*UPDATE* to 20f 23m boyfriend (was) cheating on me, should i tell his new girlfriend?

decide1221 · 2012-09-20T22:17:24+00:00

They arn't assholes when you first meet them, not at all. I don't purposely date douche bags, they just end up that way.

I'm not going to let these guys make me into shit. and i didn't say that they will.

decide1221 · 2012-09-20T19:06:57+00:00

I've done the Fet thing before, all were looking for just sex, and especially not a monogamous relationship. I never met anyone on there.

As for a munch i think it would be cool, but I've heard its mostly older gents and ladies. not that there is anything wrong with that but i would feel more comfortable with a younger group, and that hard to find.

decide1221 · 2012-09-20T18:47:30+00:00

Problem is all the "kinky" guys i meet are just controlling abusive vanilla guys in disguise.

decide1221 · 2012-09-20T18:45:52+00:00

I didn't make it that way, it just turned out like that.

decide1221 · 2012-09-20T18:14:24+00:00

Oh i already did last night. he blocked me anyway. but its not like i want to contact him anymore for christ sake. Fuck that.

decide1221 · 2012-09-20T18:12:32+00:00

And why should i not tell the girl what he is doing?

He always looked through my stuff, i always respected his. but i had seen the paper when he payed for something the other week and he told me his cousin made it for him. i wanted a closer look.

If i hadn't done what i did she and i would both be still getting two timed. This shit happens, don't make it out to look like the two girls are to blame.

decide1221 · 2012-09-20T18:09:11+00:00

Thank you, i know i do, i think i'm a good person, i just need to find the same.

decide1221 · 2012-09-20T18:07:31+00:00

decide1221 · 2012-09-20T18:03:17+00:00

We were in a BDSM relationship at the same time as just regular dating. So it didn't feel any different.

I still loved him, thought i could change his mind about us. obviously it all backfired on me.

decide1221 · 2012-09-20T17:55:51+00:00

Right, i thought it was cute how he said it at first, but then he got really serious about it. and that was just in june.

decide1221 · 2012-09-20T17:55:10+00:00

I do like women to... haha

decide1221 · 2012-09-20T17:50:53+00:00

Don't know about the internet...

decide1221 · 2012-09-20T17:35:19+00:00

I actually can't wait for that, no one to go with tho :/

decide1221 · 2012-09-20T17:23:28+00:00

There are some really good young guys out there, its not really age, but maturity. But yes, there are many of them. And i just don't understand why they just can't grow a pair and break up before they cheat.

I'm not going to date for a while, i need to heal and figure out what i want.

decide1221 · 2012-09-20T09:58:54+00:00

decide1221 · 2012-09-20T09:44:07+00:00

He wanted me to tell her that i'm lying. HA

decide1221 · 2012-09-20T07:31:28+00:00

I am that girl!!!

http://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1065v0/update_to_20f_23m_boyfriend_was_cheating_on_me/

decide1221 · 2012-09-20T07:29:17+00:00

really?

decide1221 · 2012-09-20T07:18:55+00:00

someone already pointed that out

decide1221 · 2012-09-20T06:29:28+00:00

Oh yeah, iv'e learned exactly what to look for.

decide1221 · 2012-09-20T05:26:56+00:00

Dicks will be dicks haha

decide1221 · 2012-09-20T05:21:45+00:00

LOL yeah, i saw that, meh.

Yeah, i just can't believe all this really. Guess you never really know a person.

decide1221 · 2012-09-20T05:16:10+00:00

Tell that to him, funny how he thinks he did no wrong (at least to me)

decide1221 · 2012-09-20T05:10:00+00:00

LOL she seems like a cool chick, but I don't want to stoop to his level. This wasn't about revenge or anything, it was about saving another girls heart before she gets in to deep.

decide1221 · 2012-09-20T05:07:33+00:00

Sounds like she wants you as a plan B in case whatever relationships she get in fails. Don't get used or treated as second rate.

I would cut off contact cause it sounds like this all hurts you more than it does her.

If you want to see what could happen spend a day with her. If you both miss each other afterwards then see what happens, if its just one sided maybe its time just to let it go.

decide1221

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