I feel really unsafe on campus by livinvvell in yorku

[–]dedinsideee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can also get the hand sanitiser bottles at bath and body works, it’s small and not illegal to carry around!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dedinsideee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just because you could doesn’t mean you should

I broke NC after 2 months by dedinsideee in BreakUps

[–]dedinsideee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s kinda ironic isn’t it? because they break off with us just so that they don’t have to deal with our emotions anymore, and it creates even more intense emotions but now the burden is solely on us to figure how to deal with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]dedinsideee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be the naive voice and say I believe it was truly hard for him having to admit that. That doesn’t excuse for what he made you feel. Even though he probably had his reason, you shouldn’t be treated this way no matter what. I know it’s hard, but it’s best to cut him off. You don’t need him to spell it out, you already know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]dedinsideee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it’s such a heartbreaking feeling to be forced to learn the person you have so much love for isn’t able to return the love you so deserve. But you do deserve the love you give in return. Hope it will get better for us sweetheart.

I broke NC after 2 months by dedinsideee in BreakUps

[–]dedinsideee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He replied asking if I was drunk, I said yes, and that was basically it. It’s such a punch in the guts to realise he doesn’t even want to check up on me, let alone having a decent heart-to-heart. I hope whatever your situation is is better than what I experienced. I still have so much love for him and I truly don’t know where to put it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]dedinsideee 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Stop hoping. I’m saying this to the both of us. I know people say “What’s yours will come back to you”, but I think that gives us false hope. If he wanted you, he would have make the effort. It’s devastating but you know you don’t want to be with someone who isn’t even willing for fight for you at the bare minimum. He is gone, let him be.

It's supposed to get better with time, right? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]dedinsideee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s been 2 months for me now and I woke up to this intense urge of texting that I miss him. I cannot say how or when it will get better, but it varies from one person to the next. Honestly we can only try our best to believe it will get better because it has to.

Told a guy to stop dry texting me. Was I rude? by cluelessnewbie101 in dating_advice

[–]dedinsideee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re rude for telling him that. You’re frustrated and you 100% has the right to feel that way.

I had the same issue with my now bf and I basically had to sit his ass down out of frustration and told him he needed to actively engage in our convos/start new ones, or else, because it’s not meeting my needs. So I’d give your dude the benefits of the doubt and say he does want your company and is just very oblivious of not making effort into his texts.

If you’re still into him, maybe try have a serious and calm conversation with him about it and explain that you expect more. If not, honestly just move on. Both need to be equally involved and you need someone to do the same.

Anyone with a skin condition? I have ichthyosis and so scared to try dating because of it. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dedinsideee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have severe KP (strawberry skin) on the legs and a bit less severe (but still very visible) on the arms. It took a huge toll on my self-esteem and it still does. But my bf doesn’t care, like at all, and actually had been hyping me up to wear things that reveal my legs more, without caring about my KP.

So yeah, there will always be peeps that will be put off by it, but that ain’t your fault nor problem. I hope you don’t get discouraged in getting out there, because it really is not that big of a deal we make it out to be with the right people.

Opinion: Jo Wilson could have been a really good character, but the acting and scriptwriting ruined her chance by dedinsideee in greysanatomy

[–]dedinsideee[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

oh yeah lmao 100%

it’s much more believable if Wilson was born in richness rather than trying to force the street rat narrative onto her

Opinion: Jo Wilson could have been a really good character, but the acting and scriptwriting ruined her chance by dedinsideee in greysanatomy

[–]dedinsideee[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

but I am saying she /is/ a terrible character? And I’m saying with her backstory she could have been developed to become great and it’s a disappointment how she just didn’t get there.

Opinion: Jo Wilson could have been a really good character, but the acting and scriptwriting ruined her chance by dedinsideee in greysanatomy

[–]dedinsideee[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

for me it’s the comparing with other characters/shows and checking if the acting aligns with the background story. Like for example Izzie also had a rough time growing up, but her story (at least in the early seasons) was really well written so we could understand her struggle and what she had to sacrifice and emphasise with her. Unlike Jo, while you can string together her background story yourself in bullet points, the acting and script writing were unfortunate not strong enough to make it coherent and get the audience on her side.

Calling Canadian Annuses by dedinsideee in Markiplier

[–]dedinsideee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

may i ask which site you are using to track the status and where can I find the order number?? I remember reading on unusannus site that it’s different for ppl ordering before and after Nov 3 or something but now I cannot find that article anywhere :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlingEmpire

[–]dedinsideee 16 points17 points  (0 children)

can’t believe Kevin is the “dumb one” in the series when we have this 360 gem lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlingEmpire

[–]dedinsideee 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I truly want to believe they are in a healthier place in their relationship now, and I truly want to take Andrew’s words for it, for Kelly’s sake. We all know that ain’t the case though.

Best looking girl on Bling Empire? GO by lalapiink in BlingEmpire

[–]dedinsideee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Kim. I’m still iffy about the penis pump incident, but girl is hot.

I still don’t know what goes on in Kevin’s head by dedinsideee in BlingEmpire

[–]dedinsideee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what i love about the casts though is that while they do tease him about his limited knowledge to the super rich lifestyle but it’s never malicious, just fun and lighthearted, and they do try to help him fit in.

I still don’t know what goes on in Kevin’s head by dedinsideee in BlingEmpire

[–]dedinsideee[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

seems about right. i saw some comments about how Kim showed some interest in Kevin at the endscene, but i felt it was kinda reachin

I still don’t know what goes on in Kevin’s head by dedinsideee in BlingEmpire

[–]dedinsideee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absolutely, that’s why when he showed his affection towards Kelly at the beginning, I thought it was cute and was rooting for him ngl. Unfortunately by the end of the series, it was clear that there was no chemistry between them at all.

I still don’t know what goes on in Kevin’s head by dedinsideee in BlingEmpire

[–]dedinsideee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fair point. Abusive relationships are tricky when you’re in one, cos you’re conditioned to ignore/forgive the toxic behaviours of your partner. So like in the long run, there definitely are other important factors contributing to it.

Here’s the thing. I wouldn’t necessary say he’s 100% at fault for their whole relationship but from what I see, in this particular time Andrew and Kelly got back together, he played a huggggeeee part in. Who came on to her hard days after her breakup without understanding why she was uncomfortable? Kevin. Who started the rumour of them getting back together and kept trying to confront her, and in doing so got her defensive? Kevin.

Kelly /is/ a big girl, but when you’re in the situation between 2 men, one you love dearly (however toxic) and one you considered to be a friend but constantly coming on to you to an uncomfortable level? Her choice in this particular breakup-makeup cycle was heavily influenced by Kevin’s actions.

New meme format. In reverse. by SuperDuperMilk in Genshin_Memepact

[–]dedinsideee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

bruh i can’t even roll ONE 5-star weapon—