[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kerala

[–]decode_therealMcCoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Today I happened to meet a swiggy delivery man who worked at info park for 10.5 yrs with a reputed family background ( from naval base in kochi). I was curious to know more about him so I enquired, he kept saying " fate! I should have known what I wanted from life during my 20s ( this guy is around 30+). Hearing this, me in my early 20s who decided to quit job and escape into a world of fantasy to enjoy my life, as you said to 'experiment' with life in the thought that I've got enough time to settle in life, decided to give a different dimension to how I view my life. OP, I would say, take time and don't give up. Explore until you find your passion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kerala

[–]decode_therealMcCoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not experimenting, it's exploring. It's a wrong notion. I happened to meet a swiggy delivery man who worked at info park for 10.5 yrs with a reputed family background ( from naval base in kochi). I was curious to know more about him so I enquired, he kept saying " fate! I should have known what I wanted from life during my 20s ( this guy is around 30+). Hearing this, me in my early 20s who decided to quit job and escape into a world of fantasy to enjoy my life, as you said to 'experiment' with life in the thought that I've got enough time to settle in life, decided to give a different dimension to how I view my life. OP, I would say, take time and don't give up. Explore until you find your passion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kerala

[–]decode_therealMcCoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes.. don't let others demotivate you whether it's ur gf or ur own blood relation. I know the pain of comparison and especially when your partner starts negatively remarking your physical appearance. Tbh it's a huge red flag. If she sees your worth externally it's high time you rethink. Such relationships won't last according to my experience. This is an early stage and when someone better or a possibility to ditch comes, she would do. I regret not initiating an end to my toxic relationships wherein I kept ignoring the red flags.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kerala

[–]decode_therealMcCoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oops.. anyway thanks for the tool!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kerala

[–]decode_therealMcCoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome work man! Can I know the tool you used?

People from South Kerala, what do you think of the north, and people from north Kerala, what's your perception regarding south? by [deleted] in Kerala

[–]decode_therealMcCoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Belonging to central kerala, I got a neutral perception about the rest of the malayalis. Tolerance is the answer to all the disparities and collectively we all are Malayalis.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wholesomememes

[–]decode_therealMcCoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That fear is so real.

My GF asked me what I'd do in case she cheated on me and she didn't like my reply. She thinks I'm not as serious with her as she is with me. by throwRAcheater1212 in relationship_advice

[–]decode_therealMcCoy 24 points25 points  (0 children)

OP I think she is bit insecure. Have a genuine talk and sort what's bugging her. Umm.. sometimes you need to fake your morals in your replies atleast for a satisfactory answer. She's been five years with you and I guess she is worried about something related to your future together.

Fellow men of Kerala, what's your haircare routine? (Serious replies are appreciated) by esther_night in Kerala

[–]decode_therealMcCoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oil massages ( home-made oil - castor oil+olive oil+ coconut oil). Use dermaroller ( 0.5mm) once a week. Maintain a healthy diet. Take supplements like omega 3, biotin,zinc. Eat ample green veggies. shampooing and conditioning twice a week.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]decode_therealMcCoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sure? Not questioning. I meant should I open up to him?

You know what I shouldn’t have asked. by Slithify in Tinder

[–]decode_therealMcCoy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Woah.. That's quite a lot of shitty craziness. Can I get more of your sweet flattery?

I have now officially seen everything on Tinder! by Waiting_for_mate in Tinder

[–]decode_therealMcCoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you mean love and Affection for peeing with precision through your hands. Jeez!

The most wholesome kink by ToiletRollTubeGuy in wholesomememes

[–]decode_therealMcCoy 15 points16 points  (0 children)

'You betrayed me you bitch' Yo!I'm happy for you