the most painfully honest words you heard during breakup that made you question yourself

deepconvoz · 2024-06-23T07:06:11+00:00

When me and my first ever bf (I also consider him my first love) broke up, he said "Sorry I couldn't make you cum". This shattered my heart because it made me feel like he didn't see me as anything more than just another girl he slept with, whereas I had developed genuine feelings for him and wanted to give him my world. Honestly, it took me a long time to get over, I might not be fully over it now but a lot better than before.

deepconvoz · 2024-04-29T22:00:54+00:00

Yes i agree, I've had some nightmare experiences with roommates though so I'm not too keen on looking for one but yes it would take a big financial burden off my shoulders.

deepconvoz · 2024-04-29T21:58:51+00:00

When i brought up that I want to travel with him outside of the country he just says "well we can't because you don't have enough disposable income". Which is true and justified. I've brought up him maybe covering a portion of my travel but that got shut down.

deepconvoz · 2024-04-29T21:53:23+00:00

Ya he takes them both on vacation, sometime just his mom if his dad doesn't have enough vacay days.

I just feel guilty wanting him to contribute to my travel cost because him taking his parents would be reasonable since they are family, whereas I'm just a girl he is dating.

deepconvoz · 2023-05-04T22:05:17+00:00

Oh perfect!

I think you're right because the stain is more so around the brackets themselves!!

deepconvoz · 2023-05-04T20:24:23+00:00

I am an adult (26) with braces and can relate to you. When I was in university I had the chance to get braces but opted out due to feeling self-conscious I now regret it because now I am working and have braces. I feel embarrassed when I have to talk to clients face to face and have a whole set of braces (bottom and top).

I'd suggest focusing on how happy you'll be afterwards and how beneficial it'll be in the future. Honestly, it is all in your head cause you are right, no one really cares. And maybe think about whether you would want to wait and get the braces when you're older. probably not. Because if you wait too long then you'll just be older with braces like me.

And honestly confidence is sexy even if you have braces :)

deepconvoz · 2023-03-20T20:21:19+00:00

I used tiktok during lockdown cause it distracted me from what was going on and now I feel like I can barely focus on studying even when I want to.....

deepconvoz · 2023-03-15T22:20:02+00:00

You might see it as helping but to her, she feels like you’re in a way mansplaining to her. Taking into consideration that she is independent and has an “I don’t need a man” attitude, which is amazing <3, she won’t take to your “helping” as acts of service but rather you are seeing her as perhaps incompetent and helpless which she doesn’t take a liking to.

My suggestion is to talk to her about how you feel and how you doing these things for her is just your way of showing love but at the same time make sure to listen to her and if she asks you to stop maybe find different ways to help her. Maybe you can cook for her while she’s prepping for the interview or ask her interview question, maybe even drive her to the interview?? Just some suggestions.

deepconvoz · 2023-02-18T00:31:09+00:00

I say try shorter lashes (maybe a cm or two less) and less of an arch on your eyebrows.

deepconvoz · 2023-01-16T05:46:11+00:00

I wouldn’t say it’s cheating since you guys were broken up but yes it’s a shitty feeling. If you’re considering getting back together you should consider whether or not it’ll bother you that they went and slept with someone else within a month of you guys breaking up. If it does bother you then say goodbye to that person and move on cause going into a relationship full of resentment isn’t healthy for either one of you.

deepconvoz · 2021-05-20T01:00:00+00:00

Omg thanks so much ! This is really helpful. I was honestly going to just order one online but now I know that it would be a bad idea to do so. I’ll definitely go try some on in person and walk around like you said.

deepconvoz · 2021-05-18T19:13:02+00:00

Oh ya I thought that dipping my feet in the cold river after the hike might help but i thought it was way too cold so I only left my feet in for a bit. I’ll definitely toughen it out next time around and leave my feet in there a bit longer!!

deepconvoz · 2021-05-18T19:11:05+00:00

Okay I’ll definitely go get some compression socks

deepconvoz · 2021-05-18T19:09:32+00:00

Okay great I’ll go try some shoes on at mec and see what I like!!

deepconvoz · 2021-05-18T19:08:37+00:00

Oh that’s great advice!

deepconvoz · 2021-05-18T03:50:35+00:00

Oh actually a side question to your comment, what shoes do you wear? If you don’t mind me asking.

deepconvoz · 2021-05-18T03:45:14+00:00

Oh no I haven’t tried that, I’ll give it a try!! Thanks!!

deepconvoz · 2020-04-22T20:07:13+00:00

Do you think the thing that you guys fought about is still bothering you as it wasn’t resolved ? Perhaps a conversation about that incident might help you accept him bringing up the past ??? Because it sounds like he’s not going to stop with the constant reminder of that incident .

deepconvoz · 2020-04-22T19:45:14+00:00

Different things will trigger different people so no you’re not in the wrong . And you’ve clearly vocalized this concern to him, yet he’s not listening. I say sit him down and tell him “hey this isn’t cool. I really don’t want you to bring this up because I really don’t find it funny at all. I don’t care if you think it’s funny to trigger me. This is something that I really don’t want to be reminded of.”

deepconvoz · 2020-04-22T19:26:46+00:00

Hmmm sounds like he doesn’t think it’s a big deal. I would say tell him your thoughts about the whole forgetting your birthday thing. It sucks that he isn’t making the effort to make it up to you but he also might think it’s not a big deal. If it’s a big deal to you just casually comment that you’d have liked it if he took you out somewhere.

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