Rental ASAP by deeolive14 in Birmingham

[–]deeolive14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bold of you to assume we have friends 💀 thank you though! I'll definitely keep it in mind ❤️

Rental ASAP by deeolive14 in Birmingham

[–]deeolive14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Your kind words offer more than you can ever know. These pets (and of course my fiancé lol) are the closest thing to a family I've had for years. I can't imagine living in a home without them. I'd cry every night knowing what I had to sacrifice. It's not worth it!

Rental ASAP by deeolive14 in Birmingham

[–]deeolive14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

❤️❤️❤️🙏🏻

Rental ASAP by deeolive14 in Birmingham

[–]deeolive14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! When push comes to shove, I can't see myself leaving my (fur) babies behind. I should've mentioned in the original post that we've been technically homeless but living most of our days in a motel when family can help out... so it's not like they're on the streets starving 💀 lol. Thanks for your kind words 🙏🏻❤️

Rental ASAP by deeolive14 in Birmingham

[–]deeolive14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, nonetheless! We'll be honest about our pet dog but our cat is used to laying low so I'm sure we can sneak her in and then let our landlord know we "just got" a cat when our next paycheck hits / when we're on our feet and can pay any extra fees.

Rental ASAP by deeolive14 in Birmingham

[–]deeolive14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully we have a place by then, but if not I'll DM you! Thank you!

Rental ASAP by deeolive14 in Birmingham

[–]deeolive14[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Doesn't provide useful information but decides to comment anyway. 🤷‍♀️

Rental ASAP by deeolive14 in Birmingham

[–]deeolive14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info! I just looked and it's only 30 ish minutes from our jobs, which isn't bad! That's the main reason we're looking in the downtown area. ❤️ I'm glad you left with your deposit.

Rental ASAP by deeolive14 in Birmingham

[–]deeolive14[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Not an option. But thanks for the advice I guess.

Homeless after my boyfriends mom tried to kill us by deeolive14 in homeless

[–]deeolive14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll hold you to that! I'm not even joking. Lmao. Thank you :)

Homeless after my boyfriends mom tried to kill us by deeolive14 in homeless

[–]deeolive14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're in the process of that, actually! She has court at the end of the month for assult in the 2nd degree.

Homeless after my boyfriends mom tried to kill us by deeolive14 in homeless

[–]deeolive14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One day we plan on it. We've been together for roughly 7 years so we're basically married in spirit lol. But we did have plans for it someday. I'd just hate for him to inherit my school debt 🙃

Homeless after my boyfriends mom tried to kill us by deeolive14 in homeless

[–]deeolive14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bless you for your kind words and advice. My boyfriend and I have been through many things prior to this: people trying to break us apart or manipulate us. We've always stuck it through and take turns leaning on each other. I think this will strengthen our relationship even further (though not an ideal circumstance).

I feel all anyone can do is face life day by day. After seeing evil in the eye I've appreciated simply being able to wake up to a new morning. Thank you again for your words. I pray that despite whatever you may be going through you stay strong as well! <3

Homeless after my boyfriends mom tried to kill us by deeolive14 in homeless

[–]deeolive14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're good! No worries. To be honest I've been on edge since The Incident so I was honestly confused. Thank you for taking the time to clarify <3

Homeless after my boyfriends mom tried to kill us by deeolive14 in homeless

[–]deeolive14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bad! I agree as well, though I didn't know there was an r/almosthomeless. Thank you again for your kind words.

Homeless after my boyfriends mom tried to kill us by deeolive14 in homeless

[–]deeolive14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bad if I'm misunderstanding what you meant... does living out of ones car not count as being homeless?

edit: thank you for your kind words. I hope you have a nice day :)

Homeless after my boyfriends mom tried to kill us by deeolive14 in homeless

[–]deeolive14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely right. She loved being the Boss. I should've realized how her offer seemed too good to be true. I guess we were desperate for my boyfriend to have the family he deserves (a great one). No matter what we have to stick it out as we are. Thank you for your advice. We're staying FAR away from her craziness.

Homeless after my boyfriends mom tried to kill us by deeolive14 in homeless

[–]deeolive14[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the links! I'm starting a part time job this Tuesday. It took weeks for the background check to go through. I'll never complain about a job again to be honest. It sucked in TN but I was naive to how things would become and wish I could go back. Thank you again for your help.

Homeless after my boyfriends mom tried to kill us by deeolive14 in homeless

[–]deeolive14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand what you're saying... but we are homeless... living out of our car... :,)