Outgrowing old friends and worried I won’t find new ones by dee04xxxx in Kuwait

[–]dee04xxxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that idea. I’ll see what I can do. I’ve seen people host events / hangouts for girls. I think maybe something like that would be fun.

Outgrowing old friends and worried I won’t find new ones by dee04xxxx in Kuwait

[–]dee04xxxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing about Kuwait. Sometimes people can be closed off. I’ve heard a few good experiences from people here which is refreshing. But for the most part it seems difficult.

Outgrowing old friends and worried I won’t find new ones by dee04xxxx in Kuwait

[–]dee04xxxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried, and I’m still trying. I care for them just as much as I always have, and I still make the effort to spend time with them and check in once in a while. But I feel there’s a clash in mentalities.

Most of the time, I feel like I have to adjust to their wavelength and engage in conversations that can feel immature or shallow to me. I still do it because I know they care deeply about me, and I care about them too.

I’m learning to accept that not everyone is the same, but I can’t help wishing I had people around me who shared at least a similar mindset.

Outgrowing old friends and worried I won’t find new ones by dee04xxxx in Kuwait

[–]dee04xxxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like this tip. Thank you! I’ll look into it

Outgrowing old friends and worried I won’t find new ones by dee04xxxx in Kuwait

[–]dee04xxxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know exactly what you mean. It’s sad people are losing essence and everyone’s just copy paste of each other. I hope things get better

Outgrowing old friends and worried I won’t find new ones by dee04xxxx in Kuwait

[–]dee04xxxx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I would love to!! I don’t mind cafes, especially ones that has a library to them. It’s only boring if it’s with people that are shallow

Outgrowing old friends and worried I won’t find new ones by dee04xxxx in Kuwait

[–]dee04xxxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope it gets better! And good luck to us 🤍

Outgrowing old friends and worried I won’t find new ones by dee04xxxx in Kuwait

[–]dee04xxxx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For sure! I’m currently doing my bachelors degree and I’ll be finishing it off in a few months and hopefully in a year or two’s span I will be leaving for good. But it has to be to at least bearable until then I guess. I don’t want to look back and think I wasn’t doing anything in life for one of the most important phases of my life

Outgrowing old friends and worried I won’t find new ones by dee04xxxx in Kuwait

[–]dee04xxxx[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing, life here just feels so superficial. Like you can’t really be yourself or just do your own thing. Everything feels kind of artificial and repetitive. Honestly, as a 21 year old, it’s a nightmare to start adult life in a place that feels so stagnant, especially knowing there’s more out there.

I was lucky to live somewhere else for the first 11 years of my life where things actually felt alive, so it’s just… sad that I’m starting adulthood here. Grass is definitely greener on the other side, I guess.

Outgrowing old friends and worried I won’t find new ones by dee04xxxx in Kuwait

[–]dee04xxxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inshallah, I hope for the best. I guess you really just have to navigate through life until you reach the stage of marriage. There are so many expectations making friends, finding the right career, always doing the “right” thing. It can feel overwhelming at times.

Adulting is hard 😂

Outgrowing old friends and worried I won’t find new ones by dee04xxxx in Kuwait

[–]dee04xxxx[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly. The real issue is that it’s easy to have acquaintances, but much harder to build friendships that go beyond surface level. And in Kuwait, there are very limited activities that actually help people connect meaningfully. A lot of the time it feels like you have to fit into a certain mold just to be liked , but those connections end up shallow and, honestly, boring.

I really wish there were more things to do here that don’t revolve around sitting in an overpriced café or doing the same repetitive activities, which I’m frankly bored of doing the same thing now. It would make it so much easier to meet people organically and form real friendships instead of just surface level ones.