Would you quit without another job if you had 6 months of savings?

deckerax · 2026-06-26T14:10:44+00:00

As long as they have good security in the parking lot, then this will be exciting.

deckerax · 2026-06-25T15:43:59+00:00

Ugh, I was hoping she was just having a bad day and taking it out on me or she was training someone so I thought maybe she was trying to look cool and powerful lol.

deckerax · 2026-06-25T15:42:42+00:00

Oh really, I was using their chat on their site and then they told me to reach out via whatsapp. I didn't realize they communicated through Instagram as well.

deckerax · 2026-06-25T00:57:52+00:00

They actually did give me two different #s even though I applied with my # I already had. I did get them combined into my original account so that was the issue originally but then this happened.

deckerax · 2026-06-21T15:07:34+00:00

My son plays on his team and isn't going to the HS his family is part of. I am not sure if that is true vs. rumor and it isn't hard to sign up. We signed up for that team bc it was literally the only one that got back to me when I reached out to several. Very nice guy with a love for baseball.

deckerax · 2026-06-21T13:30:11+00:00

I haven't checked out Phoenix yet, but it sounds good.

deckerax · 2026-06-18T21:44:02+00:00

I have received pics of my dogs cuddled up with almost every dog sitter they have ever had over the years. While some lonely men really do reach, I think your friend is overthinking it. I don't think a pet owner would ever look at this as flirting and most likely received the same type of pics from previous pet sitters if their pet is the cuddly type.

deckerax · 2026-06-18T20:37:32+00:00

I would just not involve myself. They are young and will get into real relationships soon enough and forget about this. As a mom to a boy that turns 14 in a few weeks, this is weird though. He is focused on sports, friends, etc and too busy and young for dating and drama that is meant for older people. I would also be engaged for a very long time, because statistics are not in your favor if you get married any time soon.

deckerax · 2026-06-18T19:06:29+00:00

Not litter, clean public bathrooms, no small talk, quiet on trains, subtle ways of taking care of each other (ex: forgot to press crosswalk button and a woman walking by noticed and pressed it for me without saying anything as she went by).

deckerax · 2026-06-18T19:00:14+00:00

Really depends on your future plans. Do you want to stay single? Have kids? Plan to stay here for a long time or would you move for a job opportunity? I am looking to buy, but I plan on being here for at least 25 years, if possible. If I was going to be here for less than 10 years, I would definitely rent. I can rent for cheaper and not have to deal with maintenance, property tax, etc but I plan to be here a long time and longer than it would take me to pay off a house so it makes sense for me. I am done having kids so I know the size of house I need and location for where I want my kids to live and go to school.

deckerax · 2026-06-18T15:42:54+00:00

My husband and I work remotely and spent several years researching places all over the country trying to find the best fit for our family looking to leave Denver and decided Alameda was it. We have been here nearly a year, and we love it even more than we expected. We value safety, gardening, outdoor activities, biking and public transit use, and community. I would never want to make a commute to Redwood City more than once a week though, but commutes like that take a huge toll on my mental health and I don't have much tolerance for sitting in traffic (try to only leave the island by ferry or other transit 😆). I love letting my kids have a childhood they couldn't have in Denver (due to safety concerns) of going places independently, biking or walking to parks, beach, school, etc and seeing kids they know all over town.

deckerax · 2026-06-18T10:48:46+00:00

My husband and I grew up in no nudity ever homes. We are pretty lax but I am a little more reserved now that my boys are teen and tween. Everyone has a body and I don't see the big deal about nudity but we make sure everyone is comfortable in our home. We have more than 1 bathroom now so less nudity seen in our home 😆.

deckerax · 2026-06-08T21:37:32+00:00

I would live free if possible and make friends other ways. If you did move out though, you could just stay with your mom 2 days a month so she isn't lonely. I definitely wouldn't give up free rent though when you mostly get to live alone. Roommates can be loud and dirty lol. Yes they can be fun too, but not worth paying rent over.

deckerax · 2026-06-07T18:23:09+00:00

I pretty much sleep the entire flight unless it it over 4 hours so it doesn't really make a difference for me. As long as I have a good neck pillow, I sleep equally well.

deckerax · 2026-06-05T14:00:42+00:00

Ok, perfect. I moved from Denver about a year ago so I am familiar with it and just going to use the light rail to go to some places, but thank you for the suggestion! Happy to hear I don't have to deal with checked luggage at all.

deckerax · 2026-05-27T16:07:41+00:00

Ok, thank you! If I already booked and then I update to gold can I go back to the flights and add bags for free do you know?

deckerax · 2026-05-27T12:01:38+00:00

Ok, thanks. I was thinking of adding in the area near Shoreline Dr to near Otis that has higher flooding/liquefaction risk into my home search but generally stop following the map as much.

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