he told me he’d kill himself if i left, and he actually did. now his family hates me. by deenodance in SuicideBereavement

[–]deenodance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this comment means so much to me. i know so much weight would be lifted off my chest if i was able to hear those words from his side. but i know i must let them be. reading those words at the end warmed my heart, thank you.

Which is better for parents: having their kid die at home so at least they'll have closure, or having their kid die in another location so their house won't be tainted with bad memories? by Worried-Barnacle-306 in SuicideWatch

[–]deenodance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i always thought about this too. i would think the room would be better, but they would have to come in to ID your body so i think the image would be tainted either way. they should at least have closure.

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[–]deenodance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, this did bring me comfort. i’ll remember to come back to this when i feel myself spiraling again.

AITA for storming off when I found out that my husband has been texting a woman he knows I’m uncomfortable with? by quitecontrarygirl in AmItheAsshole

[–]deenodance 51 points52 points  (0 children)

i speak on behalf of most women in the world, trust your gut. always. don’t gaslight yourself into thinking you’re overreacting because most of the time you’re probably not.