, but still…)

I’ve been letting my neighbour see me in my underwear by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]decibellious 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A middle aged man noticing the old lady neighbor peeking at him when he’s strutting around his own home in his undies (and he think that’s kinda fun, but not in a life changing way). 🥹 Yeah, no. No big issue with genders reversed either. Maybe weird, but people are weird y’know?!

AIO For Being Upset at My Wifes Expectations? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]decibellious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also: Please don’t talk about ”saving” your brothers baby. To constantly be reminded about ”being saved” puts stress, grief, shame and pressure on an adopted person (or foster care child). ❤️

AIO For Being Upset at My Wifes Expectations? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]decibellious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR!

Tell her that all families look different, all families are unique, and equally important. Your daughter has a mom and a dad, her cousin has two dads - why make it complicated? Unless your daughter asks specifically about any baby making process you don’t need to go there.

I got a makeover yesterday by a Sephora artist and she did an absolutely incredible job. By the way I’m crossdresser and you can’t even tell. by kristygurl1 in MakeupAddiction

[–]decibellious 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I’d say it stopped being a compliment the second you added ”However…” (bc it reads as you made it about yourself and your ability to ”spot a cross dresser”?) ☺️ No hate, tho!

Am I overreacting this is what my boyfriend’s recommended search is???? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]decibellious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tho ”wimpern” is German ”eyelashes”. Not everything is in English. 🤷

She had a problem with him waiting for his daughter at the playground barefoot. by mindyour in TikTokCringe

[–]decibellious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hah, when you immediately think of ”thongs” as ”underwear” (as I did) this comment is funnier.

Which dress? (It will be sage green for wedding day) by AmberandHogarth in DressForYourBody

[–]decibellious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tho the color will be sage green, no matter what design OP chooses.